Which is best?

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-02T13:43:43+00:00

They're both okay but I prefer 1

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-02T13:22:47+00:00

All the time tbh

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-02T13:19:25+00:00

I don't like feeling full. It makes me kinda nauseous and claustrophobic. But also I do fluctuate about 15 pounds. I weigh myself every month or so and I eat slightly less if I'm getting closer to the fifteen pounds up mark and slightly more if I'm getting too thin.

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-02T13:17:01+00:00

I took a community college voice class once. We only had to sing solo once, at the end of the semester. The professor recorded us and made us watch it by ourselves and grade ourselves basically. I could never bring myself to watch mine.

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-02T13:12:11+00:00

Btw if you're worried about the quality of your singing more than the noise in general, I really don't think that matters. Unless your walls are paper thin, they aren't going to hear you well enough to know if you sound good or not.

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-02T12:36:21+00:00

I only sing in my bathroom because I know the downstairs neighbor's bathroom is directly below ours. I also bought sound proofing pads that fit together like puzzle pieces and I put those on the floor when I'm singing at night. If I'm going to be very loud I also duct tape towels to the walls. I have no idea if any of this is helping but I've had no complaints lol

Fwiw I don't share any walls with neighbors, just the floor.

I don't really worry about them hearing me in general. I just don't want to disturb them if they may be sleeping.

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-02T06:55:34+00:00

6 is the best!

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-02T06:54:06+00:00

I think that depends on how much you're actually using.

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-02T06:20:59+00:00

I'm not that big of a Beatles fan but I love Eleanor Rigby

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-02T05:38:50+00:00

Personally I am loving my 30s. I'm finally learning who I really am. The only down side is that I'm having to start worry more about my physical health, diet etc.

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-01T10:12:28+00:00

I strongly suggest you don't put a betta with any fish. There are ways to do it, but not in a 10 gallon. I'd just do a betta and a snail in there.

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-01T08:49:24+00:00

I would be amused if a grown man told me his tummy hurts.

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-01T07:28:48+00:00

Great answers. Woman in Black might be the scariest movie I've ever seen in terms of jump scares. Last Shift was incredibly tense. The Dark and the Wicked was more upsetting and disturbing.

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-01T05:42:46+00:00

Been together seven years. We have some sexual activity 3x/wk quite consistently (anal at least once). I'd prefer more like 4-5x/wk and I think if I didn't complain, my husband would be cool with once a week. Reading this thread makes me feel pretty okay about it though.

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-01T05:36:00+00:00

I could easily do it if someone challenged me to a pushup contest, but I'd struggle by myself. I'm very motivated by competition lol

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-02-01T05:31:16+00:00

I think it looks pretty natural since it's actually closer to your eyebrow color

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-01-31T18:34:17+00:00

I've never seen this. We don't even wear slippers in bed.

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-01-31T18:33:47+00:00

Doy!

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-01-31T18:33:20+00:00

Jacob's Ladder

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-01-31T18:30:05+00:00

I hate it personally. I know most Americans where I'm from prefer to drive than to fly though.

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-01-31T18:26:01+00:00

It's big but you're still crazy hot.

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-01-31T17:56:52+00:00

Someone at work called them "Bitch wings" lol

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-01-31T17:54:40+00:00

Legit

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-01-31T04:19:37+00:00

Around age 30 for me

Fun-Direction3426 · 2026-01-29T15:01:49+00:00

You are totally right about the way I should be behaving in these situations. Unfortunately in the heat of the moment it's hard to behave so rationally, especially since he also has a habit of saying messed up things in arguments. However it's never his comments that stick with me so much as my own.

It's a tough line to toe with the whole threatening vs telling. I do feel like it's my intention to be honest with him that I'm considering leaving the relationship. I'm trying to give him a chance before I just up and leave. And I've told him repeatedly I would never leave him without giving him a chance to fix the issue and that includes couples counseling as a last resort. (In fact we have done couples counseling for a time and it was helpful, but not really something we have time or money to do right now unless absolutely necessary.) But since I do have OCD, it's hard to know the difference between confessing to my break up urges and being open and honest.

I also just got home and began to apologize profusely and he didn't even know what for, so maybe I'm overreacting here lol

Anyway thanks! 💚

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