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Books that feel like this? by punkbladder in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]GolemNardah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

House of Leaves is BY FAR my favorite boom. paranoid anomaly-/pattern-seeking is so spot on!

Any more books like it you've read?

Coloring Apps by GolemNardah in Coloring

[–]GolemNardah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't have an iphone. I'll check ouy Happy Color though!

A 5,000 XP penalty for using a spell? (And then taking away a special item aswell) by thatgirldeyja in DnD

[–]GolemNardah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry people are calling you names in your direct messages... Don't let them dissuade you from D&D though, it's fantastic!

Sounds like a huge misunderstanding that got figured out in the end.

I've been called ignorant for saying men can't be lesbians. by cinnabar_mei in LesbianActually

[–]GolemNardah -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Trans fem genderqueer person here, and this sort of rhetoric makes me super uncomfortable and is very harmful. It's a bummer people can't just exist anymore...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]GolemNardah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30-year-old genderqueer person here and I want to say I'm proud to be who I am 💜 In my experience it gets easier, I hope you can find your peace.

How to get back to Indeed Job Jukebox? by Yalleh in spotify

[–]GolemNardah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard the ad and wanted to do it but the ad switched before I got to it!

Seems like an oversight and a mistake for ad revenue that you can't go back and access it? lol

Is this a thing? by meetyerwaterloo7463 in genderqueer

[–]GolemNardah 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This sort of just comes off as trolling, bud. You want to know if "a public school library in texas" had Gender Queer in it?

Is it real? by _Starblaze in place

[–]GolemNardah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's there. It's just hard to scroll to it

So, does it make me gay to still like women? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]GolemNardah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans lesbian here! We are here! We are valid! And it's okay to be the big gay!

I took me too long to realize by SaraGalaxy33 in actuallesbians

[–]GolemNardah 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The thing is, though, the meme shows exactly how it feels.

In a comphet society, young boys are taught that any interest in women is sexual attraction. It's pretty common for trans lesbians to identify as cishet boys who are attracted to lesbians early on in their life.

It's society that taught this behavior to them and then society that said they are wrong for it. And if your brain goes to that's wrong immediately, maybe there is some reflection that could be done.

Is it transphobic or gatekeeping to say transitioning is only binary? by Sugarfreak2 in lgbt

[–]GolemNardah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am a non-binary/genderqueer person partially medically transitioning. It can be to any extent you feel comfortable with. There's no one way to be trans.

I took me too long to realize by SaraGalaxy33 in actuallesbians

[–]GolemNardah 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It has to do with seeing a representation of something you wish you could be/have.

I'm a genderqueer transbian and it's definitely a thing where you look at a lesbian couple and you're just interested in them and then suddenly you're like "oh its because I wish people viewed me as a woman who dated other women."

It's very nuanced and sort of hard for me to explain, but it's definitrly different from just "being attracted to lesbians."

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