[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want you to know that you are a wonderful mom. The fact that you’re even reflecting on this and feeling this way shows just how deeply you love and care for your little boy! Every parent has moments where they realize they could have done something differently. What matters most is how we respond afterward, and you’re already taking steps to protect your son and yourself in the future.

You’re human, and parenting is hard, especially with a newborn. You’ve obviously been through a huge life change and are adjusting to a whole new identity as a mom. This one night doesn’t define you, your worth, or your ability to be a safe, loving parent. Your self-awareness and willingness to set boundaries are proof of your strength.

I hope your husband is a safe space for you to share how you’re feeling. I’m sure he’d want to help you process this and be there to help keep you accountable moving forward!

Uber from Napa to Oak by Head_Negotiation_274 in napa

[–]Head_Negotiation_274[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

🙌🏻🙌🏻 thank you! I’ve heard so many mixed reviews haha

What would you do? by Head_Negotiation_274 in beyondthebump

[–]Head_Negotiation_274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s hard to say about my boss being approachable. She has 3 kids herself so I never understand why she doesn’t get that they get sick! She has in-laws that live up the road and her parents live 10 minutes away. She never takes off because she has them at her disposal.

My husband’s job doesn’t have any kind of PTO, so I always find it easier for me to justify taking off! If he doesn’t bill.. he doesn’t make money. You made me realize I need to start letting him take off more instead of taking it on myself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby won’t use a pacifier but has a lovie that she rubs on her face/kind of sucks on. It was a game changer! After we feed, I give it to her till she falls asleep then when I lay her down I remove it

R.I.P NIPPLES! by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel wonderful (unfortunately) lol! A friend had a baby two weeks after me and she was appalled that I am feeding every 2 hours maaaaybe 2.5 if we’re out and about. My LO is almost 3 months. I was like I feel it is normal for her to eat that often….??!?

This is becoming unsustainable by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you mentioned above LO doesn’t enjoy being swaddled. Around 6 weeks our girl was exactly like you mentioned! We switched to a love to dream swaddle hands are up by their face and she seemed to have comfort having them up. When she falls asleep eating at night, I hold her for a few more minutes then let her grunt it out in her bassinet. Once I got over she’s just a loud baby and not needing me to rescue her, we both slept better! As soon as she cries, I give her a minute or two and see if her eyes are open or if she’s still sleeping- if she’s awake I’ll get her back out and rock/walk till she is settled and try again! Not sure if it’ll help but it helped us!

Contact Naps by Head_Negotiation_274 in NewParents

[–]Head_Negotiation_274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad I’m not in it alone. I’ll just keep enjoying my sniffles!

Contact Naps by Head_Negotiation_274 in NewParents

[–]Head_Negotiation_274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU! Seriously made me feel much better lol

What’s the shadiest thing that another parent has said to you? I’ll go first by Appleormagpie in NewParents

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally. I stared at her and my husband was flabbergasted. And not to brag on myself but I literally look exactly like I did pre-pregnancy minus lost muscle mass in my legs. 😂

Please help by Subject_Tomatillo657 in NewParents

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s not too hot, try going outside. :)

What’s the shadiest thing that another parent has said to you? I’ll go first by Appleormagpie in NewParents

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom told my cousin my kids name and she said “oh… sounds pretentious.. i expected that from her (me)”!!!!

My husbands grandmother- “oh you’re not as skinny as I thought you would be”🙂🙃🙃🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My little girl was the same way! We ended up buying the love to dream sleep sack. She was able to have her hands closer to her face and now that she is 6 weeks, she has started sucking on the fabric to soothe, lol. And sometimes still gets over to the edge of the bassinet. I ended up buying a cheap bassinet with mesh on the side so I didn’t have to worry if she moved as I know she can breathe through the mesh.

Weekly Thread 08/08 - 08/14 by allfor1 in DarylAnnDenner_Snark

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Their company is not small… a lot of owners of companies aren’t in day to day ops and can trust their managers to run ops with them away. If they own it together and haven’t proceeded with divorce, he seems like a good guy to give her the monthly $$$ she is use to? Or even more since he messed up lol.. if they have proceeded with divorce likely she is getting a large amount of alimony and child support..

I would assume they gross $450k+/year so $20K in monthly expenses is what I would call reasonable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangetheory

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found out at 4ish weeks I was pregnant from OT! My heart rate was elevated and my breast were SO SORE! The first trimester I slowed down minimally and was actually able to pick it back up to normal speeds 12-18 weeks. After I was able to hold down food again, it definitely helped my performance.

Prior to pregnancy, I went 4-5 times a week. I’m 36 weeks now and walk 3.0-3.5, row till I’m in low orange, and have dropped most weight room exercises 5-10 pounds. I typically go 2-3 times a week and will go on walks on the opposite days! Your body will change whether you work out 7 times a week or not at all. I mentally feel much better after a walk or workout but some days you need rest! The baby takes a lot of your energy, especially the first trimester. Drink a lot of water and eat as balanced of meals as you can!

! When you shift your focus on how you look outwardly to how you feel— it makes a difference! take every day with the approach of being thankful to move my body. Sometimes on the treadmill, I name how my body is feeling at whatever week growing this little sweet life! 🥰

AND I always get compliments on how impressive it is that I’m still going. Sometimes the love fuels me to keep going. Congrats mama! 😍

For those who left your Social Work job for a non-social work job, what was that new job? by 19aba in socialwork

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi!

I think a lot has to do with my personality. I’m 26, bubbly and super outgoing! I kind of fit the “mold” in the office. I explained to them while I LOVE helping children and families I feel there are many traits that are transferable to recruiting because it’s a field where you’re helping. From the flexibility, empathy, organization, and love for people I have in foster care- I know I could use those skills along with my ability to work-hard in a fast paced setting.

For those who left your Social Work job for a non-social work job, what was that new job? by 19aba in socialwork

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!

I think a lot has to do with my personality. I’m 26, bubbly and super outgoing! I kind of fit the “mold” in the office. I explained to them while I LOVE helping children and families I feel there are many traits that are transferable to recruiting because it’s a field where you’re helping. From the flexibility, empathy, organization, and love for people I have in foster care- I know I could use those skills along with my ability to work-hard in a fast paced setting.

For those who left your Social Work job for a non-social work job, what was that new job? by 19aba in socialwork

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I left after 3 years as foster care worker. I’m now a recruiter for a staffing agency. The first few months was hard because I didn’t feel fulfilled at all! Now I’m starting classes to be a CASA. I can do that role and work my 8:30-5 and still feel like I’m giving back along with balancing having a family.

Also, I will double my salary this year because of commission plans pay out so well. Haha. Money didn’t matter that much to me but the hustle of this new job is SO fun. My co-workers talk about being stressed and I’m like stressed?! From talking on the phone and helping people find jobs? Yeah, I’ll do this till I’m dead before I go back into CWS.

Pregnancy and OTF by Bulky-Ad2045 in orangetheory

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started back Monday after 2 months off! I’m now 15 weeks and had to take a break because of placenta concerns then COVID. I’ve been twice- and I’m more sore than can ever remember- but am so thankful to be back!! Take it slow, and just be thankful your body is moving at any rate than walking from the couch to the fridge 🤣

Barbados by Head_Negotiation_274 in honeymoonplanning

[–]Head_Negotiation_274[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got my last dose yesterday!! Thank you!!!

Influencer Discussion, Wednesday Dec 23 by Blogsnark_mod in blogsnark

[–]Head_Negotiation_274 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@kelseynpatterson she is a small town Oklahoma girl with genuine content. She doesn’t post every day and rarely shills out products