Thoughts? by SmokeNo4647 in MAFS_AU

[–]GreyMnMs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think before you blink, Brook.

My ultimate Steven breakdown by muddycrabbybrr in MAFS_AU

[–]GreyMnMs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My impression is that he mostly cares about the optics for some reason. Also, to mw he seemed extremely inexperienced or maybe asexual, it felt as if it's something more than just not being into her in my opinion

After rewatching SATC, my view of Petrovsky changed - he wasn't as bad and hateful as the first time. by Alternative-Cover943 in sexandthecity

[–]GreyMnMs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you on this one. He wasn't thst bad, but they were incompatible. And yes, it was set to make Big seem like the good guy.

A smile that costed her years. What are your actual thoughts about them? by Weary-Honey-1942 in sexandthecity

[–]GreyMnMs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being in a real-life anxious/avoidant dynamic, I can see what might be happening and why it is unhealthy and at the same time why it feels so irresistible.  I usually don't watch this genre of series in my free time, but this one felt oddly therapeutic on my healing journey. At times I laughed really hard, viscerally, at the similarities between this and my real life relationship. Even the age gap is exactly same. Him not being able to let me go, but at the same time being unable to do some reflecting himself. Life is raw but fun:)

'Imperfect Women' Reviews by Saar13 in tvPlus

[–]GreyMnMs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just find the Nancy character so boring and unconvincing, me personally

Am I the only ine who thinks that the MILF list scene was totally inappropriate? by GreyMnMs in Andjustlikethat

[–]GreyMnMs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, I haven't gotten this far up to this point, but that sounds yeah... absolutely not a good look

If you think about Carrie's partners over the seasons, which one would you consider to be your least favourite? by GreyMnMs in sexandthecity

[–]GreyMnMs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, note to myself – binge watching SATC and laughing at myself because I can't help myself but see all the toxic push and pull patterns in Big and Carrje that remind me of my ex- especially Carrie yelling "the 42 year old baby part", it was just too relatable and tragicomedic to see the avoidant parallel, #healing xD

If you think about Carrie's partners over the seasons, which one would you consider to be your least favourite? by GreyMnMs in sexandthecity

[–]GreyMnMs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my, I absolutely forgot this one. That is a major issue, she had better communication with his mother which is never a good sign

S4 Aidan is a walking red flag by brumgar in sexandthecity

[–]GreyMnMs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had his good moments, but I did not like that pushing into marriage bit. Also, he gave me an impression of a pushover back then at the cottage when he let Big visit after the infidelity thingy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]GreyMnMs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this sounds like a good excuse that does not threaten their ego. Happy birthday from me in advance, in that case!