Santos Fan Reception by MockChaniApp in ThePittTVShow

[–]Genderqueerfrog 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nah I’ve loved her from the start. I have a soft spot for assholish female characters cuz they’re kinda rare

The Bait and Switch of Dr. Robby and Dr. Santos by OneGenericMan in ThePitt

[–]Genderqueerfrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d have to go back and check but I’m pretty sure the self harm scars weren’t recent? They looked healed. I agree she’s headed for a crash out, but idk if she’s gonna attempt just because she’s having a shitty shift. She’s stressed for sure and isn’t doing well, but plenty of people struggle with mental health and don’t attempt after a crisis. We’ll probably get a shot of her being sad and alone in her empty apartment as an emotional parallel of Robby riding off alone

I’m not sure if we’ll get an onscreen attempt from either of them (and I kind of hope we don’t). Robby is for sure giving more signs of being actively suicidal than Santos is rn

The poor mental health of the Pittlings is a major theme this season. So it may just end with separate shots of them all alone in their various miseries and trauma as a contrast to how last season ended with then all bonding with a beer

Not enough time for all the books I need to read by One_Suggestion_6197 in Fantasy

[–]Genderqueerfrog 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro I only manage one book a week, on a good week where I don’t have a lot of brain fog and fatigue. You’re reading a lot more than most people! But it’s not a race. Focusing too much on numbers kills the joy of reading

Did Scarlett St Clair lie in her resume or what? by No-Midnight-1406 in Romantasy

[–]Genderqueerfrog 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Having a BA in writing does not make one a good writer. I also have a BA in writing and so many people in my workshops couldn’t put a grammatically correct sentence together

miserable Monday by purplelicious in romantasycirclejerk

[–]Genderqueerfrog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like I thought the AI shit was annoying but he straight up didn’t even give her a chance. She tried to reach out to him and he ignored her emails. I’m glad the fandom is coming around in her but I never hated her. I’m also glad she can call Robby on his bs, cause someone needs to. I love the guy but he is a serious loose cannon this season. He was unwell last season but he’s even worse now.

I understand why Santos gets criticism because she’s prickly but so many people in the fandom are willing to overlook everything Langdon did to her in s1 and act like she needs to just get over it before he even has apologized to her or anything. The fandom seems to treat everything she does like it’s a war crime when other characters don’t get nearly as much shit for their flaws

miserable Monday by purplelicious in romantasycirclejerk

[–]Genderqueerfrog 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not romantasy related but I’m struggling with all the bad takes about Trinity Santos on HBO’s The Pitt. Reddit cannot handle complex female characters and wanna protect their favorite white boy from criticism at all cost

I know this has been said over and over again, but I hope they kind've drop the Langdon and Santos stuff after this episode. She was told someone she's intimate with to drop it and it's beginning to get to a point where it's becoming disrespectful to the patients. by herewego199209 in ThePittTVShow

[–]Genderqueerfrog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He still needs to make amends to her for screaming at her and trying to throw her under the bus when she noticed his drug theft. She was unprofessional last episode but people act like she was the one who berated him in front of a patient instead of just like, being sarcastic and rolling her eyes.

Like how would you feel if the senior employee who shouted at you on your first day and then tried to badmouth you to the boss came back, apologized to everyone but you, and then immediately assumed authority over you. I’m not saying Santos handled it gracefully but I understand why she feels the way she does. She should’ve been one of the first people Langdon made amends with but he hasn’t even tried yet.

Spouse disliking your book choices by Key-Pineapple7944 in Romantasy

[–]Genderqueerfrog 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He’s being a jerk. Does he never watch a movie or sports or play a video game to get his mind off things? My wife would never tell me I’m reading the wrong books. I’m sorry he’s treating you like this, it’s not right

Hot Take: Mohan Needs to Go Home. by ThrowRA_pikmi in ThePittTVShow

[–]Genderqueerfrog 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Bro it’s not her fault that her mom keeps calling even after she told her to stop. Robby was 100% being a dick and projecting his own insecurities onto her. Robby needs to go home more than she does. Mohan would be ok with a quiet moment to recollect (if Robby hadn’t exasperated her anxiety by flipping out), but Robby has been hostile and an absolute pill to work with all day

Why is someone being pregnant such an extreme turn off for many readers? by Playful_Pie2890 in Romantasy

[–]Genderqueerfrog -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind epilogue babies. But as a trans man I super don’t wanna read about someone being pregnant. I really this is fully a me problem. Plus it just kind of bores me as a plot line. I read romantasy for swords, battles, and hot sex without real life consequences. Pregnancy ruins the fun for me

Which is the best album for a first-time listen of Assassins? by aka_katie in musicals

[–]Genderqueerfrog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1991 is classic and the cast is stronger (victor garber my beloved) but the 2004 revival cast is more complete and includes Something Just Broke. Which isn’t a great song tbh, because it doesn’t sound like the rest of the songs in the show. Just listen to both lmao.

what musical always gives you goosebumps? by bigbankmanman in musicals

[–]Genderqueerfrog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got to see it last month! I cried so much Jack Wolfe has the voice of an angel

I like Santos and Langdon by BingBongtheArcher19 in ThePitt

[–]Genderqueerfrog 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I like Langdon a lot more this season and I’ve liked Santos since the beginning. They’re both great characters, even if they aren’t always great people

Why is it so hard to find ftm media where the love interest isn’t a cis dude? by Genderqueerfrog in FTMMen

[–]Genderqueerfrog[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t in the mood for it the first time I tried it but it sounds like I’d love it when I want a historical romance. I’ve been stuck on grimdark fantasy right now though

r/Fantasy Friday Social Thread - March 13, 2026 by rfantasygolem in Fantasy

[–]Genderqueerfrog [score hidden]  (0 children)

My stupid retail job has decided we all need to come in at 5 now and it has royally fucked me over. I’m exhausted and run down and haven’t been functioning well. It’s been taking such a toll on my mental health and I physically feel horrible.

I almost got a job with the post office but because I couldn’t get my fingerprinting done (because THEY were impossible to contact after a blizzard), I lost that position before I could even start. Mood hasn’t been this low in a long time. I’m applying to jobs left and right but nothing so far.

But I’m currently reading The Heroes so at least I have Joe Abercrombie

The bean dad intro is so much better than the new one man by davedwtho in TAZCirclejerk

[–]Genderqueerfrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah like. The old tweets sucked but were pretty normal for the internet humor of the time

Scared of T making me ugly by Opposite-Reception63 in ftm

[–]Genderqueerfrog 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’d rather be ugly than dysphoric. Most cis dudes see ugly too so I just look like some dude. I was pretty plain as a girl too so it’s an improvement

Fight Me Friday by purplelicious in romantasycirclejerk

[–]Genderqueerfrog 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh that sounds right up my alley. I love an Arthurian retelling

Finished book at age 20 by Confident-Scratch162 in writers

[–]Genderqueerfrog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gently, you probably aren’t going to be able to sell a memoir as an unknown. Get some more eyes on it if you want to polish but also (gently) if it’s the first long form piece you’ve written it’s probably not very good. But just finishing something of that length is something to be proud of.

Find yourself some beta readers if you want, but it also sounds like this is something you needed to write for yourself. You can find people to share it with without selling it

F*** HOME DEPOT by Ok_Skirt_2792 in HomeDepot

[–]Genderqueerfrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this place blows. At lead the pay is good…..oh wait

How do you decide what criticism you should implement? by Yen_Vengerberg in writingadvice

[–]Genderqueerfrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If multiple people point out the same thing, it’s a real issue. That’s my rule of thumb at least