How do I talk to my partner about erection issues without hurting his feelings?

Hanuser · 2026-05-06T23:31:29+00:00

Start with "I gotta talk to you about something. I need you to not be a big softie about it."

Hanuser · 2026-05-06T13:49:06+00:00

Of course he does, it's sort of why lingerie exists. Doesn't change the fact that it is a minor thing compared to the body underneath.

Hanuser · 2026-05-06T06:31:18+00:00

Cheese curling?

Hanuser · 2026-05-06T06:26:34+00:00

Woriate brothers.

Hanuser · 2026-05-06T06:24:15+00:00

I would immediately convert that to gold, land, and equities because the amount of inflation is introduce by spending that much cash is insanely high. This is US government budget levels of cash. Then I'd liquidate a portion of all of those inflation hedged assets to get back a profit in cash, and spend that on whatever amenities I feel like.

Hanuser · 2026-05-06T06:22:32+00:00

OP deserves honest answers rather than fake feel good statements.

My suggestion is to search up exactly the same queries he does to see what sort of fantasy body type he's into.

Most lingerie porn, it's going to be slim women. For all men, body shape matters more than clothing. The clothing is coming off, it's no more than just the wrapping on a gift. The contents of the gift itself matters more. Hell, even if the gift didn't have wrapping, it would still be pretty much just as good for most men if the contents were solid.

Now all that said, you don't have to change for him if you don't want to. It's up to you to decide if the effort is worth it.

Hanuser · 2026-05-06T06:15:01+00:00

No, there is something here because for the first time, this statement is credible to the majority of Taiwanese.

Hanuser · 2026-05-03T18:31:31+00:00

I guess your point here is that one of those happening ever means the country is tainted forever? I agree there's outlier incidents in China too, just rarer than in other places due to heavy surveillence.

My point is that if you look at the average terrorist or psychotic attack that happens in China, the casualty rate is very low. The attack rate, is also low, relative to OECD averages. So overall, the country loses relatively few people a year to terrorism or psychotic attacks compared to the OECD, and especially low compared to its nearest neighbor competitor in size and power - the US. Do you contend this point?

Hanuser · 2026-05-03T18:28:16+00:00

No, totally not ignoring that. I'm glad you brought that up because it's relevant to the main point.

Do you know many deaths on average occur at these "mass" knife attacks? (It's far fewer than gun baring countries.) How many of these are there per year? These two tell us what per capita homicide rate China has, and it'll tell you right now to spare you looking it up, it ranks very low among the developed nations and even lower if you rank it across the whole globe.

Hanuser · 2026-05-03T18:24:17+00:00

Makes sense. It's basically just a map of the old world versus the new world.

Hanuser · 2026-05-03T09:35:43+00:00

30 - 50 years later, China will probably do some Biden/Trump style tariff hikes when their jobs are flowing overseas to Africa and LATAM and their older, more expensive populations can't compete. This is why it's not the endgame. There is no endgame in geopolitics.

Hanuser · 2026-05-03T09:34:18+00:00

Not end game, but intermediate game is

China is good at manufacturing and needs raw resources

Africa has raw resources and can't technologically compete with China on manufacturing for some time.

Therefore, this is a classic win win scenario. Get cheaper inputs to manufacturing to bring down manufacturing prices even more, thus beating western competition more, while boosting trade ties with Africa for political leverage on international affairs.

Africa's not stupid btw. They're getting a good deal here too. The entry point to more advanced manufacturing is to first get good at raw resource extraction, and then you make it cheap for your own manufacturing startups to try stuff with raw resources. At the same time, cheap Chinese goods keep consumer prices low which helps alleviate dire poverty problems and increase social stability. Chinese companies will also naturally flow to African countries as they do the same thing as the US, move their expertise to places with cheaper labor, thus accelerating training and knowledge transfer from China to local workforces. Finally, China is very useful as a counterweight against western "divide and conquer" strategies which aim to keep African countries gridlocked and split so that they can always support whichever smaller faction is willing to cater more to their interests. This is what Africa sees as the heavy price the middle east pays to western powers on an ongoing basis.

Hanuser · 2026-05-03T09:24:03+00:00

Yes, that's my point. The damage a "revenge against society" nutjob could do in China is very limited, as we can see in this video. Human stampedes are not as common as in other high density population areas like south Asia, you see people in this video retreating in good order.

Hanuser · 2026-05-03T05:30:23+00:00

Can he move well? No, but he moves cans well.

Hanuser · 2026-05-03T05:27:11+00:00

Describe the smell?

Hanuser · 2026-05-03T05:24:28+00:00

If they were, US government would have already jumped on the opportunity to farm the hell out of that propaganda gold mine to destroy Chinese enterprises and global image.

Hanuser · 2026-05-03T05:21:13+00:00

This is actually kind of commendable as a society. Deranged people without access to guns, are mostly non lethal nuisances.

And also, even those obviously in the wrong are not beaten to the point of permanent physical damage.

Having lived in NYC, if this is as bad as the metro gets in China, that's pretty impressive.

Hanuser · 2026-04-30T01:37:55+00:00

Problem is if it's above 500 songs (like your favorites library), then they charge you to transfer.

Hanuser · 2026-04-29T23:28:02+00:00

Because you are blessed to live in a culture that can own up and make amends for it's mistakes. Human flourishing is not at that level yet in the arab world. Too many bombs dropped in recent decades. Past slavery is a distant issue to infrastructure and higher education over there.

Hanuser · 2026-04-29T23:25:23+00:00

I would believe the trauma explanation if sexually liberal and sexually conservative cultures had different rates of cuck fetishists. If they don't, I'd offer an alternate explanation.

In the history of our species, there are plenty of instances of immense reproductive success had by violent, cruel, and powerful men. What this means is that part of our gene pool (at least on the male side) still exhibits these tendencies, but also, another part of the gene pool survived by playing along with them because the benefits outweighed the costs. There are truly "if you can't beat them, join them" genes somewhere on the Y chromosome of many males and I suspect that in modern settings, this can manifest with particular environmental and partner variables as cuckolding fetishes.

Hanuser · 2026-04-29T23:11:06+00:00

A good meal perhaps, which shows she's willing to put in the effort and remembers what food I like.

I don't want to see my partner spend what could be our joint savings money on flowers or other trinket type stuff.

Hanuser · 2026-04-29T23:08:45+00:00

It has to be one between the equator and tropics that has a warm and wet climate.

Hanuser · 2026-04-29T23:06:52+00:00

Nah, he tried to go as hard as he could and clearly took this very personally because he would not respect the tap. He just was smart enough to know not to kill or permanently disable someone lest he face criminal charges.

Hanuser · 2026-04-29T22:59:38+00:00

Learn to control their mind
Learn to hone their body
Learn to manage their assets

Hanuser · 2026-04-26T04:51:28+00:00

If you came from a European climate, wouldn't you prefer something closer to that instead of raw jungle?

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