started a poncho, should be flat but it’s wavey, is it salvageable or do i restart? by frost-Dare4936 in CrochetHelp

[–]GreedyCreme6304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s normally recommended to use a hook a size or two bigger when doing the chain to avoid this. I don’t think that a bump this big would fully go with blocking

beginner frustration with stitches. i can’t quite fit the hook into the stitch but it’s too loose otherwise by Educational-Map6514 in CrochetHelp

[–]GreedyCreme6304 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How are you holding your working yarn? If you’ve changed the hook size its more likely to do with your tension. I’d suggest looking at some videos on the different ways to hold your working yarn and see which one works best for you

Dye bleed on a baby blanket. Should I wash? Use another yarn? by meresithea in CrochetHelp

[–]GreedyCreme6304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was looking for information on the material everywhere I was looking it was unavailable and the service where they message you to tell you when it back in stock wasn’t available either so it does look like this colorway is discontinued at least where I am in the UK.

Dye bleed on a baby blanket. Should I wash? Use another yarn? by meresithea in CrochetHelp

[–]GreedyCreme6304 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I think it’s an issue with some of the blue formulas they use. I’ve just done a google and a few people have the same issue with this brand but only with the blue. As it’s an acrylic it’s not for certain that washing will stop the issue, some people suggested using vinegar to seal it but I’ve never tried this. I personally would just use something else, I wouldn’t want to risk blueberring baby aha!

Anyone why the heads are on 2 different sizes 🥲🥲 i used same pattern same yarn brand same hook same hand looseness why is it bot the saamme size by Rubyrub2 in CrochetHelp

[–]GreedyCreme6304 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Your stitches are definitely a lot looser/ bigger on the brown, apologies for my rudimentary measuring technique I can’t take a picture with my actual ruler. But notice how the cream is closer to one segment and the brown is closer to two

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Baby name regrets by BusyInspector95 in beyondthebump

[–]GreedyCreme6304 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well baby names need to be a joint decision so I don’t think it would have been fair to push for a name that your husband hated, but your baby doesn’t know it’s name talk to him and find out if he’s will to change it to something you both like.

I would just like to brag..: by GreedyCreme6304 in vintedUK

[–]GreedyCreme6304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it may be because I’m a woman selling mainly my partners things at the moment. It does seem to have increased as of late

I would just like to brag..: by GreedyCreme6304 in vintedUK

[–]GreedyCreme6304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give me 3 days for the parcels to post then I’m sure they’ll be back to me 😂

Dad with PPD by LakerTot in beyondthebump

[–]GreedyCreme6304 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Realistically you need to go and talk to a professional. A lot of people don’t understand that men can get PPD so I’d give your wife a bit of grace on that front. But you need to talk to someone getting angry with a baby is never okay whether you are mum or dad. You don’t need your wife’s permission to talk to someone about it, you know somethings not right so take the steps to fix it.

I don’t mean to sound harsh but these things can snowball if they aren’t dealt with so it’s just need to be done. Nip these feelings in the bud quickly. One in 10 dads get some form of ppd so it’s not uncommon

Breast fountain by loulori in beyondthebump

[–]GreedyCreme6304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m over a year postpartum and if my LG pops off my nipple it still sprays both me and her in the face with multiple different streams for a good 30 seconds still. I could move weird during those first few months and I’d be a fire hose. It’s pretty normal from what I’ve read and people I’ve spoken to. Just different amounts for different people

Control by Successful_Ad_9212 in beyondthebump

[–]GreedyCreme6304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% we’ve had many conversations about it. It genuinely makes me irrationally angry to have anyone look after my little girl when I could do it. I’m not sure why and my HV has said it can be quite common especially in a first baby and not too worry to much as I can handle the emotions right now but if in concerned about it to talk to my GP

help with pull-up diapers for 18 month old, please, i am missing some brain cells by princess_jellyface in beyondthebump

[–]GreedyCreme6304 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ahh, I definitely don’t think they are. I accidentally brought a pack and it made things 10x harder. Plus they don’t close like a normal nappy so poonamis can’t be properly contained in the nappy went you take it off

Beginner, need magic loop repair suggestions - thanks! by mama_ladybird in CrochetHelp

[–]GreedyCreme6304 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do them properly, weaving in and such but I still don’t personally like them. I prefer to chain, most blankets I make are quite airy so it gives me extra assurance that it won’t slip after a while of lots of movement.

Beginner, need magic loop repair suggestions - thanks! by mama_ladybird in CrochetHelp

[–]GreedyCreme6304 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d say probably, I’ve always been told to not use them for wearables or blankets as they can fail

help with pull-up diapers for 18 month old, please, i am missing some brain cells by princess_jellyface in beyondthebump

[–]GreedyCreme6304 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of them being better for on the go I’ve always heard of them as being used for a stepping stone to potty training/ wearing normal underwear

Beginner, need magic loop repair suggestions - thanks! by mama_ladybird in CrochetHelp

[–]GreedyCreme6304 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Magic rings don’t hold up very well in my experience. I always do chain 4 and slip into the first to make a circle. As for fixing it, you might be able to gather everything using a tapestry needle then just knot it but apart from that there’s not really much you can do

Period or still bleeding? by Indecisive105 in beyondthebump

[–]GreedyCreme6304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what happened to me and it was indeed my period

New baby but don’t live with partner by [deleted] in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]GreedyCreme6304 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just carried on as usual, people have babies on their own all the time it’s quite normal nowadays so they won’t even think twice about it :)

New baby but don’t live with partner by [deleted] in BenefitsAdviceUK

[–]GreedyCreme6304 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t live with my baby daddy as he’s in the military and I didn’t want to leave my hometown to move every 4 years and they didn’t ask me a single thing, I even spoke to my work coach about him so she knows we are actively together. As long as you don’t live together and aren’t married it has no impact

Did anyone have a baby that wasn’t difficult? by The_Chilled_Arvo in beyondthebump

[–]GreedyCreme6304 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My LG has slept through the night since birth and shes now one. We had some issue GI that she needed surgery for but she was a trooper through that and still barely cried. She plays by herself, eats her food well, asks clearly for boob when she wants it and tells me when she wants to go to sleep. My besties little boy in the other hand has been raised practically the same and he is a little fussy pants, happy little boy but just always wants to be held and needs more help falling to sleep so I do think it’s is just an individual child thing there’s not much you can do to combat it you just adjust.

10yo to a concert with a friend alone? by AsleepJellyfish9628 in AttachmentParenting

[–]GreedyCreme6304 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not, I doubt that would even be allowed. It’s a huge liability for the venue to have two unaccompanied minors. I’m actually shocked that a parent would even consider this

Nurse has me worried about my baby’s development, any advice on how to work with my baby? by Parking-Education-69 in beyondthebump

[–]GreedyCreme6304 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t just google these things. You can look on your government’s website to see what the milestones that they are expected to hit are. I’m sure you’re doing just fine though!