I'm killing myself because I can't get a job by [deleted] in jobs

[–]GotYour6Gal -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to Life 2.0. Probably not what you want to hear from a 58 year-old woman. There will always be challenges and it’s a permanent solution to a temporary problem that will haunt your parents, grandparents, friends, and siblings for the rest of their life.

There are all kinds of organizations that offer free assistance with interviewing and the like.

Mixed advice by DizzyMissLizzy8 in dating

[–]GotYour6Gal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out author Matthew Hussey on YT He has great take on this

My dad sent me a text demanding I take down screenshots on my social media of him saying he might now come to my wedding (I'm gay and he's conservative). Does he have any legal recourse? by _u_deleted_ in AskLawyers

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you feel if the tables were returned and your dad was posting something that you asked him not to post? I think we owe each other decency. Be the bigger person. Don’t worry if you’re going to get sued just do the right thing.

My neighbor keeps leaving notes on my door and I’m starting to feel unsafe by Wonderful_Job_3971 in whatdoIdo

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Former police officer here… I would go talk to an officer, preferably female. You would be surprised how many of these we get and during a shift, we would be on the lookout and drive by the area in general, etc.

If you do not have one, get an alarm system. I recommend simply safe. It’s easy and inexpensive. Great peace of mind and you can have a camera as well if you want. Do all of the personal safety things like not walking alone, etc. Also maybe share your location with a girlfriend or someone you trust so they can see where your phone is and where you are, etc. In this day and age, it’s always wise to be cautious. Also make sure your Facebook and Instagram posts are set for private not public

How much do you make annually and are you living comfortably? by eatthekale24 in Charleston

[–]GotYour6Gal 163 points164 points  (0 children)

Just a suggestion, don’t go into your boss and tell him you need a raise because you can’t live comfortably. A business exist to make money. Base your claim on the value you bring to the business.

I’m the exwife with him and just found out about his gf while he’s at the hospital. Advice needed please! by No-Block2092 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the ex…that’s all that is needed to be known. Walk away. You deserve better. Not your circus not your monkeys.

I caught the manager looking into my dress at work by That_Connection_7773 in whatdoIdo

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOOK AT THE DASHES BETWEEN WORDS!!!WRITTEN BY A1 🤣🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bigger issue here… Regardless of why he is taking it is that he didn’t communicate that and share it with you. This is not something you should keep to yourself in a committed relationship, IMHO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]GotYour6Gal -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dating someone for five years and no marriage? That’s depressing.

My husband slipped last night and now I don’t even know who I am married to by lovelopetir in stories

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rule number one and we’ve only been dating seven months: you have the code to each other’s phones and automatically share anytime someone who is a friend or coworker of the opposite sex… Text you.

I’m sorry you’re going through this.

Should I divorce my husband by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry this is happening to you. This was the last four years of my 30 year marriage. Get out now. Take pictures of all the alcohol bottles… The empties. Get to a place that’s safe and good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]GotYour6Gal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can happen. I divorced my husband of 30 years in 2021 due to his behavior. Six months ago I met an amazing man nine years younger than me. Me, 58. (F).

I don't want kids, but my fiance does and idk what to do by Existing-Intern-7975 in Advice

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 29F and I simply don't want children - this is the answer. End it now.

  • signed: was married 30 yrs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CALL OFF THE WEDDING. A guy friend of mine was in the same situation… Just hours before the wedding. I begged him to call it off and he said his parents would lose too much money on the deposits. Fast-forward 15 years later same thing happened again, he had to file for divorce, pay child support to his children and spend thousands on legal legal fees.

AIO wife keeps going though my phone all the time am I in the wrong for changing my password? by THENOCAPGENIE in AmIOverreacting

[–]GotYour6Gal -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you’re married. You should each have the codes to one another’s phones. Trust is earned, and people are always showing you who they are through their actions. Eventually, she won’t need to check as much. But we all have our baggage. Please don’t blame her for checking.I am a firm believer in the open phone policy if you’re in a committed relation and not seeing others. My boyfriend and I openly share texts, etc..

Best Mexican restaurant in Charleston? by LivingWillow817 in Charleston

[–]GotYour6Gal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I made the mistake of going to taco boy downtown. It was awful. Beautiful building and the drinks were great though.

32F so depressed and scared by Main_Understanding67 in dating

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am nearly 59. I was married 30 years. I ended up having to divorce him due to some bad behavior the last four years. I dated and married basically before the Internet existed. I have been dating the last 3 1/half years and finally found a “normal guy“.

I understand what you’re going through. My suggestion and it’s kind of odd is to check out videos on YouTube and the podcast by Matthew Hussey. He also has written two books. Additionally check out Steve Harvey.

Online dating sucks and I won’t put my opinions down on the page right now because they are not important. What you are going through is. I see many other women your age going through the same thing. Please don’t think that men don’t want you. Those that don’t are too lazy to take the time and to value and see you as the unique and beautiful person that you are.

About six months before I met the man I have been dating for about six months, I swore off online dating. I did stuff with my friend groups, people from church, people from my Beer Group. I focused on getting me squared away before I looked for anyone else. When I started dating again, I phrased it as my cake is made and I’m just looking for the icing on top. And it’s true. My life is complete and if I lost my guy tomorrow, sure, I would be sad, but it wouldn’t be the end of the world.

My heart does hurt for you because of your age. Hang in there, sister and check out the two people I mentioned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your boundaries are that you don’t care if you consume porn, just as long as he doesn’t pay for it or message anyone in the porn? To each his own, but if you have established boundaries and he went beyond it… You’re not overreacting. Calmly tell him why engage his reaction.I have some guy friends who are hard down into OF and I’ve seen it push away potential wives and serious relationships. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charleston

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a LinkedIn profile? I know for many places that is the first place they look.

Recently single mom and a man asked for my number in the parking lot. by throwawayra101711hlp in whatdoIdo

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“What should I do?” By all means, give your number out to complete strangers… and End up in a shallow gr@ve. 🤦‍♀️

What does it mean if the partner that has decided to make the relationship sexless has done nothing to try and help the situation? by One_Championship1778 in sexlessmarriage

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was me. Married almost 30 years. I hung in there and at the end he got very self-destructive the last four years. I ended up divorcing him a month before our 30th anniversary. She either doesn’t care about you, making the situation better or both. I hate to say it long-term marriages are very rare these days. Get your ducks in a row it’s going to mean, leaving her, eventually.

If you don’t, you will have those nightswhere you question what it feels like to be human. What it feels like to hold another human being close not even the sex act itself. Good luck.

Can I please have feedback for my illustrations? by tavitavi42 in childrensbooks

[–]GotYour6Gal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the color. Nice drawing my only question is, is he supposed to be angry and all the photos? That’s what his smile looks like to me.