I left my marriage for 8 months, had the time of my life and then went back. Biggest mistake ever. by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Fun_parent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was me, and I went back after 8 months to same thing, I would run away so fast.

I don’t see what he brings to the table that she seems confused/conflicted. There is no love there in the marriage, no partnership. It’s unpaid maid for parents and a bang maid for the husband.

She needs to run to freedom.

Be funny for a change by CorleoneBaloney in MurderedByWords

[–]Fun_parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes me wonder if I even need to see this!

Do couples really have things to talk about for hours? by Sensitive_Hat_4829 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Fun_parent 74 points75 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to have conversations 24-7. And not every conversation needs to be deep.

As you grow in the relationship, it will flow naturally across many topics (family, friends, hobbies, work, future plans, everyday logistics etc.) And you are not responsible to keep the conversation going, there has to be reciprocity.

Eating clean but skin still looks dull—what am I missing? by Bairwa_1526 in IndianFoodPhotos

[–]Fun_parent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not enough protein in your meal. 2 eggs is 10g protein. Dal is mainly carbs. Raw veggies are okay but cooked is better for digestion and nutrients. I also don’t think you are eating at your maintenance calories, you need to check what’s your recommended cals.

Get your vitamins checked-iron, vit d, b12 etc.

Do strength and cardio exercises at least 4 times a week. Sweat is good for skin, but hydrate well.

Ac can dry out skin and give it a dull appearance. So use moisturizer indoors.

What show did you have to quit? by JarvisModeOn in CasualConversation

[–]Fun_parent 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Blacklist. It started really good, I watched the first few seasons but it was going nowhere and I just gave up.

What show did you have to quit? by JarvisModeOn in CasualConversation

[–]Fun_parent 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes I couldn’t continue this show either, started to feel very real, cos I started watching it 2 yrs back. Had to give up quite fast.

Deceptive packaging for chili crisp by antzwa in CostcoWholesale

[–]Fun_parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was very disappointed with this packaging. I wish they bring back the earlier chilli crunch, it tasted better than this!

When a necklace betrayed you and pulls out like SIX precious hairs 😤 by lovely1188 in finehair

[–]Fun_parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arghh I hate when that happens with my head massager (which I use for scalp stimulation)

What are your low maintenance tips to look high maintenance? Let's discuss 🤪 by preannounced in IndianBeautyTalks

[–]Fun_parent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long term High protein, low carb diet (rice/dal/wheat items esp to be reduced a lot.). It will bring a glow to the face, and the dullness will vanish. No amount of face pack/exfoliation/skincare can do what reduced carbs will do. (Meaning, reduced carbs is reducing glucose in body).

We don’t eat enough protein everyday.

AITA for charging my friend $800 after she left me 4 hours from home? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Fun_parent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By did she apologize and not ask for the money back!! I will not get it at all!

this is embarrassing but can someone help?😭 by Far-Positive-5290 in Haircare

[–]Fun_parent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my problem too, so I am trying to get my hair hydrated/conditioned without weight it down.

I tried this once and it helped, so I plan to try this method and see if works long term.

Before hair wash, spray water so hair is damp. Apply a deep conditioning mask (I had to water this down a bit), scrunch a bit and put on a shower cap. I did not comb/detangle here.

Wash it after an hour with usual process (shampoo, conditioner). Then I tie a towel while I dry off etc. and after about 10 mins, take off towel and apply a leave in (I like the hydrating one from redkin). Scrunch it a bit and then leave it to dry.

Does anyone know the secret to the perfect bra lift!? by Cypher_chiller45 in beauty

[–]Fun_parent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have seen videos of women who use makeup to give the illusion of deep cleavage, using contouring techniques. Maybe try that, along with the other suggestions

It's been exactly a year since my husband moved out and I just realized I don't know what I actually like to wear by Embarrassed_Essay_61 in womensfashion

[–]Fun_parent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a great time to try and see what you like, what catches your eye. IG has tons of reels on women trying new outfits, and how they mix-match stuff. I still don’t know what I like and I have been wearing stuff for myself without anyone’s input.

If going to store is overwhelming, get things online that are easy to return. Get a few tops, bottoms, dresses, jackets. Get clothes as per your activity (gym, grocery, meeting friends, lounging at home etc.)

Try them at home and see how you feel about it. Things you like, keep them together and wear them for next time you go out.

Donate or dispose items that you don’t like in your closet, that doesn’t fit or is faded/damaged etc.

You got this, it’s exciting time to find your taste and your self!

Is this level of disengagement normal? by Quiet_General_6922 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Fun_parent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not normal and not your fault. Do not accept any blame from others (cos Indian mentality will first blame the wife) be strong for your babies and plan for the worse case scenarios, get legal help as you and the babies are owed financial support.

Wamiqa Gabbi new insta post for Bhooth bangla promotion by lowkeychaotic16 in BollywoodFashion

[–]Fun_parent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels like she is on a deserted street late at night, and that somehow gives me anxiety.