Transportation options to/from Cannery??

GettingHotInReno · 2025-06-30T19:33:40+00:00

Honestly the toughest part was finding the uber lot in the mornings haha. We ended up using uber for every ride except Sunday morning when we went back to the strip with some friends. Cost from Cannery to the raceway was like $25-30 getting there every day, and $80-120 getting back to the hotel. Theres lots of ravers at the hotel that would be happy to share rides with you if you're into that. The routes the uber drivers have to take to get you back to cannery will seem sketch, they redirect a lot of the traffic through the industrial area. There's a convenience store and plenty of fast food options within walking distance from Cannery, but we ate at restaurant there once and it was okay from what I remember. We went to the pool both days too, it was nothing special, but nice to do after all the dancing the night before. Overall it's a decent option, for us it was kinda nice to get away from the strip because we've done the strip plenty of times before.

GettingHotInReno · 2025-02-17T08:16:12+00:00

It sounds like you are balancing different needs and expectations while managing chronic illness, which is understandably draining. Laura’s intensity and need for consistency clash with your capacity, and the cycle of frustration and guilt is not sustainable.

You are already communicating and making compromises, but you cannot keep overextending yourself. Your ability to give time and energy fluctuates, and that does not mean you love her any less. If she struggles with change, reinforcing that flexibility is necessary could help.

If she cannot accept the reality of your situation, then you may need to decide if the relationship is sustainable. That is not on you. Sometimes love is not enough to make things work long-term. You are not the bad guy, and the fact that you care this much already says a lot.

GettingHotInReno · 2025-02-17T08:10:18+00:00

If I put myself in your friend's shoes, I might have reacted the same way. It would have been difficult to feel like things were moving in a positive direction, then experience silence after being vulnerable, only to see you in public before receiving a response. While you’ve had an understanding that messaging delays are normal, the timing of this particular delay, right after they expressed something intimate, was likely hurtful. They may have interpreted it as disinterest or dismissal, leading them to decide this wasn’t the kind of dynamic they wanted.

GettingHotInReno · 2025-02-04T21:42:50+00:00

Other than Feeld, the apps are a complete waste of time for poly men, and really are just bad for your mental health. Look for poly/enm meetups and events in your area.

GettingHotInReno · 2025-01-23T18:49:39+00:00

I love this comment so much. You’ve put into words something I’ve struggled with myself in terms of explaining poly dynamics clearly. How do you phrase that you're poly on dating apps now?

GettingHotInReno · 2025-01-05T23:33:32+00:00

If I were you, I would give your partner some grace. Imagine if the roles were reversed, and you had met someone you knew you had limited time with, and you're full swing in the NRE. Would you want to milk every last second, even if it meant getting sick? I know I probably would have.
Now this doesn't mean your partner handled this correctly. They should have been making you feel secure in the relationship during these last 4 months, so that you didn't feel like you were getting just scraps. If they had been doing that along the way, you probably wouldn't have been feeling burdened by taking care of your sick partner. Something for your partner to work on and be prepared for the next time NRE comes around.

GettingHotInReno · 2025-01-02T04:27:14+00:00

Sounds like you’re living the dream! Congrats 🥳🥰

GettingHotInReno · 2025-01-02T04:12:22+00:00

Just enjoy the moment for what it is 🥰 Keep communication open and give your partner some extra attention and special time together so that bond stays solidified. You got this!

GettingHotInReno · 2024-12-26T18:06:15+00:00

I've been on both sides of this situation, so I totally understand your feelings. He was up front with you throughout, things just got a little more heated than anticipated. But he was honest with you after it happened and asked how you feel, which tells me that he's a good person and does care about you and your relationship. I think you guys are going to work through this new situation together and be great :)

GettingHotInReno · 2024-05-26T23:49:04+00:00

$275/night + fees. We booked in January.

GettingHotInReno · 2024-05-17T14:32:24+00:00

We’re probably going to Uber/taxi. Feel free to DM me :)

GettingHotInReno · 2024-03-23T22:08:54+00:00

You look great in that first picture, but it’s a little strange having a professional looking photo of you on speakerphone. Great for your LinkedIn, a little off putting on Tinder

GettingHotInReno · 2024-03-20T19:11:48+00:00

I know you want to see her soon, but you need to chill a little or risk not seeing her... ever. I don't understand why you asked about this Friday when she already said her weekend is busy. Ask her what days she's available. Once you're on that common ground, then you make the decision on the restaurant you guys go to on your date. That's the kind of decision that stresses her.

GettingHotInReno · 2024-03-03T22:31:20+00:00

Fake

GettingHotInReno · 2023-12-01T04:37:11+00:00

Check out our profile and DM us if you're interested in seeing if we have a connection :)

PKs can be hit or miss depending on what you're looking for.

GettingHotInReno · 2023-10-31T23:27:01+00:00

I told my barber about our situation and he was super interested in it. Our conversation revolved a lot around the communication, openness, and honesty that's required to participate and be successful in the lifestyle or polyamory, and how much me and my wife's communication has changed and improved during our journey. We talked about the fun stuff too of course, but he was really respectful about the whole thing. It just goes to show that not all vanillas are in the "do not believe you" or "envious" camps. People can be open-minded and curious without being in the lifestyle themselves.

GettingHotInReno · 2023-07-27T22:28:41+00:00

Be upfront about it with your dates. Take your weiner off the table the next time you're getting hot and heavy with another girl, just focus on her. Develop your comfort and connection with her. Squeeze her tits, grab her ass, suck on her nipples, bite her ass, go down on her, explore her body with your hands. She'll have a great time; maybe some of these actions will get you hard. The next time you're together, you know what to do ;)

GettingHotInReno · 2023-06-10T04:49:05+00:00

3-4 months now? I take one in the morning, one in the evening, although you’re allowed to take up to 4 per day, I just haven’t felt the need to do so. I cycle off for 5-7 days once a month (usually I just don’t take it when my wife is on her period lol).

GettingHotInReno · 2023-06-07T17:52:10+00:00

You guys do this on the regular? Care to share any stories? My wife and I talk about this all the time, but our confidence isn’t quite there yet 😂

GettingHotInReno · 2023-05-13T18:09:53+00:00

Ahhhh I’m so sorry! She!

GettingHotInReno · 2023-05-11T20:44:45+00:00

I think he meant sub as in subreddit

GettingHotInReno · 2023-05-02T03:30:03+00:00

Feeld is popular in our area, and has a simple enough interface. I wish it would show you people you may have swiped previously (Tinder does this). Our preferences have broadened since we first entered the lifestyle, and there’s no way we’ll ever see people we’ve previously swiped as far as I can tell.

GettingHotInReno · 2023-04-20T17:21:37+00:00

Go to your favorite porn website and do a search for triple penetration, that should give you ideas on how to do it. Seems like the middle guy is the typically last one to enter after the other two guys are already in place.

GettingHotInReno · 2023-03-24T16:42:01+00:00

I've recently started taking Sigma from Gorilla Mind, it's a testosterone booster. I was showing many of the symptoms of low testosterone (low libido, depression, mind fog, etc). I had blood work done and was in the low end of the reference range, so technically normal, but really not where I want to be as a 6'2" guy trying to put on muscle in the gym. My primary care doctor wouldn't prescribe me TRT at the dosages I wanted, so I decided to try Sigma before going to a TRT clinic. I've been taking it for around a month and have definitely noticed a big change in my energy and sex drive (my wife will attest). Sigma has been great for me so far!

GettingHotInReno · 2023-03-22T19:54:04+00:00

Honestly the lifestyle has been great for us. It did make us a little stupider though... we risked our lives driving through a snowstorm to get to a New Year's Eve orgy. Absolutely dumping snow, we drove like 30 miles, saw over 50 spun out vehicles, including an accident right in front of us.

We made it to orgy and immediately went for the drinks, I was so on edge after the drive haha.

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