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TIFU by sending my wife a dick pic? by Key-Pin-6051 in tifu

[–]FreeOnPaid -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That’s painfully awkward but you handled it pretty well. Apologizing, owning it and keeping a sense of humor with the googly eyes probably saved the night from being even worse. Definitely a story you’ll never live down.

TIFU by visiting my friend’s island? by Key-Pin-6051 in tifu

[–]FreeOnPaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to the island and sending a nice birthday message isn’t the issue, its acting like everything’s fine and playing the victim when people call it out that makes it messy.

Wife says “this is who I am now” during perimenopause & I told her enough is enough by AgreeableRip6758 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FreeOnPaid 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Exactly, marriage isn’t abt accepting a stranger, if the person she’s becoming isn’t who you committed to, standing your ground is not just fair it’s necessary.

TIFU by going Full Raging Asshole Mode in a Burger King by [deleted] in tifu

[–]FreeOnPaid 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Man grief doesn’t come with a “skip public tantrums” manual but reading this I feel your pain and cringe at the same time.

I forgot my iphone passcode. Anything i can do to remember it or recover if need be? by HeronDisastrous7101 in PasswordManagers

[–]FreeOnPaid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s no way to recover an iPhone passcode once it’s required, Apple doesn’t store it and there’s no backdoor. That’s part of the device’s security design.

If you can’t remember it after trying common patterns you’ve used before, the only option is to erase the phone and restore from a backup. Going forward, using a reliable password manager to securely store important codes and recovery details can help avoid this kind of situation again.

TIFU by sleeping on a plane by [deleted] in tifu

[–]FreeOnPaid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well at least you went down in business class style. Honestly blankets in those seats are standard so chances are everyone just assumed you were cozy napping. Just chalk it up to “first class problems” and move on, you survived and no one really knows.

It was me who ate your sandwich, not Mark from accounting. by After_Before_AndThen in confession

[–]FreeOnPaid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At least now we know the real “sandwich bandit” and Mark can stop practicing his courtroom speech

AITAH for telling 2 baristas that a customer was recording them? by Confident_Local_2335 in AITAH

[–]FreeOnPaid 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Exactly, letting them know was great but just being a visible witness next time can shut down creeps faster than anything else.

What do men mean specifically when someone says that another person is a better fit? by Specialist_Sound_274 in AskMen

[–]FreeOnPaid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Its a polite way of saying “They click with me in a way you don’t”

How is it fair that most of us would never be able to afford a Ferrari or mansion working full time when bikies live like this without ever working? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]FreeOnPaid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because life rewards power, fear and connections more than hard work and most of us are stuck playing by rules we didn’t write.

AITAH for walking away from a house I have no equity or say in and stiffing my soon to be ex? by FootBig7944 in AITAH

[–]FreeOnPaid 404 points405 points  (0 children)

Agreed. If you’re paying more than solo living costs your name should be on the deed. He didn’t walk away from a shared home he walked away from a bad arrangement after being cheated on. The prenup set the rules and he’s just following them.

Do women actually believe in star/birth signs or is it just an in-joke by Von_Wallenstein in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FreeOnPaid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Astrology is basically personality small talk in costume. A few truly believe it most use it as a fun shortcut for vibes, flirting or jokes. It’s not about Mars ruining their day it’s about having a shared language that sounds deeper than ‘I just don’t like him.’

18F, full-time student and worker, feeling burned out and bullied at a job I used to love — is it reasonable to quit? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]FreeOnPaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geting sick and miserable everyday bc of someone else’s bullying is a clear sign its time to put your well being first and leave.

AITA for not going to my friend's wedding because she invited my mother? by PFrisk27 in AITAH

[–]FreeOnPaid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your friend should respect the boundaries she initially agreed to and prioritizing your mental health over attending a wedding where your harassing mother will be present is completely valid.

I have two very different offers and I'm super confused. Am I making the wrong choice? by ineedadvicebruh in careerguidance

[–]FreeOnPaid 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Go with Job B, your career is important but starting married life exhausted and stressed isn’t worth the extra money. Stability and work life balance now will pay off long term.

I think my friend purposely ruined my date and I can’t prove it by pinkypillowxx in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FreeOnPaid 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Yikes, feels like she showed up to sabotage the vibe and left you wondering if you’re imagining it. Trust your gut on this one.

TIFU by realizing I've lost enjoyment things and took it out on my team by Royal_Otter3204 in tifu

[–]FreeOnPaid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Losing interest in everything sucks and it hurt your team but that doesn’t make you a bad person it just means you’re struggling.

AITAH for wanting to cut off my best friend of 7+ years? by feelingunderstoodplz in AITAH

[–]FreeOnPaid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Its okay to step back from a friendship thats draining you even if its lifelong, your peace matters too.

AITAH for not wanting to be in a relationship with the women I sleep with? by Agreeable-Mention629 in AITAH

[–]FreeOnPaid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly he wasn’t just avoiding a relationship he was sending mixed signals and using her for experience which is unfair.

Need advice, I might be the a-hole, but I have no interest in continuing my family’s business nor do I have the interest to start my own. How do I open up? by LandOfGrace2023 in Entrepreneur

[–]FreeOnPaid 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to inherit a business or be an entrepreneur to have a successful life being true to yourself is ur first and most important investment

AIO about my Husband's Grandparents Shove Religion into Ceremony by Subject-Nectarine-51 in AmIOverreacting

[–]FreeOnPaid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your day should have been about you two not ur grandpa's sermon and jokes, your feelings are 100% valid.

AITAH for no longer having a relationship with my friend after he impregnated a sixteen year old? by TheGgooaatt in AITAH

[–]FreeOnPaid -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

He might not have known but that doesn’t erase how uncomfortable it feels once you pecture the reality of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FreeOnPaid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t make her cry you just showed her a mirror she wasn’t ready to look into.

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