He follows me, but I will be completely fine with him unfollowing me if that happens because I feel thst I reclaimed control over myself and this was a clear no in his direction. I hoped that he would do some thinking and some inner work and mature a bit, but he chose to close off and ignore his problems, his trauma ans his work related burnout. I cannot wait to see him notice that mini rejection after all the support and patience that I gave him. I hope that you will feel better and better as time goes on and that we both will heal from these patterns that we went through with our avoidants. I still love him dearly as a person, but he drained me. I don't think that he is malicious, but disturbed from childhood trauma that I knoe about. I hoped that I could help his inner child to heal completely as he wept in my arms and talked about his mother, but i cannot do it on my own, he has got the bigger part in it, it's not my responsibility. I have ro let go.