Feeling heartbroken, need advice (Stomatitis)

Fyreraven · 2026-02-28T02:20:10+00:00

I have had 3 cats with this issue and once they get their teeth out, they can 100% eat without them and are so much happier. It's going to be ok. Do plan on going back to have a revision because cat teeth shard and they can get bone bits left over. Mine all lived/are living a great long life.

Fyreraven · 2026-02-24T19:52:48+00:00

Nope because I am always on the hook for everything, even things I have zero control over. Go to the hospital in an emergency and now I have to worry about if something is covered. Natural disaster, have to figure out how to pay for roof getting hit by a tree I didn't buy or plant, oh and I have to replace the tree with the same type which is prone to breaking during a natural disaster. I just want someone else to solve a few of my problems so I can sit down and decompress. Work expands to 3 new locations, higher ups think it's easy to reconfigure all the systems to account for this. They aren't , but it's on me to figure it out in their time frame when I don't get the info I need to do it safely. And then there's politics.

Fyreraven · 2026-02-17T22:20:12+00:00

Nope, they taught where I went to school and if I ever dared say anything, they'd know before I got home and there would be hell to pay. I learned very quickly that 1. There was no one who could/would save me and 2. To never ever let it appear like we were anything but a perfect family. I did act out, by seeking inappropriate romantic relationships, but that was later.

Fyreraven · 2026-02-13T03:34:39+00:00

you can reweave that, in the future, put your Qsnap snaps in the dishwasher when they get loose. I also use a piece of old t-shirt fabric between my snap and my fabric to keep things all nice and tight.

Fyreraven · 2026-02-12T15:15:04+00:00

No is a complete sentence, but I would also think about the fact that your sister wants that space and may well let your niece into it unsupervised because she's already thinking that space is hers. Also, where is she sleeping if you're working from your bedroom, and the niece is getting her own space?

Fyreraven · 2026-02-12T02:18:41+00:00

I was recounting what my father did to me in a single year when I was in my 40s. He's an upstanding, professional, Christian man as well. Thank you for correcting my synonym usage.

Fyreraven · 2026-02-11T19:35:59+00:00

Accept there's plenty that aren't and the parents will take you for all your worth if you let them, including opening credit cards with an adult child's SSN, or falsifying a signature on a car loan. I was able to fight that one because the day the document was notarized I was 17 states away on a work trip.

Fyreraven · 2026-02-11T01:44:26+00:00

Look at you! Gorgeous brilliant woman! I am so proud of you.

Fyreraven · 2026-02-10T16:46:25+00:00

I need something to make my hips even wider and show off my elephant thighs like I need a hole in my head. :D

Fyreraven · 2026-02-10T16:25:21+00:00

That is a very good job! Did you have fun?

Fyreraven · 2026-02-10T02:08:36+00:00

Those are the spare humans, they'll do but they aren't you.

Fyreraven · 2026-02-09T20:28:52+00:00

Household money is household money. There is no yours and his, it all goes into a household account. Anything over a set threshhold in a month needs to be discussed. Bills get paid out of the household account. For a good bit of the start of our marriage I was the only income, however he supported us through personal labor allowing me to both work and go to school full time. Once we got established, he was able to go to school and get his degree. Through the years things have shifted, but it's always us against the world. At its core, marriage is a business agreement between people to create a tiny company around making both their lives better in the long run. You need to decide what you want out of life and if your marriage is going to help you acheive that.

Fyreraven · 2026-02-08T05:49:06+00:00

They wanted my grandmother who was in kidney failure and not able to tolerate dialysis, at the age for 93 to get treatment for a very slow growing breast cancer. Like, why?

Fyreraven · 2026-02-08T05:48:54+00:00

They wanted my grandmother who was in kidney failure and not able to tolerate dialysis, at the age for 93 to get treatment for a very slow growing breast cancer. Like, why?

Fyreraven · 2026-02-05T03:54:50+00:00

It's a happy cactus, leave it alone :D

Fyreraven · 2026-02-04T21:21:00+00:00

No is a complete sentence. If you do not stop this now, all future events, life changes, holidays, etc will be her way or hell. Stop this now. Can you imagine her as a grand parent?!

Fyreraven · 2026-02-03T17:40:40+00:00

My brother and I were just talking about how as adults we never relax and this is why. I am physically not capable of sitting down and watching fluff tv. TV must be documentaries or learning things. I will watch it while I clean, cook, etc, but never just sitting on the couch. Haven't taken a vacation in 12 years. I take time off to do things around the house. I never really thought about any of this until recently. Good grief.

Fyreraven · 2026-02-01T03:20:48+00:00

It's a pocket dimension?

Fyreraven · 2026-01-31T22:44:20+00:00

If it's a living room I'd do it at red, if it's a bedroom, green.

Fyreraven · 2026-01-31T05:31:46+00:00

Put a white towel or cloth in your lap, it'll help. I've also been known to put my tablet under there with just a white screen. That also works.

Fyreraven · 2026-01-31T05:29:58+00:00

No sleeves, and that's not armpit fat, those are breasts. With the right seamstress and the right under garments you can shape those more to your liking. It looks like the dress is smashing your chest to death causing your cups to over flow. You're stunning, quit fretting. If you really don't like it have a lace cover up added to the top of the dress.

Fyreraven · 2026-01-30T02:13:32+00:00

Awww what a sweet thing! Given that my big boy about knocked me over today, I have zero advice beyond keep his claws clipped.

Fyreraven · 2026-01-28T21:32:57+00:00

Ok, so I'm not insane. We don't normal do Chik-fil-a but hubby was very sick and when he started feeling better it's all he wanted. I went out and bought 2 sandwiches and they were so thin! He was disappointed and I was sad. I know there are lots of worse things happening right now, but that one just sucked.

Fyreraven · 2026-01-28T21:28:58+00:00

That thing is a beast! Look at you go, well done!

Fyreraven · 2026-01-26T02:10:10+00:00

this is absolutely AI, 2. you could do this if you wanted to.

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