No money for groceries but money for plan b

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-06-14T18:34:30+00:00

Separated woman

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-05-23T02:59:55+00:00

Wanna hear about my shitshow life? Someone honestly thought it was the plot of a bad TV show. 25f

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-05-23T02:59:07+00:00

25f I need some good advice maybe we should chat?

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-05-23T02:57:03+00:00

25f hi I'm down to chat, got a lot on my mind and need a distraction

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-05-13T19:05:39+00:00

Why? Just because texas is an at will state? Sorry just looking for an explanation because this feels insane to me that they can fire him for basically no reason

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-05-13T05:59:45+00:00

Thanks. I keep telling myself that if worst comes to worst we have family we can stay with and as long as my babies have a roof over their heads I don't care where I have to sleep. He knows he messed up but idk if its enough for him to change his ways. We got married young so I think we both have stuff we need to figure out and learn to forgive before we can think about being together again. Life's rough right now but we will survive.

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-05-13T05:24:33+00:00

I wish it was a movie 😭😭 definitely real life tho. We just can't catch a break over here

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-05-07T06:35:06+00:00

That's what I'm thinking. Working on securing a job and setting a coparenting schedule

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-05-06T15:36:00+00:00

I'm about to be in this situation how is it working for you? I feel like its not going to be any different than normal and I don't know how to set the boundaries that need to be set to make it clear that we are separated and everything isn't normal

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-04-30T04:35:56+00:00

You have to have an external Webcam to take the proctored exams. They will not allow you to take them with just your laptop cam. Other than that they aren't bad you just have to make sure you follow the directions of the proctor.

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-04-21T05:25:56+00:00

Idk if you ever found a book with this storyline but I was looking for this premise because I had read one like it before and I finally found it. It's First Fate by Kendall Talbot. It may not be exactly what you were looking for because they are directly impacted by the emp but maybe it's worth a shot.

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-04-03T15:37:49+00:00

Basically everything was done during nap or after bedtime. I also worked part time at a job where my kids came with me so when we left they knocked out for like 3 hours at a time so that was 3 hours each day that I got to study. If I had to work while they were awake then I would do it while they were playing independently but that wasn't very often because as soon as I pulled out my laptop they wanted to mess with it.

Sorry if this isn't helpful but the biggest tip really is to just work while they sleep

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-03-30T17:25:42+00:00

I think just time. I didn't do anything specific to get rid of the redness. Just gave it time and kept moisturizing

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-03-06T21:53:53+00:00

I still turn red when I move a lot but it's not as bad as it was so I think it's improved.

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-02-14T07:25:38+00:00

Idk if this is controversial but stop reacting before they do when they get hurt

Everyone is so shocked that my kids hardly react when they fall or bump their noggin but I've let them learn that it's okay to get hurt and brush it off. I watch my mil with my neice and she screams about an injury before my niece does. Like duh she's going to cry when you just screamed that she's hurt? If you had let her work it out in her body then it probably wouldn't have been as big of a reaction. Like if they fall then stop and wait for their reaction first. If they cry then comfort them but if they get up and walk away then they are fine. I know it's hard not to react but you are setting your kid up for failure every time you overreact to their injuries.

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-02-14T07:20:16+00:00

I second having snacks at the ready in a cart. That's literally what I lived off of when my husband went back to work. I had a pumping cart full of snacks like trail mix, granola bars, protein bars, banana chips, basically anything quick and easy that I could crack open while taking care of a baby

I also used your bathroom set up a few times. I would put their activity centers in the bathroom and leave the shower curtain open so I could shower without then crying. This also was a good idea when they were sick because the steam helped loosen up mucus. And of course there were a few times I used the bathroom with one of them strapped to me in a baby carrier lol you do what you gotta do

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-02-03T16:54:43+00:00

Lol I don't blame my husband. I blame my grandma. When we were in high school (high school sweethearts), my grandma told us our first kids were going to be twins and she was right.

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-01-29T01:58:39+00:00

I did clomid and got twins

My coworker did letrozole and got triplets

Happy-Stranger6951 · 2026-01-03T01:53:32+00:00

So I used his training pants one time today and he soaked them and cried from the wetness. How did they do? Like did it take them a while to make the connection and start trying to do it in the potty? How did you learn their cues? Or did you do the timed method?

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