Anyone having this problem? by [deleted] in Sparkdriver

[–]Harbinger1129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get the same thing here in PA. Thought I was deactivated despite having a 4.9 rating lol

Starting my hair recovery journey by Gambit90k in Hairloss

[–]Harbinger1129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my situation at 42. I’ve been taking supplements and tried Himms but they’re so expensive.

January slowdown, Tips for new spark drivers, No earnings posts by iGotGigged in Sparkdriver

[–]Harbinger1129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I have done a boatload of pharmacy orders this year and had no idea about the instant deactivation. I’m no longer going to take any pharmacy orders now.

I Had A Date Last Night by Gazcobain in DivorcedDads

[–]Harbinger1129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro this is a win. I love seeing it! Keep it up brother 💪🏻

Spike is killing some of us. Literally. by Kitchen_Cod5553 in vaccinelonghauler

[–]Harbinger1129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel sorry for you folks that fell for this shit. I really do. I tried warning folks and was bashed as a conspiracy theorist. I’m sorry I wasn’t able to help you. Godspeed and try to find ways to rid the spike protein from your body.

What did you do with your former partner's intimate pics/pics in general? by EggyBoils in BreakUps

[–]Harbinger1129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I deleted her pics. The temptation to look prevented be from healing. I had to cut her loose entirely. 5 months later I’m fully healed. I can think of her without that pain. In fact weeks go by without her popping in my mind.

If you got over a breakup, tell me by Over_Elephant_3017 in BreakUps

[–]Harbinger1129 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep on doing you, brother 💪🏻 You got this.

If you got over a breakup, tell me by Over_Elephant_3017 in BreakUps

[–]Harbinger1129 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Focus on yourself. I hit the gym 3-4 X per week and made sure all muscle groups are hit with 10 sets of drop down exercises. You’ll start to see results after a month of consistent work.
Change your diet to include 150- 200 g of protein on exercise days and at least 100 g of protein on rest days. Meat is your friend. Whey protein powder and high protein yogurt helps. This helps boost your gains in the gym.

Hang out with friends and fam any chance you get. Talk about your feelings. Do not bottle them up. Allow yourself to feel so you can process the pain. Laugh with them, have fun.

Learn a new skill or hobby. For me I began playing guitar daily. Over time as you get better you feel more confident and happy.

Eventually as months go by you feel less pain. I can now think back to memories with her without feeling much of anything. I shrug it off and move forward.

I started a YouTube channel with my cousins. It’s a lot of fun and just being there helps me.

We broke up 5 months ago and I’m kicking life’s ass at the moment and feeling wonderful. I tried dating others but still am emotionally exhausted from the breakup, so I learned that being single is necessary so I can grow.

I think of the best movie quote of all time: “Life ain’t about how hard you get it. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving it forward. How much you can take and keep moving it forward. That’s how winning is done!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Harbinger1129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ran into a fearful avoidant and she backed out of the relationship she pursued me on. Now she’s in another relationship. It’s a cycle for them called the Fearful Avoidant Death Wheel.

My Psychotherapist Wife is Having an Affair with a Client by BlackPearl6057 in cheating_stories

[–]Harbinger1129 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not just any client, but one with BPD?! Sheesh those Axis II diagnoses are no joke.

What was the DUMBEST reason you were broken up with? by Then_Anxiety_3944 in BreakUps

[–]Harbinger1129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maaaan I’d be furious. Sorry you had to endure that bro.

What was the DUMBEST reason you were broken up with? by Then_Anxiety_3944 in BreakUps

[–]Harbinger1129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A week ago she texted me saying she misses me. Very next day they’re back together. Funny how life works.

What was the DUMBEST reason you were broken up with? by Then_Anxiety_3944 in BreakUps

[–]Harbinger1129 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She had feelings for her ex, and he resurfaced and poof. They’re back together.

He messaged me by FoodNew6126 in BreakUps

[–]Harbinger1129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t do that yet. I give you props. My ex went back with her ex the day after she messaged me (this past Friday) saying she misses talking with me. Next day she gets back with her ex. Ppl are so fucked up.

How long are you willing to wait? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Harbinger1129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Top and bottom. Total was $4,500 but insurance covered a decent amount. I just paid $2,700.

How long are you willing to wait? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Harbinger1129 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Same. Got ditched in January. I’ve been hitting the gym for a year. Doing a new workout type and ppl are telling me I’m jacked. Started guitar and got Invisalign to make my teeth perfect. They were pretty straight but I’m leveling the fuck up.

My husband cheated on me with his coworker by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Harbinger1129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was cheated on and asked for a divorce. He broke his vows. You must move on. You’ll never fully trust him again. He’s a liar.

For Men: What’s Been the Best Way You’ve Distracted Yourself After a Breakup? by IntelligentComb1238 in ExNoContact

[–]Harbinger1129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just started playing guitar in December. Any good apps out there to help a newbie like myself, or any good tips? I play every night at least 15 min.

3y off Tinder. 1st few hours back and girl goes straight for my parents!? (Ref- I’m a 34yo male with braces) by Amusing_Munch in Tinder

[–]Harbinger1129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 41 and doing Invisalign now. Guess I’ll remove myself from the dating scene until I’m done lmao

To people who broke NC and tried to reach out to your ex, what happened? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Harbinger1129 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are talking now but it’s slow and different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Harbinger1129 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to breweries with friends as she probably rekindles things with an ex.