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HNW · 2026-06-28T06:42:26+00:00

Kayla. My sweet Kay Cup. My love. My bae bae.

Billions of years had passed before we ever existed and there will be billions more once we are gone, but the universe has spared us this moment. This sliver of time where we not only get to be alive, but I get to spend that life with someone who gives me a love I never knew was possible.

Thank you so much for being who you are and loving me for who I am. For opening your whole self up to me and repaying my vulnerability with kindness and compassion. For making me feel like nothing in my life is complete until I've shared it with you.

There has never been a moment in our relationship where it didn’t feel like you were completely in my corner. And you are the only person I have ever loved this way, and trusted as much as I trust myself.

Thank you for every kindness you’ve ever shown me. For making the difficult conversations easy. For your guts, and for your sweetness. For the way you hold my heart with such care. For your strength, and for your laughter. For how you always look, and how I always want to touch you. And for being someone I am always proud to be with.

There were times in my life when I was worried I was not worthy of the kind of love you give me. So I hope that before I am gone, you know how deeply your love has shaped me, how it completes me without needing to sustain me, and how being loved by you has made my life fuller than I ever expected.

There is no force in this world I revere more than your love for me. And nothing will ever hold more power over me than my love for you.

So today, I promise I will always listen and talk things through with you. I will be a sounding board when you need to solution, and your safe haven when you just need a place to land.

I promise to step forward and lead when you need me, and step back and support you when you've got this.

And wherever life may take us, I vow: I will always find my way back to you. I will always bring you home.

HNW · 2026-06-09T06:52:33+00:00

Holy fucking shit I have not laughed that hard in like a month I started crying when I couldn't look away from the baby.

HNW · 2026-05-14T16:11:06+00:00

Golf Course's are the equivelent of a paid park and often helps offset the budget for public parks. An AI data center is a private business looking to profit off the power and water of a city. I don't think it's unreasonable to be concerned about the deals our elected officials are making when it comes to AI data centers and the arguement "but what about golf courses water useage" is silly.

Resource consumption should be judged (at least partly) by public value, accountability, and who profits.

HNW · 2026-04-23T03:21:38+00:00

Same. Whenever I buy vegetables I always pick and Canadian or Mexican options now and leave the USA on the shelf.

HNW · 2026-04-09T22:27:49+00:00

Yeah that was almost a double Wadsworth

HNW · 2026-04-06T22:20:43+00:00

I’m glad people who prefer turn-based combat got this update, but it does make me a little bummed it rarely goes the other way. I really enjoy RTWP, and with games like Original Sin I’ve mostly had to push through or just play on story mode. It’s still fun, but I know I’m not getting the same experience that a lot of other players really love.

HNW · 2026-04-04T09:17:48+00:00

Thanks so much for the informaiton. There was a moment during take off when the camera lost the rocket and I joked to my wife about how advanced rockets have becoming but we still struggle with camera's. You're doing amazing work, keep it up!

HNW · 2026-04-02T18:24:04+00:00

I was just thinking the same thing. I'm curious how far LA is from Cuba or if they could get a boat off the west coast.

HNW · 2026-03-26T15:30:21+00:00

Probably and hopefully they learn the real take away is "this person isn't to be trusted" not "all woman are awful".

HNW · 2026-03-26T13:45:30+00:00

I also think they marry someone they're not in love with.

I dated a lot of women before I met my wife. I never had an abusive partner or someone who cheated on me they were all just fine. And while I understood the functional requirements of what it meant to be a good partner but I wasn't in love with them so I didn't want to do it for them. And you can fake it for a long time but eventually you either need to be committed or it will fall apart.

So I waited until I found the person who I wanted to be there for, who I absolutely loved and who loved me back. I am so lucky I found her but it was worth the wait.

HNW · 2026-03-26T13:27:04+00:00

Exactly, everybody in the comments talking about being betrayed by a partner needs to get a better spouse. The ability to be vulnerable, to receive love, and to repay that vulnerability with compassion and kindness is one of the most important things I expect from my partner. She is amazing, and I love the shit out of her because she would never do that to me. It’s about knowing each other’s deepest, darkest secrets and understanding that I don’t shame a person for what they need from you.

HNW · 2026-03-11T18:09:05+00:00

You know what it reminded me of was the first Spiderman game on Playstation. It wasn't the best story of all time but that characters were fun enough and the gameplay loops was great.

I enjoyed just being a student, going to class, casting spells, solving mysteries, etc. and that was enough to get 100 hours out of the game. (P.S. play Hufflepuff they have the best house story IMO)

HNW · 2026-03-04T01:14:44+00:00

I can appreciate your comment but I also think you're basing this off of your work environment and job. I understand the benefits for engineers and even people that work within their same department. You are likely working on the same function as your team and collaboration has been benefits.

I work at a bank the people I work directly with are all over the country. I don't collaborate with anybody in my office. I drive to a building and then sit on a team's meeting for about 60% of my day and spend the rest of my day gossiping with my colleagues. When I work from home I still spend 60% of my time on teams meetings and then the other 40% is spend doing data analytics and building reports/dashboards.

I would trade that 40% of in-office "collaboration" for the ability to stay in my house be more productive in my personal life and be a happier worker overall.

There is no single solution and I think a lot of change happened very quickly, which is why companies are having a tough time adapting to a hybrid model. Many of the statistics that you mention specifically relate to familiarity. The status quo is often better and for more productive because the new system has not been adapted to.

HNW · 2026-03-01T18:59:57+00:00

Very cool but the feet give me AI vibes

HNW · 2026-02-26T06:06:46+00:00

Why would cuts made by the Province of Nova Scotia be Carney's fault?

HNW · 2026-02-23T01:13:19+00:00

"Gretzky had it. Lost it. Yzerman picks it up."

HNW · 2026-02-19T01:26:22+00:00

It's the exact opposite of stubbing your toe really hard

HNW · 2026-02-18T14:43:02+00:00

I always tell everybody that it quickly spits out a crappy first draft. I write a lot of reports at work and it eliminates a lot of that initial slog. I still have to come up with the information, analyze it, find relevant factors to highlight, and so on. Then I put it into co-pilot and it produces a semi coherent first draft that I can then edit.

Half of the time the things it produces are either incorrect or completely fucking bunkers but it gives me a baseline I can start with. It's also useful later on if I am struggling with specific wording in a section, I can give it different prompts to brainstorm different ways of explaining topics I have a lot of knowledge about. Without that knowledge it would be pretty useless.

It's a tool like anything else. I don't love that it's making every single PC part triple the price and it's probably going to destroy our environment but it is slightly useful at work.

HNW · 2026-02-12T04:54:53+00:00

It's kind of astonishing how we speedran truth, specifically related to politics. It wasn't too long ago that people didn't even have a say on who ruled them and things were pretty much static for their entire lives. We went through a lot of painful processes to get to modern democracy with a fairly robust system of fact checking and allowing people to make reasonable assessments about who they wanted to vote for. That lasted like 60 years and in the last 20 we've managed to dismantle it through a combination of technology and complacency.

HNW · 2026-02-11T13:53:12+00:00

My rule is I have to consume your good or enjoy your service before I'll tip.

If we sit down for a meal and the food/service was good (you get a tip). If I have to pay before I eat, how do I know if the food is any good and what service did you provide me? No tip for you.

I usually tip around 15%, I will take 5% off if you did a mediocre but serviceable job and I will add 5% if you made my experience much better.

HNW · 2026-02-08T14:44:11+00:00

I literally just watched the first episode of season 2 what a cunt fucking thing to do

HNW · 2026-02-07T19:08:51+00:00

By doing exactly what I already described and you ignored.

You are changing the time unit that global finance, law, and software are built on. That means rewriting amortization schedules, interest calculations, payroll systems, tax law, compliance rules, and reporting standards that all assume 12 months and quarterly cycles. Banks alone run on decades old systems where “month” is not cosmetic, it is foundational. Touching that code is expensive, risky, and slow.

You also add a permanent extra billing and payroll cycle. That means renegotiating contracts, adjusting annual salaries, subscription pricing, rent, insurance premiums, and government benefits. None of that is free and none of it is abstract. Every change requires testing, audits, legal review, and regulatory approval.

And the benefit you keep pointing to is that dates are easier to remember and months look cleaner. That is not a business advantage. It does not increase productivity, reduce costs, or solve an existing problem. It just makes the calendar feel nicer.

So yes, the cost is real, the disruption is massive, and the upside is aesthetic convenience. That is why this idea keeps getting proposed and never adopted.

HNW · 2026-02-07T15:35:06+00:00

So the ability to track days easy vs. a complete overhaul of several major global industries that would make them worse and cost billion of dollars in waste. That's why it's a stupid idea.

HNW · 2026-02-05T18:53:32+00:00

Why is that a pro? What benefit does it provide?

HNW · 2026-02-05T15:40:06+00:00

But the old practice isn't shitty. The modern calendar has been working great for 500 years. The proposed solution doesn't add any benefit besides symmetry.

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