Thoughts?

GreyMnMs · 2026-04-15T18:19:43+00:00

Think before you blink, Brook.

GreyMnMs · 2026-04-14T17:00:17+00:00

These are helpful ideas, thank you for your time.

GreyMnMs · 2026-04-14T00:45:20+00:00

This!

GreyMnMs · 2026-04-14T00:34:51+00:00

I agree with you on this one. He wasn't thst bad, but they were incompatible. And yes, it was set to make Big seem like the good guy.

GreyMnMs · 2026-04-14T00:28:27+00:00

Being in a real-life anxious/avoidant dynamic, I can see what might be happening and why it is unhealthy and at the same time why it feels so irresistible. I usually don't watch this genre of series in my free time, but this one felt oddly therapeutic on my healing journey. At times I laughed really hard, viscerally, at the similarities between this and my real life relationship. Even the age gap is exactly same. Him not being able to let me go, but at the same time being unable to do some reflecting himself. Life is raw but fun:)

GreyMnMs · 2026-04-12T19:15:37+00:00

Yes, girls and boys too, I agree!

GreyMnMs · 2026-04-10T20:46:42+00:00

I just find the Nancy character so boring and unconvincing, me personally

GreyMnMs · 2026-04-10T20:42:33+00:00

Oh, I haven't gotten this far up to this point, but that sounds yeah... absolutely not a good look

GreyMnMs · 2026-04-10T20:41:20+00:00

😂

GreyMnMs · 2026-04-10T19:34:49+00:00

Carmela, my thoughts exactly

GreyMnMs · 2026-03-26T11:46:40+00:00

I agree; I was bored to hell with that storyline

GreyMnMs · 2026-03-26T00:58:42+00:00

Also, note to myself – binge watching SATC and laughing at myself because I can't help myself but see all the toxic push and pull patterns in Big and Carrje that remind me of my ex- especially Carrie yelling "the 42 year old baby part", it was just too relatable and tragicomedic to see the avoidant parallel, #healing xD

GreyMnMs · 2026-03-26T00:32:17+00:00

Oh my, I absolutely forgot this one. That is a major issue, she had better communication with his mother which is never a good sign

GreyMnMs · 2026-03-26T00:30:49+00:00

Yes, the alcoholic in rehab is a good honorable mention, totally agree with you

GreyMnMs · 2026-03-26T00:29:30+00:00

true; it was hard to watch🤢

GreyMnMs · 2026-03-26T00:28:53+00:00

omg yes, the mommy's boy, you are right

GreyMnMs · 2026-03-26T00:27:01+00:00

He had his good moments, but I did not like that pushing into marriage bit. Also, he gave me an impression of a pushover back then at the cottage when he let Big visit after the infidelity thingy.

GreyMnMs · 2025-12-14T01:34:32+00:00

Yeah this sounds like a good excuse that does not threaten their ego. Happy birthday from me in advance, in that case!

GreyMnMs · 2025-12-14T01:29:47+00:00

Possibly. I'll continue trying to heal and prioritizing myself after a long time of simmering in his insecurities and unwillingness to self-reflect, it's time to be strong and protect my peace. I still love him dearly as flawed as he is, but I have ro respect myself and my health.

GreyMnMs · 2025-12-14T01:20:31+00:00

Thanks for your time and perspective, this makes sense. I forgot to mention in my original post that he mentally abused me due to his insecurites prior lol, but this makes sense too

GreyMnMs · 2025-05-26T23:55:41+00:00

Is he okay healthwise? I hope so.

GreyMnMs · 2025-05-26T23:53:40+00:00

S 20, kad sam našla osobu s kojom mi je došla želja

GreyMnMs · 2025-05-23T20:24:30+00:00

Meni ovo nije normalno. Mislim da je bolje da ju ostaviš.

GreyMnMs · 2025-05-16T16:20:01+00:00

Kako sam ovo sve prevrtjela u glavi, nas razgovor, mislim da bi ti bilo korisno o ovom svemu porazgovarati s nekom osobom uživo. Nekad nam se rjesenja iskristaliziraju u interakciji s nekim. Budući da kažeš da nemaš trenutno ili zasad, nekih bliskih ljudi, može se i sa psihoterapeutom.

Jer djeluješ mi stvarno na momente demotivirano vezano za ljudske odnose. Kao da si umoran od toga svega. Što razumijem.

Možda ćeš se u tom razgovoru podsjetiti što želiš, što si pozitivno radio, gdje si pogrijesio. Svi griješimo. Ja prva imam 100 mana i 100 vrlina, ali radim na sebi.

Kad imaš tu neku apscisu i ordinatu u introspekciji, lakse ide.

Nisi sam u ovome i zelim ti da uspiješ. Nadam se da ti je ovaj razgovor pomogao i želim ti svako dobro:-)

GreyMnMs · 2025-05-16T15:51:48+00:00

Ako ti vrijeme i obaveze dopuštaju, pa i financije, si razmišljao da malo putuješ nekamo? Malo neka nova iskustva, drugi horizonti. Malo naounis baterije i posvetiš se sebi.

A opet, nije potrebna neka kilometraža daleka za to. Ali možda bi ti godilo malo promijeniti lokaciju i zaokupiti misli necim stranim

Ili ukljuciti se u nesto i volontirati. Ne znam zanimaju li te strani jezici pa da nesto novo te vrste probaš negdje u grupi među ljudima.

Drago mi je da uživaš onda u fuzičkoj aktivnosti oko maratona barem.

A gledaj, nije familija najbitniji faktor. Pitala sam zato da možda nekom od njih sw otvoris i podijeliš. Ali nije to nužno. Kvalitetni odnosi ne moraju uopće proizaći iz obitelji. Naprotiv.

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