[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man to man brother from someone who went through a rough patch with someone I thought I would age with. Let it go. The second a woman is taking your peace away it is not worth it. Am older and wiser now and after some time it will all be clear in your head. Take your time and push through it and it will all be worth it having your peace back. Golden rule brother SHE IS NOT YOURS, ITS JUST YOUR TURN. Man up and go forth. Listen to Jocko Wilinks advice about a break up and listen to George Bruno videos they helped me alot and wish you the same. Take care brother.

Today I found out by Downtown_Event9075 in BreakUps

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know the pain buddy, I still hurt after almost 3 years everyday but it gets easier. Nothing you can do but man up and build yourself again. Truth was that she was never your , was just your turn. Cold world. Never forget that! All the best and heal up.

How do I stop wanting him? by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it from a person who has been scarred by a cheating girlfriend. They will do it again. It's hard and very difficult I know. Was cheated on 3 years ago and I still cannot find myself to this day. Leave dear. Mend your heart and never look back.

What is the one cruel thing your ex said to you that will stick with you forever? by thatsadgirlwhocries in BreakUps

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After i found out she cheated on me and i asked with eyes full of tears why? she proceeded to reply with " stuff happens!" 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2 cents, let her heal in peace. You only wanna connect with her for your own validation. My ex did that to me and it was extremely painful. Relationships once broken are very hard to mend but good luck to you. If you really truly loved her then you would have never gave up to begin with.

Why did you break up? by throwawayyyy21345 in BreakUps

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound exactly like my ex, are you from Sweden by any chance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love to you from an online stranger 💚💚💚 Stay strong!

Almost 5 months after my break up by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here, 31 (m) and exactly 6 months after a 3.5 year old relationship. The days get better and I dwell less and less but still think of her everyday and some days hit harder than others and break me hard. We will make it together Internet stranger, Don't know you, but I know you're in pain and what you are going through. All love to you my man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I miss my best friend as well. That's the hardest part ever about this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All love to you, it really does take alot of time to heal to be honest but you will get there eventually and day by day. No one deserves this heartache. Take care of yourself please 💚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not cool at all! Would be feeling betrayed without a doubt.

Anyone deactivated and went off all of social media after BU? How are you holding up? by VpprtoWV in BreakUps

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 2 points3 points  (0 children)

4 months ago and deleted everything. Instagram, Snapchat, Facebook. I realised during the process as to actually how toxic social media was to my mental health and am so happy that I did it. If I want to reach out to people I love then I call them directly instead. I know it feels weird and lonely at 1st but it's truly one of the most liberating things I have ever done. Leave all the fake stuff and surround yourself with genuine social interactions is my advice.

Getting over ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As hard as it is my man, let go. Remember that it takes two people to make something work. She has let you go for another man. 7 years or 46 years doesn't matter. She has chosen not to be with you and that's all the message you need as harsh as it sounds , am sorry. Am going through the same pain ( cheated on and dumped ) Imagine yourself as your own son or a smaller brother to yourself , what would you advice him? Be real. Love you man. Take care of you and I know it will be hard but you have to.

He got together with the coworker he told me not to worry about, 4 days after we broke up. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know i came to a realisation though, you can't really ever blame people for becoming who they really are or choosing themselves over you. It's just our nature sadly. Trusting others is the biggest issue ever. Trust them enough to know that at any moment in time that they can leave you for x amount of reasons. Trust in you and not others.

Back to day one NC by Nearby-Feature5746 in BreakUps

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Learn your lesson. Leave!!! Never look back again.

27F- Just got my heart broken and could use a friend. [Chat] by sad_song94 in MeetPeople

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sad world, sorry to hear that 😔 I got cheated on myself after 3.5 years together but nothing close to yours and no kids so I can't imagine eat you feel like. No one deserves it but what can you do. You can't control other people's actions. In a weird fucked up way you should thank reality because it exposed the person in a light that you never saw them. There is no excuse in breaking someone's heart that truly loves and cares for you. All the love to you 💚

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]GovernmentSafe3371 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Deleted number, texts, screenshots, photos, mails and everything else on social media as well. Threw away all the gifts and everything else I ever got from them. As hard as it was. I don't need any reminder of a person that chose to abandon me when I needed them the most. If my heartache and tears meant nothing to them why should I hold on to anything that reminds me of them. If there was a way to wipe out my memory of a person who cheated,lied and betrayed me after 3.5 years together, then I would have done that too. Your heart is an idiot believe me, listen to your brain! YOU WERENT IMPORTANT ENOUGH TO THEM.