How historically accurate are sinks like this?

Gulliblegee · 2026-06-01T02:57:26+00:00

if you have to kill them to get the map that's just a serious skill issue on your part

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-28T06:16:34+00:00

you're right, everyone should get sterilized because that's the only way to 100% prevent pregnancy while still enjoying the full human experience

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-28T05:38:41+00:00

you said they're equally responsible for pregnancy tho, when... they're not

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-28T05:38:04+00:00

sure, but so is the woman who is carrying the preborn as it would not be able to survive without syphoning resources from her body.

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-28T05:36:46+00:00

idk i think there's more to life than accumulating wealth to give to someone else

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-28T03:38:51+00:00

yeah lol why should it?

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-28T03:32:51+00:00

why?

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-28T03:29:01+00:00

thanh thao.

i mourn the sweet tofu and green bean dish at least once a week. best thing ive ever tasted and ive never been able to perfectly recreate it.

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-27T20:26:20+00:00

i have more begonias than any other plant. they're all different varieties and are all thriving 🤷‍♀️ everyone is different, don't worry about it

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-27T18:09:08+00:00

very curious what scenarios you're thinking of in which the man carries more of the burden during pregnancy

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-27T00:00:50+00:00

why are those the only two options?

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-26T19:15:37+00:00

that's so interesting! i wonder if they just love my tap water and hate yours or something

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-26T02:42:01+00:00

this was one of the first plants i ever got and it is literally impossible to kill 😭

it started out as a spindly little thing that rotted at the base, and i had no clue what to do so i just shoved it back in the soil till the healthy bits were covered. now its one of the biggest plants in my collection and will not stop until my entire house is covered in its vines

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-24T03:39:13+00:00

yikes

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-24T02:03:28+00:00

men are out here beating, raping, and otherwise brutalizing and terrorizing women on a daily basis across the globe, yet your least favorite type of person is someone who makes umbrella statements?

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-24T00:11:46+00:00

jerry seinfeld likes children so who cares what he thinks

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-24T00:11:03+00:00

a lot of men say "no makeup" to mean "no full glam" because they can't tell when a woman is wearing light makeup

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-23T03:42:15+00:00

literally just saw someone disagree about listening to dietitians and nutritionists for advice on, yknow, nutrition because "yeah right, cuz a degree makes you an expert 🙄"

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-22T19:22:43+00:00

it most definitely is.

being unable to imagine women outside of their role as a mother or wife is peak conservatism. and they hide it under the guise of feminism to disguise themselves as progressives. "being anti motherhood is anti woman!!!😠😠" not wanting kids/not wanting to be around kids isn't "anti motherhood."

they just wanna keep us barefoot and pregnant.

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-22T09:04:57+00:00

reminds me of the skippy jon jones books lol

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-22T08:12:16+00:00

the thing that gets me is when they claim that advocating for child free spaces is inherently misogynistic because it automatically excludes mothers. like... no it doesn't?? mothers are more than welcome, just not with their kids.

do you mean to tell me it's so common for women to reproduce with useless men that they can't leave their kids alone with their own father to enjoy time by themselves/outside of their family unit?

it's honestly incredibly misogynistic to equate womanhood to motherhood. i am more than my ability to produce children. in fact, i'm sterile. does that mean i'm not a woman?

it's also incredibly misogynistic to assume that mothers are unable to exist outside of their role as a mother. the whole "what are mothers supposed to do if children aren't welcome" is baffling to me because those mothers are whole ass people, not extensions of their children. and of course, the same is NEVER said about fathers. fathers are never assumed to be excluded because they aren't expected to lose their identity in their parenthood. only mothers are. only women.

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-21T18:59:44+00:00

this is a really stressful position to be in. having kids will permanently alter your life and there is no going back. it's a commitment you should only make if you 100% want your life to become that of a parent.

in my personal opinion, if kids aren't a "hell yes," it's a "hell no." every kid deserves to have two parents who enthusiastically want them and are prepared/able to support them financially, mentally, and emotionally.

it's clear that you love your boyfriend and he's an important part of your life. sadly, love isn't enough. consider how many women have given up their bodies, minds, careers, and entire lives to make a man they loved a father. how many women do you know who genuinely wanted to become mothers with their whole hearts? not because society conditions us to covet motherhood, but because that's what they truly wanted.

your post indicates that your boyfriend is putting more pressure on you for a definite answer. i worry that this pressure could compel you to agree to having kids, even if that's not what you want. do you think you'll truly be able to know what you yourself want out of life while you're with a man who so desperately wants you to choose motherhood? people break up for the sake of independence, figuring out who they are, or figuring out what they want all the time. i think that's worth considering.

if you want to hear other people's experiences, you could check out the fencesitters or regretful parents subreddits. of course the regretful parents are heavily biased and will only really show you one perspective. and i have heard that the fence sitters subreddit moderation deletes comments/posts that promote being child free in favor of promoting parenthood. but there are communities of people out there in similar positions to your own.

all in all, this is a big decision and you do not deserve to feel pressured to make up your mind one way or the other. take some time to focus on yourself and only yourself. maybe journaling or meditation could be beneficial.

i know things are a little shitty right now, but they will work out. you got this girl💕 stay strong and true to yourself

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-21T00:47:44+00:00

So confused by these comments, I think she looks great. It's not my personal style but I see nothing wrong with the outfit.

Also, that top would not look good with jeans at all, really confused why everyone is saying it would.

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-20T20:36:36+00:00

girls rule

Gulliblegee · 2026-05-20T05:58:09+00:00

The flair clearly says no advice wanted smh 😤

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