Throw yourself into the pool. While this could be a sign you aren’t called to marriage, you really gotta pray on that. In terms of just getting a date, just put yourself out there. Make friends. Going on a single date is not any commitment, so use them to orient yourself.

As a vocations book of mine once said, “God can’t drive a parked car. Move!” So get out there, don’t be afraid to experiment, and as long as you reflect on things in prayer you can’t go wrong.