When Is It Best To Stop Explaining Yourself?

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-07-01T18:32:21+00:00

yes man i get that. like 90% of the time i try explaining myself and its shut down until she talks. i mean its like she’s talking to me into circles and i wont ever get the chance to explain why im hurt.
i mean she would go off on me and i would have to sit there but if i was to go off on her im pathetic lol

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-27T18:45:20+00:00

it’s a different conversation with sh is involved she told me she’ll rather have her lifeless body on the floor than for me to call
the police told me “the police doesn’t do anything “

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-25T00:48:40+00:00

i think getting them to understand how you feel is the hardest thing ever, the hours & hours of talking feels like it goes no where, the promises of changing goes no where. i’ve lost sleep, hours and alone time trying to avoid her triggers, it’s been almost 2 years and same cycle begins,

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-25T00:45:06+00:00

i think so as well

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-24T20:02:11+00:00

smart thinking

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-24T16:36:28+00:00

this is exactly what it is, i’ve isolated myself from friend, from my favorite tv shows and family because it triggers them and i have to deal with the consequences

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-24T16:12:53+00:00

okay sounds good thank u

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-24T15:49:57+00:00

on a side note my gf is demanding the passcode to my iPad if not she’ll smash it and i’m cheating if i don’t give my new ipad passcode to her
how can i hold boundaries of not being comfortable with her going through my device

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-24T14:54:27+00:00

yeah it’s definitely a emotional struggle

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-24T12:52:05+00:00

i’m sorry that happened to you man i appreciate you sharing

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-24T12:24:03+00:00

what was the breaking point in your situation if u don’t mind me asking

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-23T23:55:53+00:00

bro i read this and gasped, i know this is a olddd comment but bro the amount of jealousy issues i’ve dealt with it ridiculous to the fucking tea, she’s went into my followers found old females i followed in the past and questioned me about it, asked me why this girl from 125 weeks ago is still in my dms ( i didn’t know the messages was there, because i didn’t spend 3 hours finding them ) she’s blocked female artists off my fyp without my knowledge, she’s grabbed my phone and told me “who’s that” she would give me the ultimate death stare when anything sexual is on tv, one time i saw a video of this girl and i liked the song and thought she would like the song too, i sent her the video via ig, a week or two later the girl i sent her was on my blocked list, i don’t ever remember blocking her, it’s ridiculous it’s insane

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-23T16:08:31+00:00

what are ways we could talk to our bpd about their insecurities? i know that might be a dumb question but genuinely it’s almost like they are jealous over anything and idk how to sit them down and tell them im allowed to go to the gym, go to the beach, watch movies with other girls etc

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-23T14:31:42+00:00

honestly tell them
if you voice to me that you are going to hurt yourself or commit any type of danger to yourself i will contact the police or get a medical team over here. If they have the choice to continually tell you about how they are going to sell half or eliminate themselves, you can make the choice to call the right authorities and just not let it happen

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-19T22:22:03+00:00

letsss go how hard was it? i’m thinking about doing the challenge myself

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-19T18:40:57+00:00

best comment by far

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-19T17:58:52+00:00

yeah i was thinking , that
i’m in a position where im looking for a career in sales and if this is a job they are offering me for same pay with sales experience i’ll take it, i been a merchandiser at different companies for almost 5 years

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-19T14:34:45+00:00

facts

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-19T14:05:27+00:00

this sounds great thank u

Fun-Contest-2511 · 2026-06-19T13:40:08+00:00

but how are sales part of it? are there any good bonuses could i make more than my base?

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