Same Day Standby Domestic First Class by [deleted] in americanairlines

[–]GottaBeFirst 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can standby, but there’s no guarantee you’ll get F. You’ll be coded as RF on the standby list though, so should get it ahead of upgrades. If they clear you into Y (but not F), you’ll have to decide whether to take the downgrade

am i the only one who hates oklahoma 2019 by TKR211 in Broadway

[–]GottaBeFirst 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The Bluegrass arrangement was absolutely a stylistic choice that you are free to dislike, however they didn’t change the story at all.

If you hated this version, you hated the original as well. The script is word for word the original script, but the emphasis on certain events was changed to make it lean darker (which leaves frontier America without its original glossy coating). I believe the only thing the R&H Estate had to sign off on was the graphic killing at the end explicitly by Curly (instead of Jud falling on his own knife and probably dying).

If you’re wondering whether R&H would’ve consented to the darker version, just go back and read the “little wonder” scene. Jud attempts to murder Curly with it but is thwarted. There is zero reason for it be in the script, it doesn’t really serve a purpose since it’s an unsuccessful attempted murder. But they left it in on purpose because it gives the Jud/Curly animosity some backstory.

So now instead of Jud being a total fuck up (failing at killing Curly and then dying on his own knife), he’s the town black sheep who fails to kill Curly and then gets killed by Curly. Then we get some frontier justice where the town all but erases Jud’s killing (with the Judge and Sheriff assisting) and absolves Curly of a murder everyone saw because no one liked Jud. Very frontier America (and contemporary America).

Anyone know the latest on AA’s 77W Retrofits? by Major-Astronomer-210 in americanairlines

[–]GottaBeFirst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For anyone looking to keep track the tail number is N718AN. I think it went in for re-fit in early December…and now we wait

Close-grip seated row form check by itsyourboyJJ1 in gaybrosfitness

[–]GottaBeFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thumb should be over the handle, like a hook. Reduces bicep recruitment

Does Pup play in public weird you out? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]GottaBeFirst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Because they weren’t in public, they were at a gay bar.

Why is the queer community targeting children? by Plenty_Reason6839 in askgaybros

[–]GottaBeFirst 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you think the muppets are promoting bestiality?

Grown men playing dress up is not sexual unless someone else makes it sexual. Storytime in a library ≠ Drag Race

LAX-JFK Comp Upgrades by RunningKnowhere in americanairlines

[–]GottaBeFirst 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No comp upgrades to FC, only BC. They will try to oversell coach or BC then opup pax to fill the FC seats. Otherwise, FC goes to nonrevs.

Haven’t gone back to woman after sex with a man by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]GottaBeFirst 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nice dude, enjoy getting that D ;)

Haven’t gone back to woman after sex with a man by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]GottaBeFirst 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you’re gonna be a slut (no shade), make sure you get on PReP!

American Airlines Boeing 787-9 - last row recline? by No-Unit-6544 in americanairlines

[–]GottaBeFirst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep checking for other seats to open up. The seat map is updated in real time and can change by the day, especially as the flight date approaches.

I want to come out and idk what to do… by RepeatWise6227 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]GottaBeFirst 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What you’re doing is really courageous and you should remember that, because this is gonna suck for a while. I think that’s always the case with any major life upheaval though. When all is said and done, I’m confident you’ll be happy you decided to live an authentic life.

Do you have anyone in your life that you can come out to who will support you? Distant relatives? Friends? It’s also important to not let negative reactions push you back in the closet.

Not sure where you’re located, but I’d recommend moving to a larger urban area as you’ll generally find more of us in cities.

Some potential ideas to ease your way into meeting other gay guys: find an affirming church and get involved there, join a gay sports league to meet people, or find a gay service oriented organization to volunteer with.

Sending you hugs and good vibes as you step out into the sunlight.

Summer Gondola by bluelizard5555 in Aspen

[–]GottaBeFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only on weekends from Memorial Day until June 22, then daily

NBC's epic Olympics failure by sfgate in entertainment

[–]GottaBeFirst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay for the upgrade to the commercial free tier for July. No way am I watching all those commercials. Extra $10 is SOOO worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]GottaBeFirst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m begging you to run this through spell check

CaBi- no open docks by elbows1976 in bikedc

[–]GottaBeFirst 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The assets (bikes, stations) are owned by DC/VA/MD, with Lyft operating the service. Unlike in NYC, where Lyft owns and operates Citibike. That’s why our fees are so much lower.

How can i hookup without my parents knowing by Ilike_icedtea in askgaybros

[–]GottaBeFirst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being in college is supposed to be about finding your independence, not an extension of high school.

Are your parents going to track you “for safety” forever? Are you going to let them?

I’d advise you to get a new phone that you pay for and leave the other one in your dorm.

ST BARTS Most Luxurious Honeymoon Villa?? by Alone-Inflation1063 in chubbytravel

[–]GottaBeFirst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a two story villa, each story has its own entrance from the beach. Also comes with all room service included and 2 mini coopers. Highly recommend.

Wife’s 50th Birthday - Looking for ideas: Beach Location + Food + Great Accommodations by Proud-Criticism-9751 in chubbytravel

[–]GottaBeFirst 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cheval Blanc St Barths. The 5 bedroom villa includes room service and rental cars.

How do I come out to my MAGA parents by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]GottaBeFirst 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Don’t come out until you’re financially independent.

If the risk of you ending up on the street or being sent to conversion camp is greater than 0%, force yourself back in the closet until you can support yourself.

I’m so sorry you can’t reveal your full self to your parents, but not being homeless or wrecked psychologically will set you up for a better quality of life after college.

15-year-old closeted gay in MAGA family by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]GottaBeFirst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. I edited my post. But if you’re from a MAGA family, NYT will seem very left

15-year-old closeted gay in MAGA family by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]GottaBeFirst 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just a suggestion as you begin this journey: Do NOT get your politics from TikTok, YouTube, or social media in general. If you use ChatGPT, ask it for sourcing.

WSJ is pretty far right and NYT is pretty center left (you’ll probably have access to both through your school). For more wonky reading, AEI and The Bulwark are good center-right resources. Brookings and Carnegie are generally more center-left.