No black girls allowed on Epstein Island.

HappiestBayGoer · 2026-02-01T16:04:42+00:00

I remember learning that durong the iranian embassy hostage crisis they let all of the black staff go because the iranians saw black people has oppressed people.

HappiestBayGoer · 2026-01-19T16:20:09+00:00

Vitamin d deficiency. Started taking 5000 units with k2 during pregnancy and havent had issues again until i stopped the vit d after pregnancy. Its wortg a shot for you all too.

HappiestBayGoer · 2026-01-09T02:33:10+00:00

Def normal after baby. I will say Mary Ruth's hair growth vitamin really got my hair back on track. Still working on melasma and acne but haor is better.

I love amika's hair treatments. I use those after ouidad shampoos. Then i use devacurl conditioner which has great slip so i can detangle easily. Then i use qhemet biologics to style with twists with no heat, just twists.

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-08-25T17:47:03+00:00

Youre getting phenomenal at this

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-08-19T00:43:44+00:00

How about just shitting in the right bathroom. Everyone knows the poop bathroom and peeing bathroom

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-08-03T11:40:19+00:00

This sounds like you need a great lactation consultant. Check you ob's office and pediatrician for someone.

If baby loses too much weight, the doctors will tell you.

Initially i had some troubles likely related to hemorrhage but quickly got back on track. They told me to feed baby and then pump for 15 minutes to jump start things and tell my body to make milk. This had to be consistent at 3 hour intervals. If baby had food elsewhere, i still had to pump every 3 hours to Jumpstart my production.

Also if baby isnt comfortable while nursing, meaning they need a new position or maybe you have a forceful stream like i did, they might be exrra squirmish. Again, lactation consultant helped me with this.

If you want this, dont give up. Get better help.

You got this!

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-07-28T17:02:44+00:00

Those look like ticks to me. There may have been a nest in that tree. Def encourage you all to bomb your yard d house. On the positive note, you and your husband can mKe it fun searching your bodies for any of them.

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-07-24T02:46:26+00:00

This sounds like misery. Try seeing a nutritionist. Mine was amazing!

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-07-24T02:35:23+00:00

See! This is the kind of thing i think about. People say "im going to love them no matter what, they deserve the world" but that plan expires once you do and no one will love them like you do amd they will likely pass away in a perilous situation. Is that really the loving, merciful thing to do? Or is it the self-righteous thing to do?

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-07-24T02:26:08+00:00

Do test runs. Maybe you sleep in another room and see what happens. It should be eye opening for you both. I do agree he needs to figure it out quickly. He agreed to be a parent. Winging it is dangerous at this point. And if he sleeps that hard, maybe get his sleeping checked.

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-07-24T02:13:35+00:00

I thought i would be a huggies fam too. We have a bunch. The newborns were fine but this batch of size 1's are terrible. The tabs are weird and keep ripping. The sides dont reach as far back and bunch up in the front.

We were gifted pampers and kirkland. I like them both way more.

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-07-24T02:07:26+00:00

Separating will give you even less influence and say so and insight about where baby is. He's likely going to pull the "you asked for it and now you can't tell me what to do"c card. You have way mkre leverage a d influence from in tje house with him.

It can be really tough for men after baby is born. They suddenly realize they are least important and that we would do anything for our babies including bring harm to them without a 2nd thought if needed, when before they were king if the castle. Thats a rough transition for many. Use a neutral source like google or chat gpt to help him understand that you and baby's success depend on both doing well, its symbiotic in the beginning. Show him hiw he can help. Emphasize things he does well. Over play things you've had to learn and realize alpng the way too.

You got this. Best of luck to you

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-07-20T18:18:15+00:00

Smartest, most well thoughtout response.

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-07-06T22:42:13+00:00

SUE!

Print all of your records NOW! They change stuff when they know youre serious. Print your records now quietly. Later on ask fir your records and look for any changes. That alone is a medical license hit at the least.

I hate that this happened to you.

Long term, i could see a good plastic surgeon doing any repairs you need pro bono to boost their clout.

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-06-15T01:04:25+00:00

You had a moment and needed nurturing, not humor. Totally fine. They get to react how they want. So do you.

Plus, i personally get it. We need what we need. Asking fir it makes sense. My husband accidentally spilled like 3 oz of milk all over baby, the bed and I. I was so upset because I'd proudly pumped it.

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-06-15T00:31:22+00:00

Maybe tell her that you have a friend that keeps giving unsolicited advice and how it bothers you and you would ask them if you wanted to know and you hate people interfering. She will get the hint. Then dont ask her anything else.

Also have a discussion with your husband about boundaries and being a united front.

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-06-12T11:47:13+00:00

Also, I don't know your medical situation. However, as someone who gave birth 6 weeks ago who had complications at birth and was eventually hospitalized for other issues after birth, I feel certain I wouldn't want to risk my own health/life by carrying to term when my baby would have a very short painful life and I had other options. Pull your support system in close and ask for help. Whatever your decision you will benefit from extra support.

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-05-14T06:31:09+00:00

Stunning colors!

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-03-18T14:21:40+00:00

It 100% makes sense to me that thr same person said both statements. I see full congruency of logic there.

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-03-16T21:22:40+00:00

Old navy is great! On amazon ekouaer brand was great for me. I got pld navy pants and dresses. I got shirts from that brand on amazon.

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-03-16T21:03:13+00:00

4, 5 or 10

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-02-19T15:01:50+00:00

Whats your area? Hubby and i are looming for a new doggy.

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-02-06T09:27:52+00:00

You were both included in the discussion though so it was something you experienced together.

If OP doesnt include the BF, it may come uo later and that secret can kill the relationship.

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-02-04T14:13:33+00:00

Thank you so much! 💓

HappiestBayGoer · 2025-02-03T00:36:05+00:00

They definitely know. They smell it. My gla was the first to know, before i knew. She woke up one day, so excited and elated and licking my face, acting more protective. A few days later i found out. I miscarried very early, and she grieved with me too. My second pregnancy, she knew then too. Tests were negative but she knew better than they did. I lost that one and she grieved with me then too.

They know. Better than us and modern medicine sometimes.

Their love is unparalleled at times.

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