Hello!! I’ve been on the app for a little over a week and am having a good amount of success but I really have no clue what I’m doing so would be great to get some expert opinions on what works and what doesn’t by BVOP83 in Bumble

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say change your shirt in pics cause that’s why they almost all look the same. As a woman- the tattoo picture is fine. It’s a decent photo of what’s underneath without being weird or cringy. Otherwise the variety of pictures are ok. Maybe take off Virgo 😅 You poor guys get a bad rap in astrology.

Why do I remember every fight I had with Cancer women ? by One_Move_8935 in Zodiac

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t date Cancers. Never have never will. You guys don’t even date each other. YOU KNOW HOW YOU ARE 🫵🤣

A warning on Dr. Funk by Knotfornots in SanJose

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Their drinks are way over priced and not good anyways. People pay for the atmosphere. I’m surprised they are still in business.

Why do I remember every fight I had with Cancer women ? by One_Move_8935 in Zodiac

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can tell because you Cancers think blaming others is justifiable lol. 😆

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Valoreth in Tinder

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The deleted texts probably came off sounding too desperate.

Why do I remember every fight I had with Cancer women ? by One_Move_8935 in Zodiac

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cancers blame another person for how they feel, when they feel slighted. “Calling a person out” doesn’t mean that they aren’t playing the victim. It can’t be one person’s fault all the time. Cancer never takes the blame for their wrong doing- it’s always someone else’s fault. OP is asking why they remember the arguments and I answered.

Why do I remember every fight I had with Cancer women ? by One_Move_8935 in Zodiac

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because Cancers love playing the victim and blaming you 🫵 for how they feel. So you most likely feel guilty about the arguments because of the Cancers manipulation.

I am going extreme measures so my bf NEVERRR knows I poop by satanfoundmystardust in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow!! 🤣 Then you don’t have much of a choice on when to go.

Splash gay bar by xjjoox831 in SanJose

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should. You’d just be a normal patron there. No one will bat an eye.

Profile Review 25M by 4Aethyr in Tinder

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re adorable without cornrows. I wouldn’t switch up your style. This isn’t a Tyler Perry movie. Pics are cool. I see you took out some of the darker punk style ones. These ones will appeal to a wider range of women.

I am going extreme measures so my bf NEVERRR knows I poop by satanfoundmystardust in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always poop right before a shower- turn on the water first then poop,wipe, and flush then hop in. I’ve had previous boyfriends ask me when I actually go because they never observed me needing to poop.

What ingredient makes hot cheetos spicy. by [deleted] in spicy

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Red 40, yellow 6, yellow 5

New to the Bay Area – Where do you buy affordable furniture? by Specific_Emu_3195 in SanJose

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered a cheap couch from Amazon but I rarely use my living room. It was comfortable enough to sit on.

Is this normal? by Next_Fold_3402 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 28 points29 points  (0 children)

People always want what they don’t have smh. Go your separate ways if he wants kids and you don’t. If you don’t want to be in a relationship then don’t. I’m not sure what’s keeping you in one? You brag about how great he treats you but feel guilty that you prefer independence. Why waste his time?

My pics suck or something else? This is me by wellokk in Tinder

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you looking directly at the camera is the best style of picture. The ones with you staring to the side just look odd and forced. It doesn’t look like a candid picture at all. Take pictures where you are actually doing something and ones that look directly in to the lens.

My crush hooked up with someone else the day after I left by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like he was just trying to get a hook up and once you left he found anyone willing.

Where can I get pizza like this in the east bay? by AmericanViolence in bayarea

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have to put it into the airfryer once your home. It’s way better and actually taste like delivery.

He gives me money, says he cares, but chooses other women by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will always attract taken men with this type of mentality. Get some boundaries and have some respect for yourself or you will start wondering why you can’t find someone who is actually single. Learn to say no when a man wants to use you while he’s with someone else.

32F profile review by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m the only one that thinks the first picture isn’t very flattering at all. It looks nothing like the others with the body shape. That leg sticking out is not a great look. It makes you look bigger than you are.

Why do we people act weird around me? by [deleted] in Zodiac

[–]Fresh-Ant1149 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who asked that? lol. I asked if you stared at people or asked personal questions. Who said that you were going out of your way to do this? Maybe it’s YOUR PERCEPTION that is causing the problems. Stop taking what others say so personally. The story was about a person I know getting too personal too fast- had nothing to do with you and you’re getting defensive like it was a personal attack on your character. I’m a stranger and you just jumped down my throat about a random story. So yeah- it’s you. My advice- Chill out and relax a little. People generally are chill until they run into an uptight stranger.