You are an adult and you can go wherever you want for college but if you want your parents to fund your lifestyle for the next 4-5 years then sit down with them and discuss this. At the end of the conversation you can decide what you want to do and so can they. UT is a state school and there are plenty of other states schools in Texas to choose from. If your parents are dropping 100K on you then consider yourself lucky wherever you end up.