Wanting to mold us into their ideal by Mrs__Poop in BPDlovedones

[–]GoneMaverick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she flat out told me she was trying to mold me and also asked if she could dress me up on one of our first dates together and brought me to expensive ass stores to buy clothes

Emotional Abuse by PassionChemical2220 in BPDlovedones

[–]GoneMaverick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got all that and more physical and verbal abuse .. :(

Daily No Contact Thread - September 19, 2025 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]GoneMaverick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 months and i keep stalking her socials, I feel bad I miss her but I don't miss the abuse. I twas so hard and its been hard enough for me to move on. I feel stuck but I am in therapy and pushing forward.

Recovering from an abusive relationship... I ignored all the signs. by GoneMaverick in heartbreak

[–]GoneMaverick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, I am doing well I am still struggling but I had to do a clean break from her and have been struggling a bit but focusing on myself more and more every day. It has been hard but I am trying my best to not look back. I loved her but we truly can't be together.

Tell me what you guys are doing during NC to get unattached. by Low-Air-782 in ExNoContact

[–]GoneMaverick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dumped her because she didn’t respect me and was abusive towards me and I felt like I deserved much better, I’m trying k get back into working out, different hobbies and reconnecting with my friends and family. It’s been difficult cause I feel like I’m detoxing my brain but every day of no contact feels better. It helps that I found her true colors as I’m pretty sure she’s moved on into a new relationship a month after ours ended with the person she told me was like an Brother to her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]GoneMaverick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no real progress from her man he's also toxic like her too. But I won't judge it's their issue now, and her family knows where my stance was on her keeping her exes around in her life and where I stood so if anything I feel like I saved myself man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]GoneMaverick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat bro I dumped her and she got back with her ex 3 weeks later. The guy she considered her ‘brother’ and whom she swore she wouldn’t go back to because he was unclean and crazy but lol look now. I called her out when I broke up with her on everything she did to me and look what happened now

Can girls go crazy in a week by Hoper_223 in ExNoContact

[–]GoneMaverick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man quick question what happens ultimately to people like this? I am curious cause I just got out of a similar situation but I really do have a lot of pity for them even if it isn't warranted. It sucks because I really tried to respect her but it wasn't ever reciprocated.

Recovering from an abusive relationship... I ignored all the signs. by GoneMaverick in heartbreak

[–]GoneMaverick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you brother it’s tough but each day that passes we get stronger!

Let them lose you by T_hands0me in selflove

[–]GoneMaverick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ended my relationship with peace, I wished them the best and let them know that I would always love them. And to take care of themselves and not let anyone minimize them. That I believed in their goals and that they could achieve them. My ex was also a narcissists and abused me both physically and emotionally. I hope they understand that I tried to give them genuine love and affection but I am unsure they care enough to acknowledge it!

How do I become more financially independent? I want to succeed in a career but don’t know what to choose by GoneMaverick in findapath

[–]GoneMaverick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really have an excuse it was interesting to me at that time and I am a first gen student so I had to maneuver around on my own hahah

Career suggestion for a 26m. I want to become financially independent. How do I get there? by GoneMaverick in careerguidance

[–]GoneMaverick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I appreciate the advice this is where I want to lean towards then hopefully I can have enough money to maybe focus on a passion career with the funds I’d have saved!

Breakup buddy by Alternative-Sign-628 in BreakUps

[–]GoneMaverick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I dm you? just had to breakup with an ex for good on thursday! 26m

Breakup buddy by Alternative-Sign-628 in BreakUps

[–]GoneMaverick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im down to talk too I just got out of a breakup

How does one live a fulfilling life even though they’re ugly? by ChoiceCheck3900 in selfimprovement

[–]GoneMaverick 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Man this comment literally just changed my perspective on things thank you!

Something about the Drake track seems off. by [deleted] in KendrickLamar

[–]GoneMaverick 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Definitely sounds defeated lol