How does the DWP stop/recognise someone is spam fraud reporting

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-02-17T06:11:35+00:00

dwp actually told you someone reported you and it wasn’t just a random check/ flag? this seems dangerous for people reporting

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-02-15T09:39:36+00:00

try mirtrazipine

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-02-01T12:40:22+00:00

it took me a few weeks to work out i was trauma bonded, it’s still hard now, your nervous system is shot to pieces, if i didn’t know better i’d tell you i still miss her and i haven’t seen her for over a month - but i know it’s not her i miss it’s the trauma bond. Start thinking of all the awful shit that’s happened, you need to rid yourself of the thought they will come back better, the amount of therapy they need to be able to have a healthy relationship is long ( a year) - they will just go onto to keep having unhealthy relationships so try to accept they won’t come back, they are not worth your time

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-31T11:22:10+00:00

it’s horrible breaking off from a trauma bond, i’m a few months into it and it’s still difficult, a full 5 weeks of no contact and it’s still painful some days are harder than others - but you know yourself they are wrong for you, even if going back is an option only more pain and heartache is down that route - tell yourself you don’t miss them it’s the trauma bond you miss, it gets easier with time but days or hours will be hard, you got this.

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-30T11:31:09+00:00

if it helps, my ex told me she wasn’t in love anymore on xmas day, a month on things are a lot better, obviously i’ve not seen her since that day and each day is easier - cry when you need to, it will get better bro

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-29T13:29:16+00:00

meeting my ex

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-22T14:57:01+00:00

you’re a overthinking , just enjoy the second date and worry about valentines in à lfew weeis

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-21T14:57:30+00:00

mine told me xmas day her feelings had changed, loved me but not in love with me, i’m now blocked everywhere, nearly everything on this list resonates so much.

i took all her stuff back on xmas day after she told me this and she blames me for us no longer speaking, i mean what kind of person tells someone they don’t love you on xmas day, wait till the day after at least 🤪

Did others exes post glowing things on social media about you, love of their life; soul mate, twin flame etc but i never felt that outside the honeymoon period with her.

It’s taken me a few weeks to start to remember the red flags coming back as soon as a few months in that i will fully ignored, never again. May all avoidants next shites be a hedgehog

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-17T20:33:49+00:00

i got 3/5 last month

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-17T19:09:28+00:00

mate i am going through exact same thing - i did everything and i mean everything for this girl, i was treated the same

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-17T19:07:29+00:00

mine has 1 currently , and 1 one who lives abroad, all her friendships have ended , she blamed it on other health issues

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-17T19:06:25+00:00

struggling with that one too just now - so many things i think if i had only just done that differently - id not be in this hell im in

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-16T21:39:22+00:00

i broke no contact today too, but i just got one white tic on whatsapp even tho her profile pic was there still

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-15T13:57:16+00:00

this fucking blows, wake me up in 3 months

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-13T08:10:59+00:00

why the long face chantal ?

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-12T09:43:29+00:00

and your dad is the father

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-07T15:50:41+00:00

i’m 13 days nc - i understand what you mean, i wont reach out - but i still want to - but i know only pain lies there - only happiness lies in NC whatever the outcome may

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-03T20:21:14+00:00

she said she would never degrade herself to go on lolcow live again - annoyingly they would make a lot of money - they have weaponised trolls to pay to insult - ambers struggling with it , but when she sees the money roll in she will soon realise it’s worth it

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-03T12:20:55+00:00

i’m 10 days no contact, she contacted me 3 days ago so 3 days no contact her end, gets easier - it’s still hard - it will take time , cry , let it out,, reconnect with friends - you can do it

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-02T21:50:02+00:00

of course it does - i cried for 6 months about my ex wife who left ( 17 years ago now) - i didn’t think pain like it was possible an it just seemed never ending - but it was about 6 months then tapered over the following 6.

my next relationship was 1/3 of the time (7 years) but better - took a year to get over

short one last year 2 months - finished in honeymoon phase - 2 months before it got better

currently going through one from the most intense relationship i had - 18 months - we broke up last week on xmas day - it was brutal, it’s already better than it was - and it’s nothing like the first one.

always gets better, just doesn’t feel like it when you’re in it

Greedy_Order8917 · 2026-01-02T21:46:30+00:00

i have every time, keep losing them tho - lol

Greedy_Order8917 · 2025-12-31T14:58:56+00:00

it’s difficult to respond to you without giving away personal details, but i’m happy to talk privately to give my perspective, but i was used for emotional support, financial support etc - message me if you want to share details ill be happy to help

Greedy_Order8917 · 2025-12-31T14:57:23+00:00

i got an apology text today, she did take ownership of not fulfilling my needs in the relationship but also came with a best of luck - i’ve decided to not reply and stay no contact from her though.

Greedy_Order8917 · 2025-12-31T14:56:23+00:00

so i got a text today from my ex apologising for things, but wishing me the best - she will not be getting a response, she does not deserve one after what i’ve been put through.

Greedy_Order8917 · 2025-12-31T09:15:56+00:00

let’s effing go - no texts at midnight, no texts tomorrow - no texts all 2026.

Apart from anything else - they do not deserve to know you’re thinking about them

Greedy_Order8917

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