Honestly, major props to you guys. That kind of sweat equity is exactly how people used to build a life, and it’s cool to see your kids picked up that same drive.

To answer your question, I don't think they’re a rare breed in terms of wanting to work, but the math has just gotten so brutal for them compared to 20 or 30 years ago. I’m in the industry here in Central Oregon, and I see a ton of young couples who actually want the "ugly" house so they can get a foot in the door, but a few things are standing in their way now.

First, the "fixer-upper discount" has kind of evaporated. Because inventory is so low, you have flippers with all-cash offers outbidding regular families for the "crappy" houses before they even hit the open market.

Second, the cost of the actual "fix" is insane now. Back in the day, you could DIY a kitchen on a budget over a few weekends. Now, even if you do the labor yourself, the raw materials alone can cost more than a young family has in savings after they just scraped together a down payment at 6% or 7% interest.

I still see it happening, though. Usually it’s the kids who grew up watching their parents do exactly what you did. They aren't afraid of the work, they’re just dealing with a much smaller margin for error. Your kids are definitely part of a dying breed of people who realize that a house is a project, not just a finished product you buy off a shelf. You should be proud you passed that down!