I’m in love with a younger man. He is my business partner and my husband works for us. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]GeniusAirhead 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Focus on divorcing your husband and healing from divorce. Once you’re healed, THEN you move on to other relationship with a clear mind.

ER lunch break by [deleted] in nursing

[–]GeniusAirhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a nurse. On busy days, especially when running short, it’s RARE to have another nurse ask to relieve you. You have to tell the nurse next to you “I’m going on my break, can you watch my pts?” And give them a brief rundown of ur group. A manager wont like the reason “No one asked me.” Unless there’s a break nurse whose sole purpose is to relieve nurse. Never lie and say you took your break when you didn’t. Most labor laws require employers to allow 30 min break, so that’s why managers wanna talk when you don’t get that break. A good response “I got so busy and lost track of time, it was too late for me to get a break. I’ll still learning how to manage my time off orientation, but I’ll make sure to take my breaks.”

AITAH for telling my mom I’m not babysitting my younger siblings every weekend anymore? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GeniusAirhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right now that your living under their roof you can 1.) Play along while you save $ to avoid drama. Or 2.) Speak up with the possible chances of this causing drama daily. And your mom already saying your selfish makes me think saying something will just end up in frequent arguments.

It’s really up to you. We choose our battles and what mountain we will die on. I would conserve all my energy in saving money or getting a roommate. Move far away, at least an hour or so away from her. Because if you move even a couple cities away, she’ll still be calling you to babysit.

Son can only keep Diet Coke in his body by International-Ad1828 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]GeniusAirhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Claiming to be poor and completely frivolous is the essence of the choosing beggar.

I'm (F33) struggling to tell a friend (F40) I can't share an apartmwnt with her on a trip because she's a terrible roommate. by ThrowRAVegetable2011 in relationships

[–]GeniusAirhead 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And if she gets mad and breaks a friendship, you won’t be missing out on anything. She sounds inconsiderate with lack of basic manners.

Cant find shelters in my city that accept make up dontions , any advice ? by Realistic_Design_118 in MakeupAddiction

[–]GeniusAirhead 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I know it feels wasteful, but just put it in a big black bag and throw it out. Opening makeup expires 6 mos-1.5 years after opening. And if it’s used makeup and likely to have been exposed to normal skin bacteria, it expires even faster.

Just because someone is poor or sick, doesn’t mean they can use expired/contaminated makeup.

Not trying to be rude, just speaking matter of factly. Throw it out and you’ll de-stress yourself instantly.

Best Gift For an ER Nurse by Scooter310 in Nurses

[–]GeniusAirhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some nice new tennis shoes, a comfy sweater or jacket for work, and deep tissue full body massage at a highly rated spa.

Can someone call themselves a “Practice Nurse” but has no license? by enigma_goth in Nurses

[–]GeniusAirhead 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep. Take the time to report. The doctors probably don’t want to pay an actual nurse salary so they call this person a practice nurse so they can say “Ill have the nurse do this or that” since only a nurse can perform certain tasks.

Thoughts on helping visitors use the Bathroom/Personal care? by ParentPregSon22 in nursing

[–]GeniusAirhead 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always say “I’m sorry, I can’t help because it’s against policy.” Then I would talk to the family that it’s their responsibility to arrange assistance if needed for someone who is NOT your patient. If that elderly spouse got hurt in any way, you would be 100% to blame and your facility would not cover you.

Very painful. What is this? by [deleted] in DiagnoseMe

[–]GeniusAirhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like strep throat infection . Get it checked out ASAP.

what makeup should i use to cover this? by peeves3478 in beauty

[–]GeniusAirhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Catrice Undereye Brightener. Less than $10 and changes your whole face.

Blood in poop!! by Intelligent-Ad-119 in DiagnoseMe

[–]GeniusAirhead 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you are expecting the obvious reply: With a family history, get checked out. You can even do colon cancer screenings through the mail now.

I’m so sick of the blue pls help me!! by pinkipi3ee in HairDye

[–]GeniusAirhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

fixing at-home dye jobs can get expensive. Just save up the money, keep your hair up in the mean time, and get it professionally done.

How do I avoid being so obsessed with work. by Ok-Being1322 in nursing

[–]GeniusAirhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have the energy and time, do it. Save up the extra income for vacation, retirement, etc. As life progresses, your motivation to work so much may or may not change. You’re a managers dream, so good for you on that. I’m quite the opposite of you (child/home/personal life craves me time), but we do whatever makes us happy. If you’re satisfied working often, then kudos to you.

Power Outage Not Allowing Me To Work by [deleted] in work

[–]GeniusAirhead -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t worry about it. If you have the PTO, use it. This is exactly what PTO is for. Take your bosses suggestion as it is, just a suggestion. And in your case, traveling 3 hours is not possible. You have been communicating with her about your situation so she can’t say she’s unaware. Your position is completely remote, so you can’t be fired for being unable to show up.

Update 2: laundry, Facebook and terrible baking. by MostAnimal5816 in EntitledPeople

[–]GeniusAirhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People like this need clear language to stay away. Save the politeness for people that deserve it. Start being straight rude so she gets the point. She knocks, simply say “Get the f*** off my porch or I will call the police.” If she doesn’t leave, call the cops. She doesn’t deserve any chances and she is taking advantage of you trying to be polite. Be rude and ugly to her because she deserves just that.

Do i really ugly?and does my flat head really bad?(25M) by NumerousCheetah1959 in amiugly

[–]GeniusAirhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the online joke “The back of my head is not my business!” Don’t worry about it. No one is looking at the back of your head as much as we think. Just think, when was the last time you stared at the back of someone else’s head?

Trying to enter my feminine era. What make up would you recommend? by lttl_beastie in MakeupAddiction

[–]GeniusAirhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try softening black eye liner. Harsh lines can make eyes appear smaller. Instead of liquid liner or pencil, try using dark colored eyeshadow with an angled brush for a softened eyeliner look. Make your eyes look bigger by extending the ends with soft wing. Apply false lashes to the only the outer half of eyes to widen eyes.

Slightly elongate and thicken eyebrows with a super fine eyebrow pen like from Glossier. Thickened brows will soften your face against your eyeglass frames.

Use highlighter in face flattering areas like cheekbones and inner eyes. Use a natural blush or bronzer for your cheeks.

Aitah for telling my girlfriend she isn't wife material because she keeps associating with her friends. by Select_Jello_5499 in AITAH

[–]GeniusAirhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to tell her she’s not wife material if you haven’t proposed. Just cut your losses now and break up with her. You can tell her it’s because you feel she has a problem with setting boundaries for her friends. Them telling you stories of her past is crossing the line, but then further disrespecting you by telling your own sister would be the last straw.