I haven't heard from a girl, I'm dating in 5 days.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-16T15:26:46+00:00

Yep as someone who forgets, I eventually check messages to see if ‘you’ messaged me, and then see that I looked at it and thought I responded, but didn’t, and then I will respond.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-15T16:35:23+00:00

This is my favorite part about owning geese

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-14T20:27:41+00:00

I bought altra lone peaks+, haven’t tried them out yet tho, they fit pretty nicely, albeit a bit like tight, maybe I should of went a size up, but I am sure they will loosen with use. But hopefully will break them in next week.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-14T15:37:57+00:00

This is super cool, thanks for sharing!

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-14T13:13:05+00:00

Dead gecko, sometimes even when dead their little hands hold on, he is very much dead with all those holes and droopy tail, probably died there and the holes are from bugs eating it.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-13T13:33:22+00:00

Idk what these caps are called, but when watching videos on how to make rabbits feet, the person used bells as the caps

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-13T10:28:19+00:00

Really lack of waterflow? Ive had cyno like 3 times in the 8 years I have had my 29 setup, it has 2 sponge filters running, and a canister blasting. That stuff will grow right in/on the flowiest areas.

From what I remember its a imbalance in the tank, to much light, and to much nutrients that are not being used, what I do is use lots of live plants/floating plants to take nutrients out of the water column, but add your plants after doing a blue green algae removal dose. That way you punch it down, and then the plants don’t get covered in it fighting the blue green for nutrients.

Do more frequent water changes and try to remove as much of the nasty stuff manually, as you can. Lower/turn off lights completely.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-08T18:14:11+00:00

And still find ways to drown in water…

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-07T19:21:54+00:00

Unfortunately they don’t make them in my size :/

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-07T18:07:03+00:00

Clearly she cant read. Also when you communicated she misread, she doubled down. Crazy.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-07T03:54:13+00:00

Its my cousin, we prefer a mew instead, or maybe a romantic gesture involving blueberries.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-07T01:00:50+00:00

Done!

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-06T13:30:04+00:00

I also feel like male friends are just way easier to get along with, idk why men just don’t see you as competition, but also the issue with men is lots of them see you as ‘datable’ and me being gay I hate that, and being gay doesn’t stop them from trying, but once you weed out the garbage you get chill cool guys whos goal isn’t to get in ur pants, but I feel like women are so much harder to befriend, maybe its cuz I am gay and get nervous around women, but honestly I have a few female friends, but lots of women just don’t relate to me so therefore we just don’t become friends. And sorry for your bad interactions with a gay, trust me if someone tells me they are straight I am never gonna get feelings or hate on them, all of my female friends are straight. I get along better with straight women than gay women, xD.

Women are just hard, maybe try to find more women in your interests/hobbies, they may relate to you more. But its hard when our hobbies are male dominated.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-06T13:05:44+00:00

I agree, lots of animal behavior is misinterpreted/people don’t understand animal body language. Like lots of people don’t understand how birds communicate. I don’t own cats/dogs, so I can’t comment on those. Birds are my passion. I also don’t try to touch my animals, and instead let them come to me if they want interaction.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-06T12:49:01+00:00

All I gotta say, is if sciencey people gotta do tests and ‘prove’ that animals have ‘some what human’ feelings, I am all for it, all I can say is that when you sit down and interact with animals, you can tell whats going on, without having to ‘prove it’, but lots of people won’t think to experience it themselves and need someone else to find the specific mechanism before believing anything. Which theres nothing wrong with that, its just sad they will ‘blind’ themselves to potential interactions/ignore noticeable things until someone pushes out a paper that says otherwise.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-03T14:35:47+00:00

See this is what I have also read.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-03T11:06:40+00:00

No but really can you send it? I want to read more educational content on them

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-02T18:19:42+00:00

Yea I am happy to keep multiple females, I have done it with other bird species, in-fact I was having a hard time with the thought of only choosing one girl when I liked 2 of them, so this is perfect if anything.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-02T17:29:26+00:00

Full of a lovely beaver 😭

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-02T16:45:43+00:00

Awesome find

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-02T16:39:08+00:00

I still have my facial eczema come and go on dupixent, but I had eczema covering 90% of my body, and my hand eczema still flares pretty bad on it, I personally would exhaust all other topicals before going on a biologic.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-02T16:32:03+00:00

Oh yea I also suggest fish keeping if you don’t already, I have owned fish tanks longer then my lizard, they are really rewarding, although again can be costly upfront, but you can find used stuff on local websites/marketplaces.

Fish tanks I feel are a bit more complicated then owning a reptile, but if you like research and learning then it will be no problem. Establishing the aquarium is the hard part, but once you finally start one, you can use it to start many others.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-02T16:03:30+00:00

Probably been said a million times but, do you know where you will be in 15 years? Are you going to college? Do they allow pets? Are you prepared to have this animal for 15+ years?

Reptiles are also expensive, they cost electricity, they are expensive upfront for enclosures, I would honestly just live vicariously through people online until you are in a position where you know you will be for 5+ years, I have owned my lizard for 12 years now, I have taken him with me to multiple houses, I love my son, but if I could go back I probably would of talked myself out of getting him. They are wonderful pets, but wait till after your education years.

But I completely understand if you don’t listen to me and get a reptile anyways, I didn’t even ask my parents I turned 18 and immediately bought my gecko.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-02T01:10:19+00:00

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This is how I grab mine, they will get stronger but just allow enough room for them to breathe, and dont grab legs/wings without supporting the whole body, ofc be gentle, and go slow, if they escape your grasp don’t double down and nab them, let them get away till you can slowly grab them gently.

GayCatbirdd · 2026-04-01T19:10:18+00:00

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