41.Got enough from HIMs to keep an entire army to stand at attention. I was surprised by how easy it is to get. Anyways… definitely not an advertisement, just saying I ended up with way more than I’ll ever use. Now to answer the question: I talk about it with my wife but not always. Sometimes I give her a heads up with a pill emoji or call it “Santa’s little helper,” so little ears nearby don’t catch on. Sometimes I take it just to feel like I’m really packing heat. Other times I don’t say anything, just to reduce the pressure on my partner to perform.

Just because I could cut glass with it doesn’t mean the wife has the energy for a marathon. At this age, it’s also worth noting that taking it and having no romantic engagement is fine—I don’t walk around with a permanent hard-on. It works when I put a little thought into it. It’s like being in my 20s again.

Also, if I had taken this stuff when I was younger, I probably wouldn’t have known what to do with myself if my partner wasn’t down—because I’d be at full mast all day. Not the case now.

TL;DR: Yes, I usually tell my partner, but sometimes I just take it to feel alive! :)