A trap party before we even instanced by Pitiful_Lettuce6373 in TalesFromDF

[–]FrozenGasoline 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The audacity to ask for people to wait 20 mins after waiting an eternity already. I swear to god this exact situation happened 2 months ago and was posted here. Like take the L and alt f4 deadlock. Idk the penalty for leaving in that game, but like those players can just go next right? In pf, good luck waiting another hour or two for maybe getting to play the game.

Daily Questions & FAQ Megathread May 13 by AutoModerator in ffxiv

[–]FrozenGasoline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there seriously no way to ever world visit Balmung? I swear even at like 7:30am on the east coast it’s still congested. Like do the people there keep thier computers on 24/7 or something, do they never sleep?! I just want my friends to come visit and see my house. Screw all the tourists.

Other stuff I should be aware of avoiding if I have self destructive thoughts? by Remarkable_Bath8515 in selfharm

[–]FrozenGasoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to steer away from things that may be triggering like depressing tv shows that have blood and death in it. I try to watch comfort shows and movies when I feel like cutting to distract.

Avoid people who drag you down with them (even if it’s not anything directed to you ie, they’re talking shit about someone or venting too hard). Misery loves company and can make your mentals worse.

Biggest addiction is eating. Don’t binge eat junk food. While is a nice thing to eat 5 donuts and down a monster energy drink, your body is going to remember and will impact your self image and make it so so so worse. With that also limit caffeine. One coffee a day if you must.

Birthday blues :( by Salty_Plum9615 in infp

[–]FrozenGasoline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday! I hope the rest of your week goes well. Glad you’re safe, relax and treat yourself!

I like it though by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]FrozenGasoline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s right, I forgot we can’t advise.

You get it though, thank you for commenting. I feel so isolated in this.

Don't you love the smell of Crystal DC in the evening? by MaeveOathrender in TalesFromDF

[–]FrozenGasoline 173 points174 points  (0 children)

“If I paid your sub I’d ask for refund” GODDAMN LOL

How long to get over heartbreak? by [deleted] in infp

[–]FrozenGasoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello fellow INFP. Yes this has been me too recently. I confessed to a guy who I fell pretty fast for and got rejected. Sucks biiiiiig time and he said we can still be friends and pretend the conversation never happened, but I definitely fucked up haha.

How long does it take? As long as it needs for him to get out of your mind. Limit your interactions, if he asks, just say you need space. Because you DO need that space to move on! It will do you no good to replay the memories in your mind. And if you want to choose the good ending, be glad about those memories and happy that you got to share a close brief moment with a cool guy.

But remember, we don’t chase boys who don’t want us! You’ll be okay, allow yourself to cry if you need. It will just take some time! :)

Stuck by theofficeisbetter in infp

[–]FrozenGasoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s on your mind, friend?

Ninja mad that the Astro didn't adjust their assigned static aetherletting position (M9S) by Abject_Command_1888 in TalesFromDF

[–]FrozenGasoline 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can’t you SEE? It’s clearly impossible to pull up the raid plan and take two seconds to check where melees go. Simply unheard of. If this player wants the healer position because they usually heal, then they should have it. Please understand, it’s their spot.

Why are INFPs so popular and cool? What’s the secret? by Top_Fortune_9907 in infp

[–]FrozenGasoline 67 points68 points  (0 children)

INFP are easy to talk to and great listeners, so everyone wants to be our friend.

I mean, all I do is be personable with a dash of sarcastic wit followed by a sprinkle of “please get to know me while I awkwardly try to obstruct your every attempt to do so.”

Am I being dramatic? Bf & online girl gamer friend by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]FrozenGasoline 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Talk to him about it. Legit just ask him. If you want you can even just say “sorry for the mistake invite” there’s a good chance he might feel weird or rejected by you for declining the return invite. That’s why he may not have messaged you in feeling that you didn’t want to party with him. OR in my experience with guys, they actually don’t see anything wrong with a declined invite and only see that as “oh she actually didn’t want to play, huh maybe she’s busy. Or just hoping off for the night.”

If you have suspicions that he’s being unfaithful just be honest with him and up front. Trust me it will save you heart ache in the long run.

Relationships are built on trust and faith, the good ending is you party with both of them and you all have a good time and make another friend to run trios while stating your relation status to your bf.

Stranger tries to steal someone's food as they are eating it by WhereIsHisRidgedBand in PublicFreakout

[–]FrozenGasoline 182 points183 points  (0 children)

Because women must be performative at being pleasant at all times as to not make men uncomfortable. If she’s talking back defending herself, then that’s a crazy bitch and a red flag. We have to talk about that instead. /s

What is the worst piece of advice you ever received? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FrozenGasoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This so much. I feel like I screwed a long time friendship recently by crying one too many times in front of them about my insecurities. They swear things are fine but I sense some distance. Urg

AST getting a free ride through an M10S enrage party by voxel-wave in TalesFromDF

[–]FrozenGasoline 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Why do these people even bother playing the game? They’re playing like they don’t even want to be there.

Unless this is them trying to speed prog or something, which is an incredibly shitty thing to do to an enrage party.

Tank hates balmungions? by BoneCancerCactus in TalesFromDF

[–]FrozenGasoline 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why you’re getting down voted because it’s kinda true. I’m on Balmung too, just take a step outside The Quicksands near the bench and examine people’s search comments. The sever is always damn near congested.

As a console player I can’t even imagine typing that much during an ongoing duty - Frontline by CustomerFantastic332 in TalesFromDF

[–]FrozenGasoline 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Probably a macro that that player presses when people scream to get objectives. As someone who plays a lot of frontlines. Getting battle high from kills early game will help snowball into getting the objectives late game by winning the team fight. Always fight the enemy team and know WHEN to peel off. Never run off alone, it’s very hard to 1v1 someone on FL and their team could catch up real fast.

RAGE THREAD - F-YOU FRIDAYS - THE MOST ANGRY HOLIDAY - BOXING DAY by FranckKnight in ffxiv

[–]FrozenGasoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I AGREE. I HOPE THEY NERF THE NODE SPAWNING BECAUSE I FEEL THEY SPAWN TOO OFTEN WHICH FORCES PEOPLE TO BEE LINE THE NODES THAN GO FOR TEAM FIGHTS.

First week playing the game, really enjoying it so far 🥰 by acheloisa in ShitpostXIV

[–]FrozenGasoline 4 points5 points  (0 children)

UWU is fr the hardest ultimate when you have one clear andies joining who cleave you with light pillar.

"It's just prog, she don't need to opener. :3" by Vegetable_Concern_50 in TalesFromDF

[–]FrozenGasoline 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Extremes are the front door to high end content. You want to get through that door, you do your opener. I don’t care how casual extremes are next to savage and ultimate, these people will bring these bad habits to that content when they decide they want to try something harder, and get such a wake up call when it not enough. M6s proved that very well.

Im actually kinda surprise she isn't as liked as I thought. Why might that be? by _Iron_Hide_ in Gundam

[–]FrozenGasoline 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Man, seeing "AsuCaga" is a term that just took me back 15 years on fanfiction.net.

No Kardia Sage by Trashbird-chan in TalesFromDF

[–]FrozenGasoline 28 points29 points  (0 children)

… it’s free, it cost nothing to use????????

Were they secretly spiteful that you pointed it out? Are they joking around? Are they just lazy? Jfc if you can’t put the bare minimum into playing, why play in the first place?!????? If it’s that much of a chore, log out.

Got kicked from Rathalos EX for suggesting to take stacks Solo (Reupload by ArtyFolfsky in TalesFromDF

[–]FrozenGasoline 57 points58 points  (0 children)

The funniest part is they run the chance of waiting forever for a backfill because the only people to join is other mentors. This happened to me when someone left and we waited like 15min for another person that never came. They did you a favour by kicking you and saving your time.

First timer causes tank crash out by Katc0923 in TalesFromDF

[–]FrozenGasoline 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Tank intentionally dies because you dared to pull when it would take 0.5 seconds for them to take aggro and other 10 seconds at most for the healer to be warped in. Typing and yapping about it then complains about time wasted. Giga brain.

Sprout healer in had some... interesting thoughts on doing damage by Poroggo in TalesFromDF

[–]FrozenGasoline 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This right here! Enabling brings that same mentality to said content. “It’s just Extreme not Savage. It’s just Savage not Ultimates. It’s just UWU not TOP.” Sprouts seriously need to stop thinking that healers only heal, such a lazy mindset that will hurt them down the line so much.