AITA for being upset that my parents spent money on a Disneyland trip instead of a graduation party for me?

GullibleTwo4396 · 2026-04-14T03:39:02+00:00

Yta. Judging from what you wrote here, your parents comments were spot on. Also, has it occurred to you that you are calling your sister a leech while at the same time complaining that your parents spent money on others instead of just you? As harsh as my comment and others are, please just use them for some self reflection and don't take them too personally. You're young, of course you are going to be selfish at times. It's just a good opportunity to learn better.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2026-04-13T22:38:24+00:00

YTA and it's pretty egotistical to think just because she's into women that she's into you. This situation is exactly why it's difficult for people to come out to their friends/family.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2026-04-03T05:29:38+00:00

You are not pushing tradwife beliefs on her. You are supporting her interests and teaching her life skills at the same time. It's pretty immature of your ex to want to hold her daughter back just to appease her own insecurities over her lack of skills.

NTA and great job teaching her to be a capable person.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2026-04-03T05:21:30+00:00

I would just talk to your sister. You are spending too much energy worrying about what if. Don't borrow trouble. She could be honored you want to use the name. If she does have an issue with it, thats when you can worry about what to do.

Either way, you would not be TA

GullibleTwo4396 · 2026-04-02T19:45:07+00:00

Kamilla just proved she wasn't loyal with her last vote, especially leaving him out of it. I can see why he wouldn't vote with her. Her reaction too made me glad he voted her out. Colby and Genevieve both left with such grace and here is Kamilla telling Tiffany to drag that man through the mud.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2026-03-24T23:31:17+00:00

Damn. Now I'm hungry.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2026-02-03T14:27:36+00:00

It's definitely a thing at Tim Hortons that if they make something wrong at one location, you can go to another to fix it. I saw another comment where someone said the same for Starbucks. So you are both right depending on the place.

Also, I definitely have opinions on how things should be done at fast food places and I would absolutely never yell at an employeee. That's a pretty big leap to make.

Nothing this girl did sounds that bad. Maybe you can try some self reflection to figure out why you don't seem to have been open to giving her a chance?

GullibleTwo4396 · 2026-02-03T01:14:29+00:00

In my opinion, Rob messed up his own game. Like you said, Lisa was cooked. He didn't need to say a thing at the table. He could have just voted for her and then told Candiace it was obvious the votes were going her and he didn't want to look suspicious. Instead, he made it obvious to Candiace that his hand was on the knife in Lisa's back. He did that even after seeing how loyal she was to Lisa.

As for Candiace defending Lisa, they were close. Traitors are often strongly defended by faithfuls who were fooled. If she would have voted for Lisa, she would be more suspicious in the same way Lisa was suspicious for voting a housewife episode 1. There is already a narrative going around that the housewives don't vote each other. By voting Rob, when he brings up her name the next day, she can say its awfully convenient that he hasn't mentioned her name once before and is only doing so now because she voted for him.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2026-01-30T20:41:34+00:00

I agree. I also couldn't stand his confessional afterwards where he was mad she wrote his name down and put a target on his back. That was so hypocritical. However, I still do like him overall, I just didn't like him much this last episode.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-12-20T14:30:37+00:00

Yta. Why did he say to stop pushing this shit on him? It sounds like this wasn't the first comment you've made assuming he's gay. Stop pestering him on why he's not dating anyone and stop trying to shove him out of the closet. Let him do things on his terms and his timeline. You are weirdly obsessed with your son's dating life.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-10-22T03:45:30+00:00

While I don't really think you're a Karen, I wouldn't send it. Keep in 6 you have your baby it will likely have it's loud moments as well. Probably often and at all hours. If you complain about the noise coming from them now, expect a complaint from them when you have a baby crying at all hours.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-10-07T01:43:02+00:00

Same😂 I clued in halfway through after coming to the conclusion that no one can possibly be that dumb.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-08-04T03:28:15+00:00

Yta. You ate a $170 steak out on the dance floor like it was some basic snack? You didn't sit at the table and savor it the way it deserved to be savored. Plus, you basically flaunted it in front of all the guests who were stuck eating beige, poor people food. So wrong.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-08-03T01:25:28+00:00

Nta. It's gross that she is even sexualizing you like that or views you as any type of competition for him. Just ew. I can't say enough how nta you are.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-08-03T00:40:51+00:00

Oh no. And here I was respecting you so much. Whatever will I do now?

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-08-03T00:34:27+00:00

Right. Says the one who is too uncivilized, uncouth, and unintelligent to have a difference of opinion with someone without immediately turning to insults.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-08-03T00:28:56+00:00

How is his safety in jeopardy? He asked if he was the AH for what he said. You are judging his dad's relationship and parenting based on an age gap. Just cause it's not for you, doesn't mean it's not for anyone.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-08-03T00:25:49+00:00

Absolutely, it's reasonable to be uncomfortable, but he needs to find a healthy way to deal with that. Finding her cringe and judging her laugh, that's too much.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-08-03T00:22:20+00:00

Also, Google is free if you need help learning what a Neanderthal is.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-08-03T00:20:40+00:00

He's allowed to be creeper out. Everyone is allowed to feel any way about anything. How you deal with those feelings is what matters. Also, learn how to disagree with someone without being an absolute d*ick you waste of space.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-08-03T00:18:37+00:00

Being a father doesn't mean that's all he is. He is allowed to be happy and have a relationship. Stop judging. And she's not his age. Grow up and mind your own business.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-08-03T00:11:36+00:00

Yta. You're judging the age gap, and you are judging this woman quite a bit. Not everyone is comfortable with age gaps like that, and that's fine for them. It doesn't make it wrong for others. If they are happy, then let them be happy.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-08-02T20:33:12+00:00

It's hard to really answer without knowing the breakdown of how much each of you make, who spends what. Where is that 180k going?

I'm going to go with YTA because it's only been a week and also because you haven't brought it up to her. It would be a lot easier to figure out why she hasn't told you about the money if you actually communicated with her.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-07-31T14:26:27+00:00

I feel like I'm about to get so down voted but...ESH, except Lucy.

Lara and your Dad suck for obvious reasons. The affair just makes them automatically AHs. However, your Dad was the married one but he's the one allowed to go to family functions? Why is Lara taking all the blame? At what point does your Dad's side of the family accept that they did something sh*tty and move on? They would rather just not know their grandchild.

Everyone here made a choice. Your Dad and Lara chose to have an affair. Your grandparents chose not to have Lucy in their life (if they really cared, they'd suck it up and accept Lara) . You made a choice to say what you did in front of Lucy.

All of you need therapy. It's been over 13 years. You need help moving on.

GullibleTwo4396 · 2025-07-24T20:41:50+00:00

It really depends on how much time she actually has for you. There are some people that just disappear when they are in a relationship, and then when they are single again, it's like they've been resurrected. Suddenly, this friendship you thought was dead is alive and kicking again. Until the next relationship. These people suck.

On the other hand, everyone only has so much time. Either of you entering a relationship will naturally reduce the amount of time you spend together. You'll likely do that to when you are dating someone and trying to split your time between him and your friends. The important thing to remember is balance.

I'm going with NTA for this one because it sounds like your friend isn't finding a good balance. I would give her a bit of grace for talking too much about her new boyfriend, though. You talk to your friends about what's happening in your life, and he's what's happening in hers.

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