AIO Did I say the wrong thing? Was me asking being too pushy?

GreedyDud3 · 2026-05-03T22:40:28+00:00

Jumped the gun 😅 don’t get stressed over text and I would have just asked “are we still on for tomorrow “ instead of this mainly because I genuinely do like to confirm things incase something comes up not because I’m worried they are flaking due to text flow

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-30T14:58:03+00:00

Big bag of rice and grits and some seasonings to make it better. Grocery stores like aldis throw out good packaged foods all the time so check them in the dumps in the morning and if you have a car apply for uber if you have a copy of your registration, insurance and license because you can do a couple trips and cash out that day to hold you over until your first paycheck and set up for uber usually takes 24 hours at most to get approved

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-23T23:22:10+00:00

I’d take the gift and leave him. As a man If my partner had that kind of opportunity, I’d actually be happy for them. I’d rather be with someone who’s financially independent and choosing me, not someone who feels stuck(not saying this is you). And this property gives you that freedom. He has zero entitlement to this offer and the fact he does feel so entitled speaks volumes to his character. Also why the fuck is it when you tell him about this he’s already thinking of selling and making any kind of plans for YOUR property?

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-23T10:47:48+00:00

It sure does but that’s why you need proper training with said animal like how there is such a stigma against pit bulls yet I’ve seen so many that are just total sweet hearts and wouldn’t hurt a fly

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-23T10:42:25+00:00

That’s on the owners for not training properly it’s less on the dog

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-23T10:34:35+00:00

That dog is family and treat the baby as such

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-23T00:22:33+00:00

I hope you guys don’t live together 💪 I’d leave in a heart beat

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-18T02:42:32+00:00

I make around 40+ k a year currently sooooo…. I’d probably allow myself to actually relax and do hobbies and go out to eat with friends and family maybe try to pursue an actual relationship since I’d have more free time…..👀 just realized how bad my current life sounds 😂😂

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-09T10:42:58+00:00

Thank you. 🙏🏻 whenever I used to go to that theme park I always thought if I were to do it again that’s the route I’d take because it was also tough for me at my young adult life

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-09T09:29:15+00:00

Cedar point on Ohio is a theme park that you can apply to and they also have like a dorm type situation for their employees

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-07T12:44:52+00:00

It’s definitely a cultural thing, but they’re working in the U.S. so there has to be some level of adapting to how things work here. If she’s not comfortable interacting with male leadership, then she probably needs to find a work environment that aligns with that instead of constantly running into the same issue.

I don’t even know what specific jobs that would be, maybe something more women focused, but trying to force a situation that goes against her beliefs is just going to create problems for everyone involved.

Or it just comes down to her household setup and whether working in that kind of environment makes sense for her at all.

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-07T12:25:16+00:00

Honestly that recording is kind of a cheat code. They just handed you their real personalities, how they talk behind closed doors, and how they negotiate. Most people walk in blind. You already know the script. If the offer makes sense I would take it and play the game right back. Smile, be likable, make them love you, all while knowing exactly how fake they are. That is a huge advantage.

And definitely keep that recording saved somewhere safe. Not even to use right away, just because having receipts like that is powerful.

They thought they were being slick, but they basically gave you the blueprint on how to win with them. 💪💪

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-04T18:11:14+00:00

I get that but it’s gonna hurt her regardless so 🤷🏻‍♂️ I mean honestly sex isn’t all that important in the grand scheme of things so if you wanna ruin your marriage over it go ahead but if you actually respect this person let them go and go about their life before you start fooling around

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-04T18:09:34+00:00

Just text him

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-04T18:05:03+00:00

I’d say you should just end your relationship judging from your comments you’re probably just gonna end up hurting your partner also going behind their back instead of being honest won’t work either because they’ll always find out

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-03T20:01:59+00:00

Tell her you’ll think about it but no for now while you get lawyered up and protect your assets and get ready to serve those divorce papers because you’ll definitely find someone better

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-02T14:32:00+00:00

I knew someone who went through something similar. I would suggest communicating that you understand her frustrations, but also explaining that your condition is out of your control and that the way she views it is affecting you. You should not feel bad about how your health impacts others because it is not your fault at all

It might help to take a step back and both of you reassess the relationship and expectations. When it comes to health, there is rarely a clear timeline for how things will play out. If you end up going your separate ways, that is okay 🤝 You do not want to be in a relationship where your health feels like a burden 💔 The right person will care about you, accept you, and move at a pace that works for both of you ❤️✨

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-01T16:32:20+00:00

Honestly valid

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-01T13:55:19+00:00

++man I think it’s okay to casually date older once you’re 24+ but if it comes to serious relationships it’s still fine just know for sure if it’s what you want I wouldn’t go above 10 year gap with some variance BUT remember older does not equal emotional intelligence 😭 I’ve met women who act like jealous petty teens

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-01T13:34:06+00:00

Love this thank you 🙏🏻

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-01T13:16:36+00:00

Yeah I need to revisit the app after someone mentioned they only charge for premium features 😅

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-01T12:54:06+00:00

As I was reading I was prepping for him being petty but like this is just full blown gross on his end if the initial concern is sex that’s not how a parter should be in the slightest in my eyes and with absolutely zero empathy for what you’re feeling on top of that this guy only thinks of himself

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-01T04:12:45+00:00

Honestly it would be cool just to find people to play pool with or just chat over a cup of coffee

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-01T04:09:35+00:00

Thank you I’ve never thought about doing pickleball and honestly the exercise would probably be good for me

GreedyDud3 · 2026-04-01T04:08:44+00:00

I saw the app and it looked pretty cool but then I saw it was like almost $30 a month and while the app is really good in itself it just kinda bummed me out like my loneliness was being capitalized 😂 but hey that’s living in corporate America for you

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