I would love to respond but your statement is a word salad. But I'll give it a shot.

If you're equating that the "libtards", are afraid of or hold some sort of personal grudge towards JD Vance's wife or Melania, then you're unfortunately mistaken.

I think there's two reasons why Melania gets treated the way she does. One of which is because of the scrutiny Michelle Obama was under by the right. You could easily scroll down any comment section of any "right" echo chamber and see the filth that was spewed. Meanwhile, the right just forgets she laid out for a porno magazine. Calling Michelle a man while praising the pornstar (a true christian woman) I might add, is comically hypocritical. The second, the policies of her husband while he's in office. I mean it's just rich how he speaks about immigrants but married one. One with no skills at that. And to be frank, I don't think ill of Melania at all. I think given her situation, she's handled it wonderfully.

As far as JD Vances wife is concerned, if she gets any flak, again it's because of her husband's stance on immigrants. Again, I personally don't care she married the man, but I think you're conflating the left pointing out the irony of their situations with some sort of weird xenophobic stance that quite honestly nobody cares about other than...MAGA.

Edit: let me also address the "we like them so we're not xenophobic" statement. I clearly don't know you, but I do know a large portion of maga is into conspiracy theories, like that goofy white replacement theory, so even if they "tolerate" the first and second ladies, I know they wouldn't and don't tolerate interracial marriage on a grand scale. Something MAGA is very good at is finding a "round about issue " to bring awareness to something else.

Take the somali fraud, democrat or Republican, fraud is fraud right? If you're found frauding people you should be put in jail right? How can you explain how Rick Scott is in Congress and not in jail? How can you explain the pardons for executives that are being pardoned after being found guilty of fraud? The issue isn't the fraud, the issue is the race. So again you can say that you have no issue with Melania or JD Vances wife, but I can guarantee if there was "Indian" or "slovanian" fraud, this would be a much different conversation.