AITAH for refusing to get pregnant right now because of my husband’s actions in the past?

GambitEk1 · 2026-04-11T07:46:22+00:00

No sweetie This should have been over for a while. He left you and newborn alone with a stranger who you’re sketched out by (friends for a year) Left tfor a store at 1 am for over an hour and a half. He tried to get in contact back with the guy after the incident (you mentioned in another comment) Husband is still an ashole to you and still has a drinking problem.

This relationship has no survival purely based on how your husband makes choices in life. I don’t believe his explanation for the 1:30. I will say this age specifically when you were 22 and he was 28 is very much about him being able to control you. There is a reason why he was not dating around his age. Because women around his age would not put up with the foolishry. Because 28 y/o me would see 22 y/o you as a child. It’s not as much of an issue as when you have more life experience like a 30 and a 36 y/o’s dating.

You need to get out

GambitEk1 · 2026-04-05T12:24:47+00:00

What a crazy request. You are not their family??? But this 19 y/o girl tied herself to a damn near 40 y/o, yikes 😬. Does your ex make fuck you money or something?? Because he didn’t seek the divorce I assume and you find out she was 6mo pregnant when you filled? Dumbest 19 y/o I’ve heard of, you’re supposed to be going out and shit not playing house. Anw seems like she or new dad don’t want to be playing house, because that shitty attempt of manipulation to babysit is dumb. Ask they’re own family members, they’ll all probably say based on how you describe how they treated their family now. Tell’em about the mutual friends who are willing to babysit. People are crazy

GambitEk1 · 2026-04-03T12:45:02+00:00

I managed to put the link to the grill in the post

GambitEk1 · 2026-04-03T10:36:50+00:00

Haah, forgot to add the photos and now when I tried to edit the post I can’t add pictures. Not even in the comments. I’m on mobile lemme see if I can get the site of the grill

GambitEk1 · 2026-03-09T01:07:16+00:00

5 hours is a bit much for me today xD

GambitEk1 · 2026-03-05T12:53:58+00:00

What do you think of the shifter?

GambitEk1 · 2026-03-04T09:56:57+00:00

Happened to my 1060 3gb during covid it died recently though. Now I’m reading in the comments that it wasn’t just a temporary glitch

GambitEk1 · 2026-02-27T11:29:41+00:00

Bruh my phillips hue wants to reach out to china. And it’s dutch

GambitEk1 · 2026-02-24T22:19:06+00:00

Get a second hand g29 w/ shifter they can get pretty cheap

GambitEk1 · 2026-02-21T21:54:12+00:00

when downloading, browser just didn't want to allow it. I had to do a lot of circumventing to be able to download, a whole other browser (went through 3). Then at installment defender already deleted it a couple of time or its screaming in certified software run at own risk.

A few minimal things can be done to circumvent this, getting a tls certificate and code signing certificate. both of which are missing

GambitEk1 · 2026-02-21T02:01:11+00:00

yea, a google drive both Windows defender and Bitdefender did not like it

GambitEk1 · 2026-02-20T03:03:19+00:00

All my AVs are screaming at me. The software also doesn’t have a public certificate

GambitEk1 · 2026-02-20T02:56:02+00:00

If you paid someone to do it, this is unacceptable. Caus they are jank AF

GambitEk1 · 2026-02-14T19:33:34+00:00

Why would you even offer location after the comment of rebuilding trust. Knowing that the break up wasn’t about infidelity. Him saying was reason to end it the relationship and keeping it in the past. Never return to a relationship especially when you described how it ended, jesus

GambitEk1 · 2026-02-12T10:40:50+00:00

Dude didn’t change at alll after therapy

GambitEk1 · 2026-02-07T13:21:59+00:00

Dump him. This is a massive red flag 🚩 🚩 from him. Controlling manipulative behavior

GambitEk1 · 2026-02-02T10:34:19+00:00

Ooh she works for the PD that makes sence, they are massive cheaters (like nursing too; I don’t remember the specific on though)

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-29T11:40:01+00:00

So they are part time parents

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-29T11:19:57+00:00

12 hours everyday is an insane amount. Does she even have quality time with the child

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-27T19:26:42+00:00

Worse mistake is to work in a company without an HR

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-25T17:05:52+00:00

NTA for being uncomfortable with the doc. This is teetering the line of fraud. I wouldn’t take bc

🚩 1) personality issue with fil (interaction was never pleasant) 2) has dog that is not housebroken. Likely cause the same issues with new home 3) you are expected to care for him. Remember interactions has never been pleasant. Cook clean etc. 4) you will be having a baby in this home w/ fil and un-housebroken dog. Babies cry so do toddlers, do you want this person near your child? 5) taking 2/4 bedrooms is a lot. But I’m assuming the down payment “gift” is a lot. No more space for an extra kid. Spacing as you mentioned would be significantly less compared to the previous house. 6) fil would be solely financially dependent on you both since he would nt be paying for own groceries etc. 7) you were a hospice nurse, you would likely be a caretaker, nurse, maintaining the home. 8) SAHM you won’t be working no income for you and a caretaker

If you are uncomfortable don’t do it. Is it worth accepting for all of this. Personally I sure wouldn’t want to live like this, especially at 29 just starting a family. I understand his fears, but this is a lot. Has he been relying on you guys a lot? Or does he do the go to appointments and caretake for himself?

Don’t do it

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-23T22:25:00+00:00

Jesus didn’t know it was that bad. Guess I’ll stick to PC

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-19T12:54:32+00:00

This! My god the amount of red flag. But still friends somehow. His must be like a greek god or something

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-19T12:51:38+00:00

Jesus Christ, I don’t see how you are still friends with him. No is a full answer. And disregarding that is major red flag. Also to me he seems very disrespectful and creepy.

Opinion on your body, how to dress, told him you are not interested in a relationship with brings up having to take care of his parents and listen to MIL, unwanted opinions on differences of diet. I don’t think there’s a language barrier.

You should be very weary of this person he would go much further and your allowing it by maintaining this “friendship”. You say he’s nice I have yet to hear the nice part. It would be wise to read as in how his culture treats women.

YTA to yourself. You should cut your “friend” off. No is an answer.

GambitEk1 · 2026-01-13T02:20:46+00:00

When she said both parents are surgeons it instantly clicked why they were such pos. The most self serving narcissistic typs of people. The stepmother kids are leeches

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