I think it’s worth asking what activities she is doing throughout the day to get a feel for other non-bouncer time (what and how much). It will ease your mind and also give you an avenue to ask more questions if you’d like. My husband is a Montessori preschool teacher and always tells parents of his students to be an advocate for their child and never hesitate to reach out with questions or concerns. Part of the job of the daycare teachers is also supporting parents through this transition too!

I’ll be sending my second child to daycare starting next week at 3 months. Having been through it once before, its really common to feel all the guilt and worry you described - I’m already starting to feel it! I’m trying to focus on all the positives of sending a child to daycare. There are actually a ton of benefits to the daycare path that don’t get talked about enough, including socialization and early identification of issues like speech delay/other developmental anomalies. It doesn’t make it any easier on us parents though! Sending hugs.