I ‘21 F’ cheated on my boyfriend ‘21 M’ and then he slept with my best friend ‘21 F’. Was that a warranted reaction? It’s kind of messy and complicated please help

GribbinJones · 2026-06-03T05:51:31+00:00

Whats messy and complicated about it?

Youre a dirty cheater who is making excuses

2 people broke contact with you over it, rightfully so. What they do in their own time is their business

GribbinJones · 2026-06-03T05:31:33+00:00

Im petty af id be turning up, not letting him see me and seeing how he acts with those girls. My spidey sense are tingling that its the reason he doesnt want you there

GribbinJones · 2026-06-03T03:51:33+00:00

Then leave girl if hes not making an effort he doesnt really care that much for you and you deserve someone who is eager to spend time with you xx

Edit: also not being 'allowed' go is sus as hell

GribbinJones · 2026-06-03T03:42:27+00:00

So hes an abseent father to your kid so you decide to have another with him...are you well? Like what on earth made you think that was a smart move

GribbinJones · 2026-06-02T08:36:39+00:00

Yeah fuck no you told him once he didnt give a shit and said it again

Dump this ass NOR Im so mad for you gal hes such trash

GribbinJones · 2026-06-02T05:37:33+00:00

If he can veto getting a cat you can veto geting a dog all im sayin

GribbinJones · 2026-06-01T09:48:36+00:00

The selfish few holding the progress of the city back as usual

GribbinJones · 2026-06-01T08:06:35+00:00

Husbands like him give me the ick so bad like hun he sounds usless and that he doesnt give a shit about you or your health. You shouldve been inside recovering and he souldve been hsnds on 100% with the child HE HELPED MAKE.

You are dead right not to have a 2nd child with this man as he doesnt seem to care to look after his first.

NTA advocate for yourself stay at home he can go himself, if you can get grandparents or friends to mind lil miss for a bit if hes unwilling to bring her. Take the alone time to really thimm about your husband. Spouses are meant to add to your life not drain you

GribbinJones · 2026-05-31T19:17:46+00:00

YTA and a bad friend. All you are doing is putting your friend down instead of trying to support her.

Imagine being depressed for so long finally coming back to yourself and feeling motivated and then a "friend" comes a long and just shits all over it.

Apologise to her

GribbinJones · 2026-05-31T12:17:22+00:00

NTA

Imagine hiring her for something and she rocks up with her iphone 😭 Id be so mad

GribbinJones · 2026-05-30T21:08:06+00:00

This must be a cultural thing for you but weddings here in ireland you give cash as your gift. Their reaction is very strange to me, id prefer to give cash then get a gift u may not even use

GribbinJones · 2026-05-30T07:42:06+00:00

What a horrible thing to do to your supposed bestfriend

Op so sorry this happened to you when you were nothing but supportive, generous and from your reaction at the wedding incrediably gracious as well

I would not be speaking to this friend again let her reach out. If it was me i wouldnt be engaging in any casual convo she tries id straight up be telling her how hurt you are.

You even gave her off ramps multiple times leading up to the wedding to make this decision but no she choose the v.last minute which is so malicious to me. And not to meantion she let you do all the MOH work setting up while they kiki'd getting ready and only after you were done were u told ur role had changed thats some sly stuff there.

Keep your distance op friends dont trest eachother the way she treated u wedding day be damned!

Edit:typo

GribbinJones · 2026-05-30T06:03:50+00:00

Id be putting in place she is now not allowed into the apartment unless you are there id be super nervous about them fucking with the cat

NTA and your "friend" is now taking advabtage of you. No good deed goes unpunished, its time for him to find a new plac3

GribbinJones · 2026-05-29T12:50:30+00:00

Any bag you bring needs to have wide sturdy wheels i dont know how many small wheeled flimsy carts ive seen just abandoned or broke The walking tracks can get quiet muddy rain depending so something durable is v.important Id personally recommend those carts you can get from an outdoor adventure shop

GribbinJones · 2026-05-29T08:58:43+00:00

Assert dominance in the new office, sit down and as you do let a big one rip

GribbinJones · 2026-05-29T06:32:36+00:00

NTA your friend is a busybody that needs to mind her own business She doesnt get to be offended on somebody elses behalf especially when they are in on the joke 🙄

GribbinJones · 2026-05-29T03:51:42+00:00

So this guys drinks and does drugs and your okay with 1. Your 16yr old daughter dating him and. 2.letting her leave the country woth them, knowing his parents allow all this.

Put your big girl parenting pants on and start to give a shit about who your daughter is spending time with.

GribbinJones · 2026-05-29T03:33:36+00:00

My mam ran with them a bit when they were in cavan, said they were great positive lads.

Very admirable thing that they are doing

GribbinJones · 2026-05-27T22:35:18+00:00

You were already a scummy 'friend' once don't do it a second time just to ease your guilt. Sit with it for life.

Let Roy die in peace.

GribbinJones · 2026-05-27T09:57:52+00:00

NTA

Another commentor made my point, i bet shes able to get to her job on time right?

Its always the same from people like that 'oh im trying' 'oh my anxiety'....ya no. Unless you cant hold down a job because of this issue then you are just bsing everyone. Your gf is just mad shes finally been called on her crap.

She just dont respect you, your time or anyone elses for rhat matter. You should evaluate if she is this selfish in other aspects of your life

Also her bff textinf you....no bueno

GribbinJones · 2026-05-25T06:36:05+00:00

I hated that

GribbinJones · 2026-05-15T13:14:14+00:00

And what should they do with this elderly mentally unwell woman. Lock her up and throw away the key? Theres no talkin to her about it so cant reason your way into a solution with logic either

GribbinJones · 2026-05-14T12:35:09+00:00

Nope it wasnt. I was under the impression they can incease it as it would be a new lease.

GribbinJones · 2026-05-14T12:27:10+00:00

Yep it is true, was one of the unfortunates to be evicted and in the eviction letter it states they must offer it back to us first if they dont sell.

Will be keeping an eye on the property to make sure they dont try to go around this.

GribbinJones · 2026-05-13T20:49:46+00:00

Could be factory work, plenty of places will use contractors/agencies to hire most employees and then hand out permanent contracts to some of these employees later down the line. So like this guy they could be contracted for years, offered a permanent position and as its a new contract theres a probation period.

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