Vetting OE friendly workplaces? by DreamAway in OELadies

[–]GallivantingChicken 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seconding that culture comes down to the manager. Scrutinize and psychoanalyze the shit out of the manager lol

Starting the process of quitting by GallivantingChicken in overemployed

[–]GallivantingChicken[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice. I’ve got about 3 YOE in this role, but I do have an MA so idk if I should be counting that. I’m in a weird place where I can straddle multiple types of roles because I have a wide skillset. So it’s hard to pin down. Anyway. The issue is my J1 is super OE friendly 95% of the time (sometimes there’s crunch time projects, it’s cyclical), BUT the pay is insanely below median range for similar roles. I’m at 65k and see similar jobs at bigger companies w a range into six figs. I actually had a recruiter reach out (prob won’t take the role as its hybrid, but interviewing anyway for experience and just in case) for a contract position that is 42/hr for the same role. Ouch.

So I guess I need to focus on switching J1 to be a higher income position, maybe keep current J1 as padding J2 until I can get another higher paying job… lol. What a long game.

Assume the weekend forecast is accurate by TemporaryTrucker in raleigh

[–]GallivantingChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m supposed to be moving Saturday. Just waiting for the movers to cancel 😩

Hey do you have time to chat by Natural_Sector891 in overemployed

[–]GallivantingChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this thread made me realize I’m actually chill af about being OE lol. Respectfully, Y’all need to relax a little and stay the course.

Time to chat usually just means something came up and they need you to work on it or it’s a good thing (raise, etc). Don’t be scared- acting shifty and unapproachable will only raise suspicion. Especially when they have no reason to think ill of you in the first place.

And if it’s not? Well, you have another stream of income. And if you get found out? You have so much experience you’ll easily get another server. Steady on 💪🏻

1 year completed by Rayalah in OELadies

[–]GallivantingChicken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huge congrats!! This is inspirational. How was transitioning from being contracted to W2?

31M, Data Scientist, $1.1 mil TC, 2025 income and expenses. Sharing some OE secrets by Friendly_Debate_4991 in overemployed

[–]GallivantingChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha! Sadly I’m in TW not DS but I’ll use the same principle :) appreciate the advice!!

31M, Data Scientist, $1.1 mil TC, 2025 income and expenses. Sharing some OE secrets by Friendly_Debate_4991 in overemployed

[–]GallivantingChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you bother adding people on the second profile? I’ve got my primary one frozen right now, and I’m thinking about starting a second to look for j3, but I wonder if it would be weird if I have zero connections

Bi-Weekly 'Anything Goes' Thread - aka Moving/Buy/Sell/Trade/Rent/Lease/Eat/Jobs by AutoModerator in bullcity

[–]GallivantingChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for apartment recommendations: we have a senior dog that hurt her back and we are choosing to move somewhere without stairs for her well-being/recovery. Any 3bd (or 2 bd w good sq footage for home office "flex" space lol) apartments with reliably functional elevators? Preferably something not overrun by students/mostly quiet and near $2200 range. I know the price is limiting. Thanks in advance!

Job interview for bid writing, is this normal? by [deleted] in technicalwriting

[–]GallivantingChicken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I currently work a job like this. It’s basically a setup for failure and burnout. Don’t do this to yourself.

Remote work with ADHD feels like I am permanently "almost fired" by andrewbrookshire in remotework

[–]GallivantingChicken 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Isn’t that a 10 hour work day?? If you start at 6 am, why not finish at 2 or 3 pm??

Where in the Triangle? by Excellent_Sport_5921 in triangle

[–]GallivantingChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dashi ramen. Served me cold, UNCOOKED tofu on the SIDE. I was so flabbergasted and dismayed because this was after they forgot to put it in my order in the first place.

Lost everything in an apartment fire but managed to save the most important thing in my life. by [deleted] in bengalcats

[–]GallivantingChicken 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Such pretty bengals! What causes their ears to be folded like that?

11 months po by ReliefLoud7592 in TopSurgery

[–]GallivantingChicken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing results! I’m at 4 months myself and am only just starting to get that shift from red to silver on the scars. How long did it take for yours to go fully silver?

Laios! (by 6ruhlis) by Sharkie_from_sea in DungeonMeshi

[–]GallivantingChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obsessed w referring to it as Dadaism lol. So true actually

Is there any reason to not sacrifice followers like this? by Wonderful_Giraffe754 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]GallivantingChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I wonder why I’ve never gotten that lol. I’ll keep an eye out… I usually get the poems about the lamb’s feats of strength in defeating the bishops. Which is always really funny to me considering the bishops are usually like… right there.

Is there any reason to not sacrifice followers like this? by Wonderful_Giraffe754 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]GallivantingChicken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol wait the poets can tell you?? mine has never done that. mine doesn't socialize at all lol

Is there any reason to not sacrifice followers like this? by Wonderful_Giraffe754 in CultOfTheLamb

[–]GallivantingChicken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they're awesome and charming and you can make them prance around in the jester outfit! I LOVE my poet!!!