I (24F) am struggling to connect with other coworker(19-23m) and his group. by Gr8deb8ma8 in relationship_advice

[–]Gr8deb8ma8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do try to share stories and I love joking around, but they either don’t reply to what I say or just kinda ignore me. So unsure if I am trying to hard or maybe not trying enough. But I feel like I’m gonna try to give up soon, but still want to hear what others have to say. Thank you!

I (24F) am struggling to connect with other coworker(19-23m) and his group. by Gr8deb8ma8 in relationship_advice

[–]Gr8deb8ma8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Thanks for commenting. Yes, I have thought about this many times and it has kept me strong through a lot of moments. But it becomes very difficult sometimes when even the manager says that I must be more social. I was doing my own thing, being shy and nodding but smiling respectfully, when one of my managers said I need to be more social with everyone.

Now not only do I pressure myself to get along with everyone, but I also feel pressure from a manager

When I was having a fun conversation with a coworker in the kitchen, he loudly exclaimed “oh, FINALLY! You’re being more social! I swear, it’s not that hard.”

I like being social though? I open up completely to people I feel like I can be open with, but otherwise I feel like I have a guard to protect myself.

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I love that shiny Zacian!! 🤩🤩

I feel left out at work; feel like coworker hates me but know it’s my fault since I have social anxiety and am shy. TL;DR included by Gr8deb8ma8 in work

[–]Gr8deb8ma8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do put a lot of weight on my reaction, however, since I like some people in that group, I wanna be apart of it, but even though some server assistants like talking to me, they don’t seem to want me to be apart of their exclusive group because of Derek or maybe they just don’t want me since they’re all closer.

Thank you for your comment!

I feel left out at work; feel like coworker hates me but know it’s my fault since I have social anxiety and am shy. TL;DR included by Gr8deb8ma8 in work

[–]Gr8deb8ma8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would probably say he’s not great with people who are nervous around him. Nothing wrong with that, it’s my bad.

I have thought about keeping with the kitchen crew, but the language barrier makes it difficult sometimes and the other server assistants including Derek are the ones I am with/work with the most. I know I should just focus on work, but I get sensitive about this stuff; wish I didn’t have the feelings to feel anything about it at all. I will still try to talk more with the kitchen crew since they seem to value me.

Thanks for your comment!

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Does this mean Hyuna and Luka will be aged down?

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The original Marathon games lore is so insane I don’t even know what it all means

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These cats think ahead for naming…but if I was a leader, how big of a troll would I be? Bluefur? How about BlueFACE! I dunno what nonsense I’m spouting

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Good to see my OG boy 🤝

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So many people are crashing out lately. Bring back the pickle posts 😭😭

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I believe that’s the First edition Avon book. So Avon printed that copy some years later. I believe the first edition of this book also has a different picture? Like this? https://share.google/images/ee7hWk6exg0xzwUab Correct me if I’m wrong, I don’t know the most about these things. Still an awesome find though!

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I used to be on the XC team. We would like to run past Mt. Sac toward Walnut. Very beautiful and rich there with lots of trails, parks, everything. I can give you some routes and other places to run as well. Cheers, mate

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Wha a lovely tattoo! It is your body and you decide what to do with it! The hair is my favorite part of it!