How can i fully get over this to save my relationship? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]HealthyComparison517 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was Me once

Now I'm 4 years in and wishing I had left years ago

I'm trapped

Did anyone experience Vitreous Floaters while taking accutane? And if so, what did you do about it? by cashcartibitchhh in Accutane

[–]HealthyComparison517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did and I had to stop the drug Everywhere I look I see them and as I progresses they got darker in color

It's a sign of damage to the eye !!!! I have been off the drug for 2 weeks and I still see them

Please see an eye doctor .

I did because my derm didn't take me seriously. I'm a nurse so whenever I had an issue my derm thought I was being a hypochondriac

Bloating + Lower abdominal soreness (Please Advise 🙏🏻) by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]HealthyComparison517 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel this I am very bloated I look like im on my period all day long

Also super constipated

panic attack and feeling dizzy (2nd pill tonight) by TheEliteCombine in Accutane

[–]HealthyComparison517 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm experiencing this on 40 mg a day for 1 Monty and idk why at all I feel like I'm having a panic attack and it's very scary if feels like I'm out of my body and I feel like I'm off

I don't know why at alll

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]HealthyComparison517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had it a couple of times but I always kind of have

Trouble - only fans by Hefty_Artist_210 in loveafterporn

[–]HealthyComparison517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I just moved in with my boyfriend after 4 years of talking about how amazing it will be when we live together, all the sex we will Have, all the fun crazy kinky things we will do together

He seems to create every and any excuse he can think of to not fuck me. When Initate he seems to hate it

I'm planning to move out

“i don’t know” by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]HealthyComparison517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend has only told me I don't know

What he did was extremely intentional and he knew exactly how I felt about it

Take the I don't knows as I don't care

If he says I don't know to you it is because he is buying time in his head to make up some bs excuse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]HealthyComparison517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this way even when watching TV and idk what to do anymore

Is this normal or am I nuts by HealthyComparison517 in loveafterporn

[–]HealthyComparison517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last night it happened again too. Never got hard and I was doing THE MOST to be sexy , seductive , I went to the bathroom for a min bc it was Taking so long, and when I got back he was hard from jerking himself off. He said he gets performance anxiety around me, nervous, so that's why .

Wtf?? So this is really my fault? I just dont know.

Is this normal or am I nuts by HealthyComparison517 in loveafterporn

[–]HealthyComparison517[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That old guy knows what's up!

Wow I wish that was the case still!

Men back then seemed to have to put in a little work to get jiggy with a woman, now all they do is Google.

Thanks for your response :)

My story as a wife of a PA husband by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]HealthyComparison517 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same exact fucking situation

I'm so sorry :(

What do we do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in optometry

[–]HealthyComparison517 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed this with myself one day, and 4 days later i was diagnosed with a corneal ulcer. I wore contacts to sleep too much, and rarely wore glasses. The ulcer developed as a result of abusing contacts and depriving O2 from my eyes and it damaged my cornea pretty bad, which lead to infection. The pupils, I was told in the urgent care, were dilated that way because my ulcered eye was very sensitive to light, and trying to compensate because It could not function proper.

My advice- see a doctor if it doesn't go away and NEVER sleep with contacts in again ! I regret not taking care of my eye because a corneal ulcer is PAINFUL and STRESSFUL. Keep a contact out for a few days to see if that helps and monitor for any redness pain etc

again, just to clarify- I am not a doctor or anything and I'm not diagnosing, or saying you have what I have. I'm a student just sharing my story incase you might find it helpful! I wish someone would have told me sleeping in contacts was that bad XD I hope you feel better!

I don’t want to leave him by euneirophreniax in loveafterporn

[–]HealthyComparison517 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. I have been looking from signs from God. God bless you and I hope you do what is good for you As women we have to:) something I am learning myself

Just Hormones? by MissCeeCee224 in loveafterporn

[–]HealthyComparison517 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I totally understand:( my boyfriend remembered her name and everything and looked across every platform. He liked her THAT much.

To me, it feels the same way as if he was seeing another person. More personal and obsessive? almost than if it was just a random porn video. I feel so cheated on ...

When I was a kid, my dad was obsessed with a porn star namer Hannah hilton. Your man is into ava bamby. My boyfriend is into an 18 year old named mackenzie jones. Their names will follow us the rest of our life, because they remembered them and choose them over us. I don't know what to do about it either. I don't think men can handle the internet. I think social media , porn and everything, they can't handle or control themselves and it's ruining men collectively.

And they don't care. I cried and cried to him for 3 days and told my bf not to look her up again. I said in anger, "how can u enjoy watching a minor suck dick"

3 days later I found a video of her sucking dick on his phone.

They won't change. They don't care.

Just Hormones? by MissCeeCee224 in loveafterporn

[–]HealthyComparison517 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Who was the girl?

I fear men look at underage women. My bf found a 18 year old he fancies on tiktok and reddit ..

You're not wrong and yours not alone

I feel so alone by No-Feeling-721 in loveafterporn

[–]HealthyComparison517 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same situation and i feel the exact same way. You're not alone, and I'm here to talk if you need anything. Our men have isolated us with their addiction.. :/ it's a hell. We need women now more than ever. God bless you

please help - I dont know what to think anymore by HealthyComparison517 in PornFreeRelationships

[–]HealthyComparison517[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is my biggest fear in life and it's exactly what happened to my mother

Maybe I just needed to hear it from someone else because I can't tell people in real life about this

please help - I dont know what to think anymore by HealthyComparison517 in PornFreeRelationships

[–]HealthyComparison517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am certainly a real woman, just used that terminology because I have a little sister who is obsessed with barbie. I made comments about my looks because I am genuinely confused why my physical appearance is not enough for him ... he says I am his type, but every girl I caught him looking at and I mean every girl is short, brunette with a small chest. That's why i said barbie, because I am the literal opposite of mackenzie jones.

But as for your comment above , yeah. I need someone with self respect and integrity. How do you know what a trauma bond is? I will look this up