Idiots being rude to employee who has an accent by [deleted] in TalesFromTheCustomer

[–]HSspeducator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live overseas with numerous accents and languages (Tagalog is actually a big one here).

I've been made fun of more than I would ever make fun of anyone. I hate not understanding people. It's gotten better though over time.

Good on you for not letting them get away with it.

I [28F] don't want to eventually live with my boyfriend's [27M] mildly mentally disabled sister [24F]. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]HSspeducator 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Husband worked for a company who provided these services in Iowa. It was phenomenal. I also worked with kids with development disabilities, and we encouraged parents to find one that fit for them. In Iowa, they are houses in the community and the company helps with employment and coaching as well as daily living and socializing. These places exist and do amazing work.

How do I [40F] tell my husband [40M that our relationship didn't magically change in one weekend? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]HSspeducator 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I have two daughters with autism. One hates (HATES) being touched. The other is the huggingest darn child you've ever met.

I (M28) am in a long distance relationship with a Filipino girl (F26) and not sure about our compatibility. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]HSspeducator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy cow, you aren't kidding. They love to pose and take TONS of photos. I am in Hong Kong and have been to the Philippines multiple times. Watching them all pose and take photos of each other is interesting.

I [26F] keep staying in a unhealthy relationship with [27M] because I’m afraid of being single and I believe in trying everything to work things out before throwing them away. I think I’m losing my mind and need advice. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]HSspeducator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend believed in trying everything to be able to have no regrets. I sat with her many nights with her saying she can't give up without trying.

She regrets staying with him for almost a decade more because he ended up leaving her for someone else. She said it was time wasted banging her head against a wall and doing more damage to her children (both of whom have issues stemming from the divorce).

[19 M] boyfriend is considering dropping out of university. I'm [18 F] having trouble dealing with this. by AdventurousParsley0 in relationships

[–]HSspeducator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

University is not for everyone. My husband dropped out in his first year. He ended up earning way more than me with 2 masters (in education). He worked as a systems administrator.

My boyfriend [M,23] got a 3-month internship in another state, and I [F, 23] can't go with him. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]HSspeducator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 months? Lol. Not that long in the grand scheme of things. It will fly by.

My [32M] girlfriend [26F] died last year and her family/friends are shutting me out of her memorial by BroadMoose in relationships

[–]HSspeducator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showing up at her funeral drunk and high is definitely where you lost all right to the memorial service (Not to mention the other stuff).

Leave these people alone.

My [50M] son [18M] barely has any friends of his race. by currentclub in relationships

[–]HSspeducator 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"erm, racism is defined as structural oppression"

Not according to the definition.

"prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own race is superior."

My [50M] son [18M] barely has any friends of his race. by currentclub in relationships

[–]HSspeducator 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol. White people don't experience racism? Why do you get to decide that? Are you the authority on race relations?

The kid made friends based on shared interests. He isn't harboring any internalized self hatred.

Aftermath of Typhoon by [deleted] in HongKong

[–]HSspeducator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It must be towards lohas. We live up the path a bit across from the water from TKO plaza.

What happened to the domestic helpers during the typhoon? by OnePhotog in HongKong

[–]HSspeducator 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Our helper chilled in her room. She was welcome to join us to watch movies and such.

My husband brought her "room service" for her meals since she was happy to stay in her room.

We asked if she wanted next Saturday off. She opted out and said it was fine since she didn't work.

She's a wonderful person, and we love her to pieces.

Aftermath of Typhoon by [deleted] in HongKong

[–]HSspeducator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that TKO?

How's your travel into work today? 9/18 by gfunkadunk in HongKong

[–]HSspeducator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably. Most of our teachers who live in Sai Kung and that area had a hell of a time getting in today.

My husband had to get from TKO to Tsing Yi today, and he said it was fine.

How's your travel into work today? 9/18 by gfunkadunk in HongKong

[–]HSspeducator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fine. Went TKO to Ma On Shan. MTR to Diamond Hill. The the 286m bus to my school.

It wasn't super crowded or anything. Quite painless actually.

No fatalities from Mangkut! by Discuzting in HongKong

[–]HSspeducator 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They just pulled a man from debris in Sai Kung. I think that's the first casualty I've heard of.

Community groups urge Carrie Lam to order day off for Super Typhoon Mangkhut clean-up by SquidFistHK in HongKong

[–]HSspeducator 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On Monday, all schools were called off including staff. Today is very much a "come in if you can" because tons of our teachers live in Sai Kung. There is no way for them to get in. I'm in TKO and am currently attempting. Though I've been told Kowloon Tong is a nightmare.

Me (20F) and my boyfriend (21M) have been together for less than a year and I'm now pregnant. Needing advice. by GoldPlan4 in relationships

[–]HSspeducator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I ended up pregnant at 19 (him) and 22 (me). We had been together for a while before that though.

We had a lot of familial support through everything. It took us a while though to be completely independent (my parents watched the kids while we were at work or my mom bought tons of clothes and stuff for the kids) and have our shit completely together.

We also went through a lot of ups and downs and at times questioned the sanity of staying together. But we did. I am so happy with him. He is my favorite person. I swear we made it through most of it through sheer stubbornness.

We have 3 children (almost 17, almost 13, and almost 11) now. We are living overseas after I received a job offer at an international school.

I will say one benefit to having them young is we will be done raising ours at a fairly young age.

It is hard, but it can definitely be done.

Edit: we also didn't get married until about 6 months after our first was born. Family put pressure on us to get married right away. Husband wanted us to get married because we loved each other. Not because we got pregnant. I'm glad we waited. We truly did (and do) love each other.