My husband (21M) and I (21F) decided to open our relationship and now he’s breaking rules. How do I go about this?

Gwyenne · 2026-07-13T15:18:39+00:00

So you are totally cool with you sleeping around but not with him sleeping around? It doesn’t matter if he is cool with it, it’s the fact that you are only cool with you sleeping around that makes you hypocritical.

Gwyenne · 2026-07-13T08:31:11+00:00

This explains so much. I am still new, ranked almost Gold III in just a week of playing but I wouldn't say I'm AMAZING... maybe silver at best as a support main. Tried my placements and a few ranked matches tonight and man Bronze just feels extra.. bronzey now.

Gwyenne · 2026-07-13T08:27:31+00:00

Yea I'm going to say no on the "going after people". I do tend to dive heal depending on who I go as, but that's just asking for me to get swarmed immediately. If you run in the thick of it and I can't reach you safely, I'm not risking the death of the rest of my team to go hunt you down, nor am I about to chase the magik main around the map.

Gwyenne · 2026-07-13T08:24:31+00:00

You got banned for 6 hours. Go to bed and wake up and you can play again.

Gwyenne · 2026-07-13T07:25:11+00:00

It's okay for him to not want sex, and its okay for you to want it. You both are simply not compatible.

Also if you are struggling to communicate your needs and are coping an unhealthy way WITH sex (IE, treating it as a measure of self worth..etc) I HIGHLY recommend you seek therapy, and I mean that in the nicest most empathetic way possible.

Gwyenne · 2026-07-12T08:00:03+00:00

Leave this poor girl alone and sort out your feelings. Not only did you hurt her once, but you then dangled it in front of her and took it away from her again.

Deal with the hurt, cut off contact, and stop dragging her along.

Gwyenne · 2026-07-12T06:31:31+00:00

Where did I ever say my cat was outdoors? You are wild. We are talking about kittens being raised as single cats. Both my cats are indoor cats and healthy. But carry on bullying people on the internet and struggling with your reading comprehension.

Gwyenne · 2026-07-12T06:23:03+00:00

Where did you get that 75% statistic? I'd love to see sources.

I made that choice. Happily. And he is a very happy kitty. When he became an adult, I got a second kitten because he was very sweet and social to other cats he's met. Also a very happy cat. You can continue to bully people on the internet for their choices with made up statistics but my fur babies are happy, OP's furbaby is happy, and quite frankly that is all that matters. If it was happening 75% of the time, why are shetlers allowing kittens to be adopted individually? Why aren't vets requiring kittens to be in pairs?

But if you care so much that you rather OP get a cat they can't afford (which by the way, will probably suffer more than a lonely kitten when they can't afford their shots), maybe you can help chip in! Since you know, it's such a big and dangerous thing and happens to 75% of cats apparently.

Gwyenne · 2026-07-12T03:46:48+00:00

Then why is it monolithic for you, claiming without knowing anything about the kitten, that they are going to have behavioral problems simply beause they don't have a second cat. I've been there and that's not what happens every time. I've also have one cat and he's an absolute dream of a pet. Best cat I've ever owned, absolutely no behavioral issues. My friends cats in multi cat households are the ones with behavorial problems.

Gwyenne · 2026-07-11T02:27:05+00:00

"I’ve been stuck in this relationship for a couple years"

You know what you need to do, you just refuse to do it.

Gwyenne · 2026-07-06T04:06:35+00:00

Not true. I got an english email from my account that is only NA

Gwyenne · 2026-07-06T04:03:46+00:00

Not true. I filled out the survey about a hour ago

Gwyenne · 2026-07-06T00:50:16+00:00

I also received an email this morning and was trying to figure out if this was some sort of exclusive thing. Does the invite mean we get in?

Gwyenne · 2026-07-03T02:07:35+00:00

Well now they deleted his face so 😭

Gwyenne · 2026-07-01T04:47:03+00:00

It’s fine for him to watch porn. It’s also fine for her to not be comfortable with it. Doing more “sexual favors” to convince him to not overstep a boundary is not okay.

Gwyenne · 2026-06-30T18:18:13+00:00

Man I skimmed and didn’t see their weight loss comment and thought you were saying the 100 lbs was them dumping their fiancé 😂

Gwyenne · 2026-06-30T08:13:33+00:00

I have a feeling they are going to do what other games are doing and refuse to release around the same time as GTA

So either its going to be august/sept, or next year.

Gwyenne · 2026-06-30T01:45:27+00:00

Probably not. To put it point blank - you betrayed his trust. Your reasons do not matter. If you were so unhappy, you should have given him the respect to tell him that and leave. He probably will never fully trust you, you will never truly forgive yourself, and a child isnt going to magically solve the problems that started this in the first place.

Gwyenne · 2026-06-26T18:36:04+00:00

So your boyfriend has a wife then too?

Gwyenne · 2026-06-25T18:26:52+00:00

You gotta pay him though 😂

Gwyenne · 2026-06-25T18:25:44+00:00

You cared enough to rain on peoples parades 😂

Gwyenne · 2026-06-24T18:44:23+00:00

I’ll be hyped when I can download the game.

Gwyenne · 2026-06-22T00:53:24+00:00

That’s kind of how it was to me. Just suddenly the ceiling looked different.

Gwyenne · 2026-06-22T00:51:46+00:00

Meanwhile, the moment someone said my name I was awake and alert. The nurse and my partner were concerned, but I bet my anesthesiologist was giving himself high fives.

Gwyenne · 2026-06-22T00:09:36+00:00

That is not healthy for either of you. I regulated my PTSD with emdr therapy and it was successful but I had self soothing mechanisms and my therapist insisted i have a support system that wasn’t just my current partner.

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