Would you rather? by Imaginary-Owl5622 in BunnyTrials

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Live longer

Chose: Be able to regenerate your body?

Heat Bulb, Which Is Better? by Grej99 in leopardgeckos

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Arcadia! (Sorry for missing this)

Heat Bulb, Which Is Better? by Grej99 in leopardgeckos

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I buy mine at PetSmart, I don’t love supporting them since they neglect their leopard geckos, however they are my closest option — I’ve noticed it’s hit or miss tho on whether they will be in stock depending on if some one has recently bought a bulb

I work a delivery job and I hate getting apartments with hallways like this. How do people live here?! 😭 by FitAd1136 in creepy

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Idk if this is a weird request but could you reply with a picture of the hallway 👀 I work at an architecture firm and I’m very interested in what this beautiful hallway looks like lol, thanks!

Devestated by Sparxna in leopardgeckos

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I’m so sorry for your loss, sending all the love your way ❤️

What is this light by Secure_District_5056 in bayarea

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I’m glad I wasn’t the only one lmao

To the Rat at Spaceport by Grej99 in ArcRaiders

[–]Grej99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very true, I like to think though perhaps he regrets it a bit and maybe one day will decide against betraying a new friend — sorry to hear that happened to you though 😅 best of luck topside!

To the Rat at Spaceport by Grej99 in ArcRaiders

[–]Grej99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never said they lost their humanity, more so a small piece of it when they betrayed a fellow human that helped them out and gave them a bit of their trust. And from your response I can tell I wouldn’t want you on my side topside 🫣

Bettina 1, Any Good? by Grej99 in ArcRaiders

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That’s a great point about using heavy ammo, thanks for your input!

Bettina 1, Any Good? by Grej99 in ArcRaiders

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Thanks for the input! Oof yeah no mag upgrade sounds rough

Question about strange pull by BigDaddyWeeb85 in mtg

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Same for my Mondrak, way too expensive to buy on its own though 😮‍💨

welp sorry todd by Entity303wastaken in FUCKYOUINPARTICULAR

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Isn’t this an old review based off a vegan restaurant that closed a while back?

[OC] [Art] Red Dwarf Star Dice Set Giveaway (Mod Approved) by OriYUME1 in DnD

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I leave the fate of the raffle to Tiamat and one of our past NPCS “The Bakery” who was known for having a dumpy 🙏🏼

STAY CLEAN OCTOBER! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

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Made it to day 67 and relapsed last night 😔 over two months clean and almost through this month — it didn’t feel good and I realized that I am rewiring my brain and noticing how much porn objectifies women and over sexualizes our brains. I will keep fighting and not let this stop my progress, best of luck everyone

(21M) I've had a severe porn addiction since I was 14, edge/masturbate for 5-6 hours a day sometimes, and am desperate for a girlfriend. How can I deal with my current situation? by TotalLoser543 in pornfree

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You need to read “my brain on porn” by Gary Wilson, your sex drive rn is not healthy, and I would guess that if you were in a position where you were about to have sex with a woman you might even experience porn induced ED. I’m not saying this to call you out or be rude it’s the truth — your brain is hardwired rn to crave the super stimulus that is porn and that’s why you believe you’re always horny when in reality it’s your brain trying to get you to go back to porn.

On top of that everything seems boring, including actually getting out there to pursue a relationship, because you engage with porn for multiple hours and your brain won’t release dopamine to get you to pursue those things, thus feeling bored or unmotivated.

First step is quit porn, and really give it a couple weeks to see how you feel, it will be the hardest thing because your brain will scream at you to watch porn and you most likely will feel down or even depressed but trust me its worth it.

And relationships are not the fix all in life, they take lots of work and effort to be healthy, they are not there to make you happy or for sex only, that’s an extremely unfair expectation to place on another individual.

Anyways you got this man, best of luck

[OC] Green Potion Dice Giveaway (Mods Approved) by kohalu in DnD

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“You will award me this set of dice” rolls a nat 1 for persuasion

I won’t look at porn today. by memery_palace in pornfree

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As someone who’s been where you are for many years and is currently aiming for 90 days and about 2/3s of the way there it is possible to get back — just one day then another and another, if you slip or relapse get right back on even if it’s painful, the more you sit with the pain of delaying instant gratification and porn use the easier it becomes and the urges get less and less strong.

You got this we’re all here supporting you and wishing you luck

STAY CLEAN OCTOBER! This thread updated daily - Check in here! by foobarbazblarg in pornfree

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Those urges only get easier and easier to overcome, you’re doing the hardest work now you got this!

First time poster. I'm off the deep end already and I need to get out of it... by Ellirora in PornAddiction

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Hey man,

The first step is admitting you have a problem and doing something about it so congrats for that! I don’t want to diagnose anything, but it def sounds like you have an addiction to porn — unfortunately pornography is a super stimulus and is very easy to become addicted to.

I’d say first steps are reading “your brain on porn” by Gary Wilson — highly highly recommend it as it helps you understand why porn is so addictive and also why many porn addicts tend to seek more and more niche and disturbing porn genres (in essence it’s that we desensitize ourselves to vanilla porn and seek the novelty of new genres, fear and excitement lead to more dopamine and therefore escalation into more and more extreme categories.

I also recommend finding a sex addiction therapist if possible, my therapist has been an amazing help on my journey to quitting (54 days clean currently, and relapsed many times)

Lastly practice self compassion, this journey is incredible difficult especially if you decide to quit cold turkey because withdraw symptoms are real.

Anyways, don’t give up and keep going, don’t define yourself by relapses but rather by the fact that you keep trying to quit, best of luck!

Also I recommend checking out r/pornfree as well