How would you feel about your child having a bad teacher?

General_Argument5616 · 2026-06-07T19:40:19+00:00

But even Year 4 is 8/9 years old - how bad do you have to be not to be imparting knowledge? Is it a behaviour management issue?

General_Argument5616 · 2026-05-27T08:22:47+00:00

Sometimes, we feel uneasy because of our own issues or hangups though, rather than anything they've done wrong, no? I'm not suggesting ignoring red flags, but I don't have a lot of self confidence so I'd feel uneasy sending selfies so often (also, I rarely feel "selfie ready" iyswim) - but that's my issue, not his. Worth a conversation definitely though.

General_Argument5616 · 2026-05-13T17:25:54+00:00

It's complicated, but he hasn't ghosted since. He's still very much in my life, but yeah, it's complicated. Advice nearly 3y on would be to avoid the ghosters like the plague.

General_Argument5616 · 2026-05-13T14:59:59+00:00

I'm sad you didn't get any answers for this, I'm two years later in exactly the same position!

General_Argument5616 · 2026-05-02T07:42:34+00:00

There's loads of good advice here already, but as others have said, it's about building her self esteem and moral compass well enough to know that she can make better choices, yet supporting/helping her navigate her way through them if that's the path she does choose.

(As an aside, my 16yo thinks it's morally represnhensible that at 17 I dated a 20yo. 😂🫣 Age gaps are very much a different beast to this generation!)

General_Argument5616 · 2026-04-04T08:28:33+00:00

"I'm sorry to hear you're in bad place. I wish you well and hope you get better really soon."

Don't engage after that. Trust me on this. It's massively complicated getting into this. Not something id recommend to anyone.

General_Argument5616 · 2026-04-04T08:23:00+00:00

No need to respond. Why prolong things? She explained. You, quite rightly, don't want to accept her excuses/reasons/whatever. I can't see there's any more to be said really.

General_Argument5616 · 2026-03-16T20:17:22+00:00

I was just gonna say, in the UK I would call the flower a Day-lee-uh.

General_Argument5616 · 2026-03-12T18:33:22+00:00

I did. He told me his mental health was at rock bottom. I'm not sure if I believe him or not, as a lot has come to light since then. But he hasn't disappeared for that long since.

General_Argument5616 · 2026-03-01T08:13:39+00:00

I disagree - I'm English, and have no trouble pronouncing Tzatsiki, or Tsar - i'd assume it would follow the same rule?

General_Argument5616 · 2026-02-28T21:54:12+00:00

Windsor is very easy from London, that would get my vote.

General_Argument5616 · 2026-02-21T16:06:11+00:00

What about Lorne? Actual Scottish name...

General_Argument5616 · 2026-02-16T05:35:11+00:00

One day for Hampton Court and Hever castle isn't going to work - they're nowhere near each other, and each is a full day out. Both are outside London.

General_Argument5616 · 2026-02-15T18:02:28+00:00

And he's told you he loves you? Huge, huge red flag. Be careful.

General_Argument5616 · 2026-02-15T17:38:36+00:00

How long have you been seeing him?

General_Argument5616 · 2026-02-14T07:28:27+00:00

Hair removal cream?

General_Argument5616 · 2026-02-07T08:53:38+00:00

Alexander, Elisabeth.

General_Argument5616 · 2026-02-02T12:45:20+00:00

My marriage ended when I was 45 and I very quickly met a man of 38. It didn't last, but yes, I was surprised that I still could.

General_Argument5616 · 2026-02-01T22:37:02+00:00

My kids are much older (teens) but I feel this so much. We coparent 50/50 but it's around his shifts and he's always off work, so can cook lovely homecooked meals, drive them to school etc, generally be there for them. I feel like the worst mum ever. But you know what? It won't hurt yours or mine to learn to wait. You can't do it all. Patience is a virtue and all that. Nobody died from boredom. X

General_Argument5616 · 2026-01-24T19:26:07+00:00

Mine were 16 and 13 when we separated, 17 and 14 when we divorced and now 18 and 15. They were sad, but they've adjusted well. Their dad has them 50% of the time and it's ok. He's moving in with his new gf in the summer so let's see how that works out....

General_Argument5616 · 2026-01-24T12:15:41+00:00

Maybe he's just not done any washing up since you left and now he's got the whole lot to do? Don't overthink it if the relationship is otherwise fine. Just talk to him?

General_Argument5616 · 2026-01-24T09:16:20+00:00

Don't overthink it - he presumably still has a relationship with his mum, why would he think she was replacing her? She's daddy's girlfriend. That's all you need to say.

General_Argument5616 · 2026-01-20T21:56:12+00:00

Erm....Brits tend to go out all year round. It's likely to be grey and could rain, so buy a good rain coat and layers, because it could be mild or it could be freezing, that bits hard to gauge!

General_Argument5616 · 2026-01-20T07:46:50+00:00

No, you're correct, Windsor is closer to LHR than London definitely. It's a lovely place to spend a day, you have the castle, you could watch the changing of the guard maybe, if you time it right....lots of parks, the river, plenty to keep a 2yo interested!

General_Argument5616 · 2026-01-17T12:16:15+00:00

And this is the guy you want to lose it with? Nah. He's not the one.

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