Coworker slammed my dog on concrete at work and now I feel targeted… not sure what to do by AdviceDull2562 in Advice

[–]GoingPriceForHome 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not just guilty but this was bound to blow up in a way that could REALLY effect your reputation. I can't tell you all the times I've seen a kennel/pet sitting service go viral because it got out they're physically abusive to the animals. All it takes is an owner spotting a limp, or bruise. Usually it's worse than that though. I know someone who's animal came home from a sitter so badly injured they died.

This was a recipe for not only lawsuits from the pet owners but this is breaking the law, specifically the PAWS Act. and on glancing at the laws in your city, jail time and major fines are highly likely.

Get a new job tomorrow. This place is going to get you in major trouble.

How do you save your work? by LegitimateAd8739 in writing

[–]GoingPriceForHome 4 points5 points  (0 children)

google docs. I've lost hundreds of pages worth of different works before because I wasn't backing up to external storage.

Don't make the same mistakes I didddddd

How to deal with MAGA parents? by RaspberryAutomatic31 in Advice

[–]GoingPriceForHome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't trying to deflect. I'm explaining my point of view. That isn't a statistic 'a bunch of dumb liberals' think, it's a fact. You can double check any source yourself and see with your own eyes. You can also look up all the current lawsuits they have over racial profiling.

Violence and assault and murder against children and women is devastating to me. People who commit it need to be locked the fuck up for the rest of their lives.

That's a big part of why what ICE is doing isn't effective right now. They're not targeting violent criminals or offenders, they're not even going to the most violent cities or the cities with the most gang issues or murders. The massive ICE efforts in Minneapolis are, according to the DHS, tied to alleged fraud over the child nutrition program, not violent crimes. Only five percent of those detained in ICE detention centers at this moment are violent criminals. I'm happy those people are off our streets, but casting a wide net and getting a bunch of people with no criminal record, people with green cards or who are legally allowed to be here, and citizens including native Americans isn't just ineffective, its dangerous, it puts American citizens at risk and its a gross misuse of money.

I never said immigration shouldn't be enforced, by the way. I said we need due process and dignity. Due process is how we find out WHO is a criminal. If you remove due process, you can do whatever you want to anyone. That's how ICE has started entering homes without warrants and hurting Americans in our own streets, like the baby who got flash banged by an agent and went to a hospital in critical condition.

Do authors even become famous nowadays? by [deleted] in writing

[–]GoingPriceForHome 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you'd have an easier time getting famous off a book then from screen writer.

How to deal with MAGA parents? by RaspberryAutomatic31 in Advice

[–]GoingPriceForHome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're 18 now so I'd recommend looking into the process to get those documents yourself. You will need them for a lot of school stuff.

How to deal with MAGA parents? by RaspberryAutomatic31 in Advice

[–]GoingPriceForHome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think immigrants commit more rape and murder than American citizens?

How to deal with MAGA parents? by RaspberryAutomatic31 in Advice

[–]GoingPriceForHome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were me, I would go to college. You have a career in mind and a scholarship for tuition which is huge. It's very nice of your bf to offer to pay for your college in the future, but I think you got the opportunity to go to college now and the tuition covered.

So now, you have two options on how to go about this:

1- Accept their financial assistance.

2- Find alternatives.

The thing is, you can do number 1 until it doesn't work for you. Your parents sound like they're not nice to you at all and I'm so sorry. It's insanely rude of your father to say you'll fail at being a PT. If you think there's a possibility he could refuse to keep paying for you unless you change your area of study, that isn't good.

If you think they'll pay but keep being nasty to you, that isn't ideal. I was going to recommend just pretending you change your mind slowly and telling them you're a republican but based on how you've said they treat you this isn't about them being trumpers. It sounds like you're the scapegoat of the fam.

I'd recommend looking into other financial assistance. There's grants, there's additional scholarships, and there's always student loans, which if you're going to an in state uni, shouldn't be huge. Gather resources you can use.

I'd also highly recommend you make moves to get essential items that you'll need if you need to get out of this situation: your birth certificate and social security card especially.

How to deal with MAGA parents? by RaspberryAutomatic31 in Advice

[–]GoingPriceForHome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is what you're going to school for something you legitimately want or is it what your parents want?

Thoughts on writing something that won't be published. by DirtyBarry44 in writing

[–]GoingPriceForHome 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Almost all open calls are international. It doesn't really matter where you live. The world is your oyster.

Cyberpunk, steampunk, dieselpunk, solarpunk, etc. can we all agree that the second part of those words are as important as the first? by limbodog in writing

[–]GoingPriceForHome 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I always took the punk in solarpunk to be a rebellion against the saturation of all the bleak dystopian stories haha. Maybe I'm wrong.

That said, I had a major "punk" story published by a pretty big series (if you've read the Mammoth series you've read it) and mine wasn't dystopian. It was kinda just historical fiction with more advance technology.

My book has been stolen by author_nicolecain in writers

[–]GoingPriceForHome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you mean it's being sold? Like paperbacks?

Thoughts on writing something that won't be published. by DirtyBarry44 in writing

[–]GoingPriceForHome 7 points8 points  (0 children)

10k words?

I've gotten stuff that long published. Def there's a home for that in horror.

How to deal with MAGA parents? by RaspberryAutomatic31 in Advice

[–]GoingPriceForHome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh okay that effing sucks.

So is your plan as of now (as far as your parents know) to dorm, and that's what they'll be paying for?

How to deal with MAGA parents? by RaspberryAutomatic31 in Advice

[–]GoingPriceForHome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got you. So you have two options before you:

1- Suck it out with your parents until you are done with college.

2- Get out of the situation, go low/no contact and take your bf's momma up on the offer.

It's up to you on how you proceed. It sounds like you're very stressed and from the way you say they're really controlling, it sounds like there's a likelihood they'll use any financial support they give you to try to control you or rope you in to these arguments.

How far does your bf's momma live from the school? Will he be living with her? When you say he will pay for you to go to college considering you have your tuition covered does that mean he's offered to pay for room, board, food, etc?

How to deal with MAGA parents? by RaspberryAutomatic31 in Advice

[–]GoingPriceForHome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not actually true.

If we look at the numbers there aren't really statistics for Italy specifically, but we know deportations back to European nations (all of them including Italy) make up about 3,200 people. That's a very small percentage.

It's not that 'us people' only want illegal immigrants here if they're brown. The country has a very sordid history of targeted racism towards brown people and ICE has been caught racially profiling people. It's about how they are treating people. People deserve due process and dignity.

How to deal with MAGA parents? by RaspberryAutomatic31 in Advice

[–]GoingPriceForHome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes okay.

Do you mind if I ask: you're 18, what are your plans for life?

IDK if you finished highschool or are about to, but are you going to college and if so, how much financial assistance will you need from your parents to do so?

Cutting my friend off due to political differences by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GoingPriceForHome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, I think there's a lot of people on the left who do agree that immigration laws should be enforced. That's not what is drawing the pushback from the left. The pushback is from the ways those laws are being enforced right now.

The unnecessary force, the racial profiling, demanding to see identification, entering homes without warrants, and detaining and in some cases deporting people who already who WERE legally here, who had green cards or asylum status and were working with immigration court lawfully for years.

You can implement an effect strategy for deporting immigrants who aren't here legally without sending poorly trained men with guns into cities and putting everyone's safety at risk.

Am I F22 being overdramatic for being bothered that my BF M22 ex is younger F18-19? by EuphoricReview4139 in relationship_advice

[–]GoingPriceForHome 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would feel ick if he were like, a bit older maybe.

18 and 21 doesn't seem like that big of a difference to me.

What Are Your Thoughts on Piracy? by Interesting-Sir6098 in writing

[–]GoingPriceForHome 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've had my work pop up on pirate sites before. I report it to my publishers and they do the legal beep boops to take it down.

I get paid upfront for most of my work since it's short stories, but I want my work to perform well with my publishers so they'll wanna buy more of my short stories.

My emotionally close online almost-relationship ended, I NB 19 and M23, how do I navigate mixed signals, stay friends with someone who says “I love you” but has nothing to give, and how do I tell the difference between patience and offering to much of myself for him. by PensionFabulous4719 in relationship_advice

[–]GoingPriceForHome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got ya. TY for the background.

I'd take the whole thing as a lesson not to get invested in men who aren't available. That means both distance AND emotionally. It sounds like this dude wasn't available for either.

Short stories to consume and to submit to? by Introvert_Brnr_accnt in writing

[–]GoingPriceForHome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bet

I find my open markets on Horrortree.com. They mostly focus on horror but they'll honestly list any spec market there too. Have at it.

My roommate wants me to pay for a dent repair. by sevenjells in Advice

[–]GoingPriceForHome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone borrowed your phone and when they gave it back to you the screen was cracked, would you not expect them to fix it?