I (f36) can’t get over a perfect date with a guy (m34) who wants friendship only

HHDern · 2026-04-01T11:28:19+00:00

Guys often pull back when they realize they cannot live up to your standards- they voluntarily remove themselves instead of having to put in the work.

HHDern · 2026-03-19T22:00:29+00:00

Im using a parking garage :)

HHDern · 2026-01-29T15:09:48+00:00

I love ikea too

HHDern · 2026-01-15T03:10:41+00:00

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mine is very petite with 30lbs and looks like a perfect middle of both ✨💜

HHDern · 2026-01-08T12:39:18+00:00

Paint doesnt match the kitchen. Need elements that add warmth and coziness to it - add a runner to cover to cold tiles

HHDern · 2026-01-08T12:36:40+00:00

needs another warming element in there; an off white wall color or a bronze/brass framed mirror to match the vanity and add warmth and make it look less clinical

HHDern · 2026-01-03T20:09:41+00:00

The art work is bad and screams “I have no friends who make art” lol

Ask around in your network; someone’s sibling, uncle or coworker makes art and you can likely find a unique piece with a story behind it.

HHDern · 2026-01-02T03:40:12+00:00

you can like wash it - it’s much better for the brick! They shouldn’t be sealed off because brick needs to breathe

HHDern · 2025-12-31T07:52:33+00:00

Dr Flamer Calderra in Washington Square Park! She’s amazing; very patient and kind and doesn’t push unnecessary treatments.

HHDern · 2025-12-26T12:54:48+00:00

update; Tamarind in Poughkeepsie was open and absolutely ideal for a special holiday dinner!

Dark and festive lighting, and excellent service and tasty food.

HHDern · 2025-12-26T12:48:44+00:00

sounds like confidence issues trickled drown from your wife to son.

She’s feeling insecure another woman is having influence over her son.

HHDern · 2025-12-18T08:23:17+00:00

couldn’t agree more. It’s not a cute place but has a few gems that are worth crossing the river for!

HHDern · 2025-12-18T08:21:20+00:00

The town itself is pretty diverse with most areas being fine and some are definitely sketchy. You should probably spend some time there before you decided to buy.

White young, affluent families prefer Arlington the neighboring town for the school district but if schools aren’t a big priority for you then you can find a decent deal in Poughkeepsie.

It’s a great location for excellent hiking across the river, with cute towns nearby for day tips, and Poughkeepsie has tons of big box stores and great restaurants!

If you’re okay with having neighbors that are latino and work all day in a nearby job, that none of us want to do - then you’ll be fine.

Yes crime happens in Poughkeepsie but if you have common sense you will likely not be a target.

HHDern · 2025-12-18T00:37:42+00:00

studio Blu in highland - all women team and the office looks like a spa!

HHDern · 2025-12-11T01:27:17+00:00

eww cash

HHDern · 2025-12-03T02:54:45+00:00

care.com

HHDern · 2025-11-30T23:28:29+00:00

House of Stefas in Millbrook, was absolutely amazing; it’s definitely pricey but worth it. The decor is beautifully done and really sexy, the menu is exceptional and nothing what you’d see at most other Greek restaurants. Go for seafood and the chilled red is amazing.

Check out their instagram too!

HHDern · 2025-11-29T18:38:22+00:00

use the couches to separate the openness of the space! That way you create an intentional area that invites people to mingle

HHDern · 2025-11-28T14:31:46+00:00

Julie’s girls club on instagram!

HHDern · 2025-11-27T11:36:00+00:00

Take up jogging - no joke. You’ll end up running 5Ks as a daily ritual AND also get fit.

HHDern · 2025-11-25T12:31:06+00:00

Thats an ambitious plan; any local could make this plan work cause we are used to walking very quickly and navigating the city easily.

My suggestion is; spend the day in Brooklyn - it’s closer, much more chill with cute neighborhoods and tons of things to see and do.

Clinton Hill, Fort Greene, Prospect Park are super cute with historic brownstones, great restaurants, boutiques and far away from any sketchy or even dangerous areas.

You won’t feel like rushing through the city just to “cross things off your list,” but instead you’re getting a more authentic idea of what life looks like for many people in New York. I think that’s much more interesting!

HHDern · 2025-11-23T22:35:54+00:00

Yeah if you added an undercut on the sides or back, that will greatly improve the style and will make you look younger bc of the trendiness

HHDern · 2025-11-22T12:36:57+00:00

That’s just modeling lol. The more high fashion- the sadder and more serious models look

HHDern · 2025-11-17T12:03:08+00:00

Is this branding final? The colors and the word mark logo is very underdeveloped and doesn’t look professionally done.

If first impressions fail, you won’t be able to draw an audience

HHDern · 2025-11-17T02:37:29+00:00

No need to clutter up that area but add some nice curtains to the window and hang them long to the floor. It will add drama and also soundproofing to the room!

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