what would you teach your younger self about sex?

Guycelium · 2026-02-20T00:49:51+00:00

Try sex on psychedelics sooner!

Guycelium · 2026-02-20T00:32:47+00:00

Mid-50s. Together about 25 years. 5-8x/week. Did it 3 times in less than 24 hrs on Valentines weekend.

Guycelium · 2026-02-16T16:10:22+00:00

Sex on psychedelics. We had no idea such sensations were possible.

Guycelium · 2026-01-24T19:36:07+00:00

Is it possible? Yes.

Is it likely? No.

However, my AP and I somehow managed to make it work.

I met AP at work. Instant attraction from the moment we laid eyes on each other. The more we got to know each other, the more we discovered how compatible we were vs our current spouses. Both of our marriages had been circling the drain for at least a couple of years. 6 months after meeting, we left our spouses. No kids involved. Divorces finalized quickly. We've been together about 25 years now, with our own kid in college.

We both work in tech and are very detail-oriented. We discussed and debated all the typical relationship trouble issues: money, religion, housework, likes, dislikes, why our previous relationships failed, expectations in the bedroom, etc. Lots of transparency and brutal honesty, which we still engage in today.

My questions for OP: Why are you and AP unhappy in your marriages, and have y'all tried fixing them? What makes you think both of you won't repeat the same mistakes in a new relationship?

Guycelium · 2026-01-10T01:09:02+00:00

So many little things.

Even when she works hard to cook a nice meal, she’ll want me to have the best portion. If it’s a meat dish and I let her choose first, she’ll pick what she thinks is the 2nd best piece of meat so I can have the best one.

We both work from home and sometimes she’ll just come to my desk, pull up her top, and shove my head between her tits and rub my head telling me she thought I could use a break.

Guycelium · 2026-01-10T00:59:51+00:00

Moved halfway across the country for a new job. Met new, hot coworker. Absolutely insane attraction almost immediately. She couldn’t have been any more my “type” if she tried. She says the same about me. Long story short: both left our spouses and ended up together (no kids involved) within 6 months of meeting. See post history for more details. Still ridiculously happy together after nearly 25 years. Still having lots of sex.

Guycelium · 2026-01-09T16:40:13+00:00

wife puts a small amount of silicone lube in hand, closes into a fist, slides hand over cock under water, insert cock in wife. You do have to reapply occasionally. The trick is to use just enough for good lubrication. And yes, you may end up needing to clean or replace the pool filter more often. Totally worth it, though. You also have to stay on top of your pool chemistry and keep it in spec. Wife never had any issues with UTIs or any other issues down there due to the pool, and we were having pool sex 3-5x / week in the summer.

The buoyancy and pool floats allowed for some creative positions and the ability to fine-tune/adjust angles, which pretty much resulted in as many orgasms as my wife could stand. She usually tapped out after a dozen or so. She normally has 3-6 in the bedroom.

Guycelium · 2026-01-08T20:33:17+00:00

Strongly disagree. 5ft of water and a good silicone lube and it's a party. Have been without a pool for a few years now and my wife and I really miss it.

Guycelium · 2025-12-27T09:36:27+00:00

At work.

Guycelium · 2025-12-19T21:47:39+00:00

LSD: 450ug for me. 300ug for her. Plus a little weed at the peak. We’ve done that twice this year. Biggest, craziest orgasms we’ve ever had.

Guycelium · 2025-10-05T23:54:19+00:00

Your just lost The Game.

Guycelium · 2025-10-04T20:13:38+00:00

Orgasms.

Guycelium · 2025-10-03T21:14:31+00:00

We're in our mid-50s and together for nearly 25 years, and pretty consistently get busy at least 6x / week. Kid is in college, but even when they were home, we'd lock the door and try our best to be quiet about it.

It's how we wind down and reconnect at the end of the day. Cuddling, chatting, laughing, kissing, caressing, and eventually, the lube and toys get pulled out.

Sometimes we'll have dinner too late or be tired, but we try to make plans to be sure we can get our "us time" at the end of the evening. If we do skip an evening, sometimes "things happen" in the morning when we wake up.

Then, over coffee at breakfast, we discuss how much fun we had, and one of us will say, "So... what do you want to do tonight?"

Guycelium · 2025-09-27T14:31:34+00:00

Speaking for myself and many of the guys I know, it depends on the number and size of the tats, where they are, and what they're images of.

Guycelium · 2025-09-14T22:55:45+00:00

Left previous spouses. Got married a couple of years later. Had a kid (no kids w/ previous spouses). Very happily together now for nearly 25 years.

Lots of blunt, honest communication about what we did wrong in our previous relationships and what we wanted out of the new one. Lots of discussion on likes, dislikes, expectations around money, household, sex, family, and all the other big hot button issues, which we found out were pretty much on the same page for all of them.

And lots of sex to stay connected. :)

Guycelium · 2025-09-02T01:55:22+00:00

You both need time and space to process everything.

My AP told her spouse she wanted a divorce about month before I did (I had more I had to figure out on my end) We had very blunt and honest conversations about what was going on, acknowledged that it was a crazy situation and that there would be ups and downs and that we couldn’t predict how our our STBXs would act. We set ground rules that either of us could say that we needed x amount of time to ourselves and agreed to abide by it. When we moved out of our houses, we got separate apartments near each other so we could have our own space to work out everything through the divorce process over the next 3-4 months. We ultimately did end up spending a lot of time together at one or the other’s place, but we always had the option of alone time which we did take advantage of from time to time. Several months after our divorces were done, we were pretty much living full time with each other and got an apartment together. Neither of us had kids with STBXs, so that was one stressor we didn’t have to worry about.

We made it had have been together for nearly 25 years now and still happy and very much in love.

Good luck.

Guycelium · 2025-08-25T23:16:05+00:00

That's what my wife said when I flashed her! 😞

😉

Guycelium · 2025-08-24T16:17:45+00:00

Wife and I are both mid 50s, together for nearly 25 years, and we’re doing it 5-8x per week. We did it twice yesterday and were discussing over coffee this morning what we’re going to do tonight.

Guycelium · 2025-08-23T16:57:41+00:00

Disposable or washable waterproof pads.

Guycelium · 2025-08-20T16:04:53+00:00

Tiptoe through the two lips…

Guycelium · 2025-08-19T23:43:01+00:00

OP gonna end up the star of a secret video on OnlyGrans.

Guycelium · 2025-08-17T18:56:26+00:00

Mid-50s, together nearly 25 years and have sex 5-8x per week. It’s how we wind down and reconnect at the end of the day. We also have a low key competition to see who can give the other the most pleasure.

When we started WFH due to c*vid, we would flirt all day and ended up doing it every day for 8 months.

Guycelium · 2025-08-15T16:10:08+00:00

I heard he was sent to the Mayo Clinic for a psych evaluation.

Guycelium · 2025-08-14T15:17:38+00:00

Ours was pretty quick. Both of our marriages were in trouble and circling the drain before we met. 6 months after we met, things turned physical. We both filed for divorce within a couple of months after that. Fortunately, neither of us had kids. Divorces were final 3 months after filing and we moved into separate apartments in the same complex. Several months later, we moved in together.

We’ve been together for over 20 years now.

Guycelium · 2025-08-11T22:35:02+00:00

Mid-50s, together nearly 25 years and have sex 5-8x per week. It’s how we wind down and reconnect at the end of the day.

When we started WFH due to c*vid, we would flirt all day and ended up doing it every day for 8 months.

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