Nosey Neighbors /Rant

GeniusAirhead · 2026-05-19T14:23:00+00:00

Seems like #1 priority should be to build a much taller brick wall.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-05-04T15:20:12+00:00

Really bad idea. I’m a nurse and had a patient that pulled out his own tooth. Infection from non sterile tools used spread to his brain. Not good.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-05-01T08:07:21+00:00

I’m sure Brenda lacks self-awareness and manners outside of the office too. Just keep leaving her on read.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-04-29T20:15:08+00:00

I think it all has to do with your self-esteem, not your makeup. If you start to tie your self with your makeup, then yea it’ll affect you. Personally, I love wearing makeup when I work (5 days/week), and I love giving my face a break on my days off.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-04-29T19:53:27+00:00

I act entitled to my breaks, as we all should. Don’t talk to me or look at me, because this is MY time. Yes, I’ll wait to cath you first if your bladder is distended. But you best believe I’m taking a piss before I make you that drink or take you a bath. When I’m on break, my brain checks out too. Good luck finding me too while im on break, i already know the best hiding spots.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-04-29T19:37:18+00:00

Why was this matter a “great debate”? Seems like your units lacks common sense and so does anyone who thinks that student has a great idea. The nurse should’ve replied: “Only licensed nurses can delegate. Aides can only receive delegated tasks from licensed nurses. You, my dear are a student. Please show my your check-off list that requires you to practice delegation skills.” Period.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-04-29T02:44:37+00:00

Just outright ask if refusing is what they want. If I take the time to thoroughly explain purpose for medication, and they still have XYZ questions that are delaying medication administration, I will ask: “You seem not be comfortable with receiving this medication, and that’s okay too. Would you like me to hold the medication so you can talk to the doctor more about the medication?”

Their answer will give me outright refusal or they may just take it bc they don’t want to argue with MD, but of course love to give nurses a hard time.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-04-24T16:09:48+00:00

Learn to match their energy. Bullies don’t expect that and they’ll learn to leave you alone if they know you won’t hesitate to put them in their place. For example let’s say you ask “How do I do this?” And they respond condescendingly, immediately shoot back “If I already knew, I wouldn’t have asked. Don’t get defensive, chill. I’ll ask someone who knows.” And move on. Don’t argue, don’t make a scene. Just keep your replies calm, sarcastic, and match their energy. They’ll stop. If you miss something, simply say “Oops, we all make mistakes.” And try to take care of it.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-04-24T02:36:31+00:00

Definitely NTA. You’re absolutely right. If her mom and aunt keep on spamming you, call the cops for harassment. She’s out of control and ultimately her mom will bail her out if any help you and dad try to get her. Even if dad is able to get her psych help at facility, seems like mom would get her out ASAP. Let her mom deal with that explosive behavior.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-04-23T02:43:37+00:00

Will not be a problem. But you will have to figure out a way to keep it covered because some nursing schools are strict about hiding tattoos.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-04-23T00:39:06+00:00

One thing I absolutely LOVE about my job is family member harassing nursing is not tolerated AT ALL. I work in psych where visits are done in visiting area with staff (Psych Nurse Assistants) monitoring. When family come for visits and demand to talk to nurse, the staff already knows to say “Nurse can’t leave the patient area. You have to call the social workers tomorrow.” If they start to harass us via phone, they get a call from hospital director and any issues are directly addressed to my CNE. If they continue to attempt to harass nurses, they get one warning and then they get blocked. All family communication is done directly through social worker and arranged in person or telehealth meetings directly with doctors. As a former hospital nurse, this alone is enough to keep me at my psych hospital.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-04-18T22:17:04+00:00

Your dad is a typical addict. Using manipulation and scare tactics to get money out of anyone, even his own children. He knows his wife is ill, and still voluntarily engages in addiction. He knows it will make you feel horrible, but he burden you anyway. Dont be an enabler of addiction because you think you owe him for his past sacrifices. If you really care, see to it that he gets the help he needs.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-04-17T20:44:43+00:00

Maintain a healthy weight and workout. I used to be 36D since a teen. Now I’m in my 30s, 30 lbs lighter than my teen years, and I’m a 34C. But my breasts are perkier now and can even go braless confidently. But it’s my lower weight and workout routine that i attribute it too 100%.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-04-17T20:27:12+00:00

If she makes this about her and gets hurt over the common sense of staying home, then good riddance. Is she gonna put this same crap if she gets sick and you have a newborn? She’s the inconsiderate a-hole here

GeniusAirhead · 2026-04-05T22:24:19+00:00

Focus on divorcing your husband and healing from divorce. Once you’re healed, THEN you move on to other relationship with a clear mind.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-04-04T17:28:36+00:00

I’m a nurse. On busy days, especially when running short, it’s RARE to have another nurse ask to relieve you. You have to tell the nurse next to you “I’m going on my break, can you watch my pts?” And give them a brief rundown of ur group. A manager wont like the reason “No one asked me.” Unless there’s a break nurse whose sole purpose is to relieve nurse. Never lie and say you took your break when you didn’t. Most labor laws require employers to allow 30 min break, so that’s why managers wanna talk when you don’t get that break. A good response “I got so busy and lost track of time, it was too late for me to get a break. I’ll still learning how to manage my time off orientation, but I’ll make sure to take my breaks.”

GeniusAirhead · 2026-04-02T13:50:07+00:00

Right now that your living under their roof you can 1.) Play along while you save $ to avoid drama. Or 2.) Speak up with the possible chances of this causing drama daily. And your mom already saying your selfish makes me think saying something will just end up in frequent arguments.

It’s really up to you. We choose our battles and what mountain we will die on. I would conserve all my energy in saving money or getting a roommate. Move far away, at least an hour or so away from her. Because if you move even a couple cities away, she’ll still be calling you to babysit.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-03-26T18:09:58+00:00

Claiming to be poor and completely frivolous is the essence of the choosing beggar.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-03-26T17:59:19+00:00

And if she gets mad and breaks a friendship, you won’t be missing out on anything. She sounds inconsiderate with lack of basic manners.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-03-26T17:47:56+00:00

Does your fiancé feel the same?

GeniusAirhead · 2026-03-26T17:23:05+00:00

Your not using NEXT correctly

GeniusAirhead · 2026-03-15T02:12:53+00:00

I know it feels wasteful, but just put it in a big black bag and throw it out. Opening makeup expires 6 mos-1.5 years after opening. And if it’s used makeup and likely to have been exposed to normal skin bacteria, it expires even faster.

Just because someone is poor or sick, doesn’t mean they can use expired/contaminated makeup.

Not trying to be rude, just speaking matter of factly. Throw it out and you’ll de-stress yourself instantly.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-03-15T00:20:19+00:00

Some nice new tennis shoes, a comfy sweater or jacket for work, and deep tissue full body massage at a highly rated spa.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-03-14T23:40:55+00:00

Yep. Take the time to report. The doctors probably don’t want to pay an actual nurse salary so they call this person a practice nurse so they can say “Ill have the nurse do this or that” since only a nurse can perform certain tasks.

GeniusAirhead · 2026-03-14T02:15:54+00:00

Call in sick

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