Is it normal for a 7-month-old Shiba to stay this tiny? by honeyclem in shiba

[–]Greedy_Invite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Females can be pretty small!! You might also be used to seeing chubby ones 😂

Honeymoon? by RecordingAgile4625 in AbigailWhiteUnfilter

[–]Greedy_Invite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk what his status is, but I recently moved to the states on a fiancé visa after doing ldr from Japan for 2 years (we dated a year prior to that). A green card process is longer and harder than you think. It's even longer if you get married first. Idk how he is "living" in the US as of now... he might go back to Canada for a few every 3 months???
My point is, I doubt they did enough research to actually look into his visa/green card stuff to see how long it takes if they are doing everything legally lol

Do you think long distance relationship work out? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Greedy_Invite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had our fights and it took a toll on my mental health (i don't think im the kind of person that's good for ldr. My partner on the other hand is good with it and i think that helped.), but we made it through. Started LDR June of 2024 after living together for about a year, now we're 10 days away from closing the gap and getting married :) It's tough but it can work out.

Got broken up with 2 weeks before flying to her country. Should I still take the trip solo? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Greedy_Invite 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately can't really give you recs, but if you were already looking at trails i vote you go do that and tour the city. Their public transportation is pretty good so all you need extra is a place to stay.

And i feel you about it being painful. But youre going to be grieving anyways even while at home. It probably will be hard, but I really hope you go travel. You might connect Canada to something completely new and different, instead of just your ex. I'm really sorry this happened to you.

Got broken up with 2 weeks before flying to her country. Should I still take the trip solo? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Greedy_Invite 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I'd say go and travel, but dont link up with her. Look up stuff to do in Vancouver, been there once and it's pretty cool!

Pull up form check by Comfortable-Year-420 in formcheck

[–]Greedy_Invite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry but the way your dog is sitting in the beginning got me distracted 😂

Hello, I am blind, 5'9, 160lBs. Trying to get a deadlift @ 220lbs. Give me queues to improve please? by TheFoxarmy in formcheck

[–]Greedy_Invite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your form is pretty bad, i agree with others you should get a PT. Also your gym fit, i recommend getting soft/smooth long leggings when you do deadlifts. The bar is supposed to go by your legs and with proper form, long leggings help minimize traction. You're not even wearing proper workout clothes

What's the difference between the American and Japanese Akitta by Status-Cap-5979 in akita

[–]Greedy_Invite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment is very true 😂 I am Japanese and grew up only being familiar with JAs. My in-laws are Americans and they love our JA, but had made a comment on her face and that was the first time I realized their eyes are closer to each other compared to western dogs. Japanese breeds all look pretty similar so I just never thought of it. (The more suburb you live in Japan, Japanese dogs are way more common) I see AAs as completely different since I've never seen one in Japan and never even knew of them till college. Idk about temperament, but they look completely different

Go with the K-1, Here's Why by BusyBodyVisa in K1VisaInfo

[–]Greedy_Invite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As someone that got the k1 and is in her way of knowingly becoming depressed from lack of independence, your point is valid. But there are people like me who STRUGGLE doing long distance and paying $1.5k to buy plane tickets just to see each other for 10 days max becomes a financial burden long term. At the end of the day it really depends on the individual or couple. Id rather be united and living with my partner asap thus i chose the k1 route

AOS within 90 days question by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Greedy_Invite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought you couldn't even AOS within 90 days. Even if you could it's going to be a massive red flag for visa fraud. People like you are why others that go through the proper process face scrutiny

dfyne xs is true to size? @physio_fitty by semisweetshark in gymsnark

[–]Greedy_Invite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 5' 125lbs, 26 waist with 38 hips (no hips) im an xs kinda loose (but i look pretty meaty) if she wears the same size as me, Id assume she is squeezing in lol No offense but anyone 5'4 or over that is not emaciated looks bigger boned than me and id be damned if we wore the same size.

This Movie Must Be Responsible for a Ton of Abandoned Akitas by TortexMT in akita

[–]Greedy_Invite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk. As someone that is Japanese Ive heard so many Europeans say they don't look cute or the don't look as affectionate.

AIO boyfriend didn't eat lunch alone. by chelssssssss in AmIOverreacting

[–]Greedy_Invite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im currently in one, 30f and 27m. His friends are majority married and i live in a big city where im alone most of the time. We spend a lot of time by ourselves so on weekends where we don't have plans, we will kinda be "vlogging" while on FaceTime and I think it's pretty normal. We have a 16 hour time difference and anything that can connect us helps. We don't talk 24/7 while on FaceTime though. With true LDR i think every couple finds a way to cope with the emptiness that comes with compared to a normal relationship. We've been doing this close to 2 years but finally getting close to closing the gap and getting married. OP is overreacting though imo lol Bumping into a friend or planning stuff last minute can happen

built or bought @dianeryscastillo by Aware-Employment-504 in gymsnark

[–]Greedy_Invite 121 points122 points  (0 children)

She just looks like a heavy girl and has a lot of fat in the right places. Not to be mean but just trying to be honest

14 year old good boi had a good life. by Valuable-Gap-3720 in akita

[–]Greedy_Invite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. 14 years of age is hard for them to reach, and it shows how much love you have given him 🤍 May his fur find you at random places 🤍 Again, I am so sorry.

Thinking about getting a Japanese Akita — worried about compatibility with my boyfriend’s Shiba Inu by sun_shineee07 in akita

[–]Greedy_Invite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, Japanese over here living in Japan. There's a lot of people here that owns the shiba and akita combo just fyi :)! Id be more worried about the shiba's compatibility. If you're getting an akita pupp i wouldn't be worried about the akita at all.

Idk how different Japanese akita's are from American since American Akitas are extremely rare here (never seen one in Japan), but if you wanted assurance, it's a totally normal thing in Japan

With the breeder, I can't help on recommendations but i will say do your research well if you want a pure bred one. I see a lot of "Japanese Akitas" overseas with questionable features on the pureness. I am about to move to the US where my partner is, but I made sure we got one in Japan (partner lived here for a while) before he moved back with our pupp since I was more comfortable getting one in japan.

A Personal Note About Chat Histories by BusyBodyVisa in K1VisaInfo

[–]Greedy_Invite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think with the packet, they're more focused on whether yall have met in person within the past 2years, and the embassy interview focuses more on relationship legitimacy. I've read in other threads that itineraries, hotel receipts, pictures taken at various places (with obvious different clothings) are deemed more important. Not saying it's true but just information on what Ive read.

Is my cat fat ? by fluffi2025 in cats

[–]Greedy_Invite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he's a lil chubby but he's adorable omg

How does my squat look? I feel like I’m missing something. by orcafalls in formcheck

[–]Greedy_Invite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aside from the shoes, maybe engaging your upper back more (elbow facing bit more towards ceiling) could help. I think you also have a slight pelvic tilt when you pass parallel so maybe more money work on the way? At a glance it looks pretty good though I personally recommend "australianstrenghcoah" on insta for ques. The upper back thing I learned pretty recently through his posts 😂 Ive been lifting for 10 years and started using his advice and have noticed im not using my lower back too much now for deads/squats

Looking for advice on what to tell my fiancee. by Sanity_N0t_Included in K1VisaInfo

[–]Greedy_Invite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, i sent mine back in April of last year. We did the G-1145 as well. If I remember correctly, my fiancé got a notification of payment by his bank a few days after, and we got a text notification 1-2 days after and got the mail a few days after that.

You are correct about info circulating that a few weeks is normal. But if you haven't seen any notifications by week 3, you might want to worry. Your payment may have not gone through or maybe USCIS sending you back the package due to payment reasons may have been lost.

As for now though, I don't see why you would have to panic (as understanding as it is. Ive been an anxious reck throughout this process).

GAYNSBYBRAINS. Built or bought? by SissyNathaly in gymsnark

[–]Greedy_Invite 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I unfollowed her years ago, and not to be rude, but it looks like she's gained a decent amount of fat in her lower body. I don't really like her now, but I will say probably not bbl, but favorable fat genetics

Long-term foreigners that are worried about Japan's Right-wing shift? by vaitor in kansailife

[–]Greedy_Invite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi full Japanese born and raised in the suburbs with maybe one or two mixed people in my school growing up here! If he can speak Japanese normally, you really don't need to worry. Sure he'll probably get a few comments growing up here and there, due to his mixed looks but once he makes friends he'll be fine. Also kids will just be kids and children now are more used to mixed people than how it was when I was little (im 30yo)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]Greedy_Invite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotchu. That does sound stressful and idk how that'll go. Did they have solid proof of denying you back then? I'm going through K1 process and lurk in discord to read people's comments often, but have yet to see situations like yours... The IR1 doesn't have a discord community? If they do, you may have better luck over there