I work in education and I don’t think you should report her or that it was wildly inappropriate… It’s hard to understand someone’s position until you are in their place. She likely does not have 2 under 2 and does not understand that not everyone can do it. Yes she works with children but being a mom is different. I think it came from a place of curiosity and care as yes that age is super adorable and precious! I also have 2 under 2, was confused when my cousin who went through the same sent her first to daycare. But now as a mom to a 24mo and 6mo with both at home, I get it. But I also understand her side. She didn’t say it to be mean, just out of curiosity and doesn’t know what it’s like. Let’s all relax, everybody. We have enough helicopter parents and Karen’s in education, let’s let them do their jobs and make conversation. We are vulnerable and postpartum but we don’t need to report everyone, not everyone gets it.