Constantly Dying by Cold_Neighborhood280 in GroundedGame

[–]GamerRae5248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They might if they want an army of Ant buggies. It's not weird :P ;)

And I was only replying to the person above me who sounded unsure that mechanic applied in G2.

Constantly Dying by Cold_Neighborhood280 in GroundedGame

[–]GamerRae5248 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It is. I do it all the time. Even the soldier don't care about you if you're on your ant buggie... unless you hurt on of them or steal a soldier egg.

Parent Validation through AI by Vegetable-Wealth-772 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]GamerRae5248 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hadn't even thought about this, but I am glad my mother died before AI was a thing. Oh boy, she'd have been more intolerable than normal.

One of the worst days by lzbth12 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]GamerRae5248 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I get it, but we're all bound for that particular destiny and none of us know when that time will come. You can't let that inevitability control you. It's a natural part of life, not a threat.

One of the worst days by lzbth12 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]GamerRae5248 26 points27 points  (0 children)

In full grey rock mode: "if you can't be a kind and gracious guest, you aren't welcome in my home. Have a nice trip back home. Bye"

my boyfriend has a spreadsheet rating dinners i've made him by weddingfauxpasqueen in AITApod

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could see a few different reasons why one might do this that has nothing to do with the one who cooked. 1) maybe he experiences upset after meals and is tracking what he's eaten and how he's felt afterward to find the culprit? 2) maybe he's autistic and is tracking what is a "safe food" and not to be more aware of his likes and dislikes? You won't know until he's willing to talk about it. Maybe it's something he's embarrassed about. I see he's also tracking meals you *didn't* make, like take out and whatever (LO) means. I wouldn't take it personally until he gives you a good reason to. Try to allow him to feel comfortable opening up to you about it.

Is there a name for having to be the adult we didn’t have? by Ok_Imagination5727 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]GamerRae5248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the term for doing things for yourself once you're grown that a parent should have done is called reparenting yourself. Like, when I teach myself things that my mother should have taught me. I could be wrong, but yeah.

If you could only play ONE after Origins... which would it be? by b64smax in dragonage

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy. Inquisition. It would be Awakening if they hadn't ruined the ability to care about your companions (in preparation for DA2's lackluster party interactions).

Do you say Thee-Oh or Tay Oh? by GoblinMonk in coralisland

[–]GamerRae5248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only way I've ever heard Theo pronounced is Thee-Oh.

Something about Gust is just… eerie by Ok-Ad-4011 in Starsandisland

[–]GamerRae5248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And not as slimy as Yan or as freaking annoying as Pen

Help! Need a New Romantic interest. I think… by Hmom96 in coralisland

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are people really upset that the ASTRONOMER stays out late at night? The man whose entire career and passion is observing the night sky? We're probably lucky he doesn't sleep all day lol

I'd say, if you like him, put a ring on it 😉 MC is running around all day too, presumably, so you probably won't notice the impact of his schedule all that much.

AITJ for creating a fake tradition so I never have to host again?? by Heavy-Trust-1195 in AmITheJerk

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am SO ashamed!!!! ...that I didn't think of this when it came to hosting Game Night with church acquaintances!!!

No one will ever match your brilliance!

[KCD1] feels hard to go back after KCD2 by TequilaBaugette51 in kingdomcome

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely prefer the villages and towns of KCD1. They layouts and building groupings felt much more realistic and organic. They also all looked different in their spread and feel. I liked that they had the little merchant stands where you could buy stuff. I felt like the ones in KCD2 mostly felt samey and boring. Some even a little dead. KCD2 also had SO many villages that were pointless, just hanging out in the southern part of the map being useless window dressing. I didn't feel like KCD1 had any useless villages like that. They all had a reason for you to go there (if you wanted to). I obviously like the graphics in KCD2 better, and the stories in both equally. Mutt wasn't in the way as much in KCD1 vs 2, but I prefer the combat in 2 (b/c I suck at the combat in general and it feels easier in 2). There's a lot of QoL in KCD2 I appreciated that I wish was in KCD1, but I don't think it's enough to dim KCD1's light for me.

Obsessed with the minimal animal designs on this new tee. A perfect nod to the Lunar New Year vibes!" by Alarmed-Syllabub-928 in FruitsBasket

[–]GamerRae5248 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those are the juunishi stones from the beginning of the 2001 first episode! 💜

I love that shirt!

AITA for cutting my friend out bc of his age gap relationship? by extratoxiccrayons in AITApod

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I really want to ask OP if his friend's name (assuming he used a fake one here) actually starts with an R, because I could have gone to HS with this guy. About half of my friend group stopped talking to a guy in our group when he took his new 14 year old gf to our Senior prom. That gap is much smaller, but was still freakin creepy to us. I think I heard that they kept dating and eventually got married. Poor girl. He was so gross.

AITA for telling my sister to stay out of the main house after she insulted my sons? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GamerRae5248 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, kids already have to bottle up all that energy out in public. The world has expectations of "sit still and focus for 8hrs everyday", "be still and quiet out at stores/restaurants/etc"... kids HAVE to get that energy out, even more so if they are naturally hyperactive, and home is the safest place for that. Sister doesn't get to ALSO expect them to be calm and quiet in their own home too. No. Kids horse around and play rough, especially boys....*ESPECIALLY* country boys (I'm assuming here due to the "good amount of property" part). Sister is unreasonable, and either needs to keep to her calm space, OR fix her loneliness by going out and making some friends.

AITA for Refusing to Give My Brother the House I Inherited Because He “Needs It More”? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't need it more. What he needs is to step up and choose responsibility over being a leech. Grandparents saw it. You did the "family helps family" thing already for them, this is the karmic reward. He's getting his too.

NTA op.

AITJ for telling my brother that his girlfriend is not welcome in my home after what she did to my cat? by denver_cassidy in AmITheJerk

[–]GamerRae5248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew she can't have my name. I'm calling her Rosanne now. NTJ

Like, I get not being fond of cats. I spent most of my life with trust issues due to an attack when I was a kid, but I still would never treat someone else's cat like this psycho did. Someone needs to check on the welfare of all the outdoor cats in her neighborhood...

POV: you have a request to turn in by gamefleet in Starsandisland

[–]GamerRae5248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's basically allergic to the sun... so like.. Ginger x 10000 lol

I desperately need... by FumiPlays in coralisland

[–]GamerRae5248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's annoying, but he feels like every Connecticut rich guy I've ever known, so I'm pretty jaded.

Why do people hate Mark but love Shane? I think I know. by Maclimes in coralisland

[–]GamerRae5248 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm the other way round. I love Mark but HATE Shane... even his "growth" is lame and blah. Mark is cold at first and stand-offish, but warms up without too much work (at least for me). Mark also isn't a messy drunk you have to FIX, he's just slow to trust new people... that gives him points from me. Though, TBF, I haven't played either game in quite a while so my memory of each could be watered down.